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Help for Him I have an ex-boyfriend who is like a total jerk. (or at least everyone thinks so) He's really mean to me, but I feel sorry for him.
Well, he kinda has hard time with his family, and he has hard time to fit in at our school... and almost everyone hates him..
But I know that he really is not that bad and he just needs friends.
My friends always keep me away from him, well, maybe that's kinda because he's been following me around and messing up with my personal stuff with my (current) boyfriend. And now, I hear that my friends are going to do something to him. (I do not know what, but I think they are going to blame him on something he doesnt do or take something that is precious to him) and I dont want them to do whatever they are planning because he is just a poor kid who needs attention... and so.. I really do not know what to do.
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Try talking to your friends about it and tell them that if they pull something youll be backing him up 100% IF they do do something mean to him then be there for him, but first try to talk your friends out of it and tell them theres no need to do anthing mean ]
Stand up for him. Even if he's a jerk, he still shouldn't be treated like shit. Yeah, he's done bad things or whatever they think, but doesn't everyone make mistakes? Stand up for him, and if they rag on you for it, or give you shit, then they're dumb, and they don't know how to see past actions or fronts that people put up. ]
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