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Kiss and tell
My boyfriend is having guy talks with someone.. about our relationship. It's nothing bad.. just kissing and telling, you know? Like how i reacted to a french kiss or whatever.
But he's talking to my ex. [we went out for over a year] so it's really .. awkward? I honestly, don't want my ex to know what's going on with me..
my ex told me that he couldn't tell.. what their guy talks were about so he wasn't supposed to mention any of it in the first time.
I really want my boyfriend to stop having those talks with him. Is there anything I can do? I don't care who else he talks to.. just not my ex. :/
I really don't think it's any of his business. I don't want to be rude and tell my boyfriend to stop talking to him though. That would make me look like a bad girlfriend..
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your not going to be a bad girlfriend cuz you dont want your ex to know about your personal life.just tell your boyfriend simply"look you can talk to anyone else about it buit please stop talking to my ex about my personal life"if hes a good boyfriend hell understand
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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That's not rude at all unless you make it so. Tell your boyfriend nicely that what happens between you two is private and you would like him to stop advertising it to the world... esp. your ex! Your boyfriend needs to respect your privacy. If he's a good guy, he will stop immediately.
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Ask him nicely not to talk your business out with your ex and if he continue to do that,you will not be intimate with him anymore,that whatever you do with him should be private and he should not be running around telling your ex.
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ok telling him that you dont want him to discuss your relationship with your ex doesnt make you a bad girlfriend it just makes you human. Sit him down and explain to him that you are a tad uncomfortable with it and you dont mind him talking to him as long as its not about you. Also explain that you dont mind him having guy talks with his other friends about you it just feels a little awkward talking to your ex.
A little repetitive for an answer I no but i hope that I helped anyway and that it all works out.
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p.s. good luck x
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