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Crash & Burn.
okay make a long story short --
I met a boy last summer. He asked me out, I fell in love with him. I effed things up by making out in public, to affectionate, not hanging out too much. I was really stupid. So he dumped me a few times. We got back together everytime. 10/20/06 we broke up again, and that time we didn't get back together. I cried to weeks, and after a fews months I was 98% over him. Till he looked a me and smiled. I fell completely back in love.
He has been from girl to girl lately, and now he has a new girlfriend. I really want to go back out with him again. I was thinking about telling him [ how I really feel, and that I really messed things up, I'm still inlove, really sorry, and now I've comepletely changed and I want a second chance. ]Except telling him that online seems alittle pathetic and desprete. So I was thinking about telling him that in person. BUT HOW? I don't really see him in school much, and the only way for him to actually understand is in person. But I think he'll get the wrong idea if I actually show up at his house, or if he comes over him. But I want to be alone.
Or I don't know. I want to go back out with him, I miss him. I THINK i should tell him how I really feel.
What should I do?
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i woul definitly say tell him.or if you cant tell him in words write a letter to him.just say "i know that you allready have a girlfriend but if things dont work out i still like you,and im really sorry"
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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This may sound harsh, but as someone with experience in this, I think this needs to be said.
You should respect that he is in a standing relationship and MOVE ON! He has a girlfriend and that means he CHOSE to be with her. I have been on his girlfriends end and its incredibly rude for ex-girlfriends to not care about the current standing relationship. Try respecting it.... you might get mor erespect from him, in the end, if you do.
Now, if he becomes single aagin, then yes, talk to him in person and tell him exactly how you feel. Trust me, I understand this... BEEN THERE! Done THAT! Its not easy. Just be honest and tell him exactly what your thinking. You may or may not get another chance. Be prepared for BOTH outcomes! But, yea... school isnt a bad idea to START the conversation, but I would try getting him alone.
Hope this helps! But, trust me... let him be in his relationship for now. Noone wants to be the "other girl" trying to take someone's man from them. And... noone likes the "other girl". Its best to let it go... for now!
If your meant to be together, it will happen eventually. Keep your head up! Let me know if there is anything I can do!
*Heidi Marie
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I definately agree that you should tell him..however i must comment that it doesnt sound like you were a horrible gf to him the first time around. Well my suggestion is..
-maybe talk to him during school..i know you mentioned you dont see him..do you have any studyhhalls with him or lunch? If you see him before or after school and you are alone..stop to say hi..and ask..'do you ever think about me? do you ever see us together in the future? because i still have feelings for you..'
-if you want it to be in person you might have to show up at his house..or maybe call him first and ask if you guys can meet somewhere to talk
After telling him how you feel..leave the rest up to him..dont stop living your life..you gota at least tell him how you feel.but after that...its all up to him. i hope it all turns out good!
-meliss
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