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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
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Well im sorry your at a loss of what to do. But please dont get an abortion. There are so many parents out there who would love to have children but cant.( This is the problem my parents had) Why not give the baby up for adoption and not only save the life of a child but help a family who isnt lucky enough to have children like you can? If you decide you really dont want the child please just give it up for adoption.
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I'm going to a completely different school. Nobody else from my school will be going to it. I made some really good friends this year, and I love them to death. But now that Im going to a different school, I'm scared that I will miss them so much that it will hurt. I've been hurt so much before that I don't want to be hurt ever again, so I've been trying to get them to say they hate me and never want to see me again, so that I wont really miss them as much. I know that they'll always stay in my heart, but I cant stand knowing that I probably wont see them again, since we dont really call or much, but rather talk in school. Should I continue getting them to hate me so I wont get hurt and neither will they (since they hate me)? Should I continue or not? If I should not continue, what should I do? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Getting them to hate you will just hurt more.Why would you want your last school memory to be of them hating you ? Just keep in close contact with your friends. Im friends with people at different schools and we talk on aim or phone and we see eachother a lot in the summer and a few times during the school year. It may have even made our friendship stronger because were not together all the time. Not being together doesnt cause as many fights. Also you will have way more to talk about when you do get together.
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im going on a cruise next month, (i go to a year round school and we have 2 weeks of at the end of april) and i'm worried that i will have my period while on the cruise. if i do then can i still swim? i canNOT put tampons in and if i swim in the pool will it stop "bleeding" ? (link)
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Well your period does slow down in the water but it doesnt completley stop. If its really heavy i wouldnt reccomend it without a tampon. If your on your last 2 days its usually fine though.
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if you kill yourself will you go to hell? just wondering, im NOT going 2 kill myself.
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Well...i think that question is hard to answer considering anyone reading your question hasnt killed themselves. i personally belive that just becasued you killed yourself you wouldnt butthats jsut my opinnion.
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I'm in the 9th grade and I really like this guy. Well, V-day passed and I didn't even bother asking him out or anything....and he didn't make a move either. I know that he likes me as much as I like him. Should I wait for him to make a move? and meanwhile, dress a little more...em..."open?" and flirt around to attract attention..?..or should I just ask him out? :S :S :S (link)
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If you think he likes you GO FOR IT !whats the worse that can happen? if he says no then thats his loss. I dont see whats wrong with a girl making the first move if a guys to shy.Good luck!
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Eh. I figure this question has been asked NUMEROUS times before...but I'll give it a try.
I have a (not-SO-serious) acne problem on my forehead, back and chest (a little tiny bit there). And okay....I used just about every acne medication on the MARKET to treat my forehead. (I'm not that worried about my back, since no one ever sees it anyways). Well yeah, my forehead. I used proactiv, acne-free, clearisil, clean and free (?? I think ???) Neutrogena, and COUNTLESS other brands. My forehead has like hundreds of spots of acne. They aren't bumps, they aren't like the red swollen ones...they're more like scar marks (pretty flat). I have NO idea how to get rid of them. Nothing works. I was forced to grow bangs out to cover up my embarassing forehead. Washing my forehead with soap doesn't work either, since it dries it out too much. I'm forced to do the horrible act of putting make-up on!!!!!!! It's AWFUL. Does ANYONE...ANYOOONEEE ;_____; have ANY advice....I don't care whatever it is. I'm willing to take ANY measure....since I'm so freaking desperate to get my skin cleared up ;_;
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From what ive been told off the shelve medications can even make your skin worse. If your having a big acne problem you might want to see a dermetologist to get oral treatment. Thats what i use and it seems to be helping.If you do see a dermetologist she can also perscribe you to use topical treatment as well.
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Ok..so right now I`m feeling UBER guilty. Last night, my sister told me a scret about her and told me not to tell my parents (nothing BIG or anyhing that can harm someone- like that she has a boyfriend now) and I just HAD to go and tell my 3 close friends
(-_-) And THEN i had this fight with one of my friends (who SWORE to god she wouldn`t tell anyone- and is RLY honest) and now we aren`t friends. I told 2 of my other friends that she was just joking (even though she wasn`t)..
now i don`t want to break the barrier and talk to the friend i had a fight with... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE HELP me i`m like crying v_v
THANK YOU SO MUCH in advance..!
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The secret isnt a big deal but as you know you shouldnt have told. I know i personally wouldnt tell a secret my EX best friend shared with me and if you trusted her enough to tell her then im sure shes faithful enough to keep it. If she isnt then youll have to talk to your sister about it if people start to find out. Hopefully this friend wont turn her back on you and spill
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well ive been going out with this boy for about a year now and i really love him, i do. We are best friend. but lately i have been having feelings for my ex. i cant help them and i dont know why im suddenly feeling this way. im not going to tell my current boyfriend because it will just ruin everything..can anyone give me any advice on what i should do? how can stop these feelings? why am i feeling like this? ughh its so fustrating! (link)
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Well i agree it will ruin things with your current BF soo you shouldnt tell him.Why did you an your ex break up to begin with ? If you think about that you might not have the same feeling for him as you are now. There was oviously something that wasnt working between you two and thats why it ended soo try thinking of that.
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well theres this 16 year old that i am best friends with and im only 13 but wel i really i mean really love him and i dont think he even you no even cares if i talk to him but hes always sweet when we do talk but i feel like im just invisable and im scarred to tell him how i feel cause then i think he might not even want to talk to me cause he knows one of my friends likes him and he dont talk to them hes nice and all but he only talks to me so im just scarred he wont want to be friends at all
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oeople change soo much between 13 and 16.Right now your just better off as friends and nothing more.If you tell him you like him your friendship may not be the same soo you should try to grow closer as friends fornow and maybe later on when your older you can become more.
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there was this guy i knew. i didn`t know him for very long, but he was soo chill. seriously. he was the best. he was pronounced dead early yesterday morning. i can`t stop cyring, and i don`t want my parents to ask about it because they don`t know that i hang out with guys like him, he`s.. well, a gangster. i just need to be able to stop crying, but i can`t. how do you cope with the death of a friend ? (link)
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Im sorry for your loss. Its hard to loose a friend at a young age but try remembering all the fun times you had. You could leave the house and that way your parents wont see you crying. Also my focusing on somethign else it will take your mind of what happened. Also try talkign to your friends about how your sad, usually friends are the best to talk to when your feeling down.
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I have an ex-boyfriend who is like a total jerk. (or at least everyone thinks so) He's really mean to me, but I feel sorry for him.
Well, he kinda has hard time with his family, and he has hard time to fit in at our school... and almost everyone hates him..
But I know that he really is not that bad and he just needs friends.
My friends always keep me away from him, well, maybe that's kinda because he's been following me around and messing up with my personal stuff with my (current) boyfriend. And now, I hear that my friends are going to do something to him. (I do not know what, but I think they are going to blame him on something he doesnt do or take something that is precious to him) and I dont want them to do whatever they are planning because he is just a poor kid who needs attention... and so.. I really do not know what to do. (link)
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Try talking to your friends about it and tell them that if they pull something youll be backing him up 100% IF they do do something mean to him then be there for him, but first try to talk your friends out of it and tell them theres no need to do anthing mean
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I have this friend who did almost everythin with a guy she even made out with another guy wen she was dating some guy and well im kinda with someone and she keeps tellin him tht she did all these things with a guy and wud tel only him not anyone else she even wanted him comin to her house a few times im worried she mite want something from him like being more then jus friends but i feel i mite be blaming her for somethin tht isnt there..i duno wat to think..thx (link)
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If your best friend if always trying t oget with your BF then tell her is bothers you when they spend alone time together. If shes a good friend shell understand that your not cool with it and back off. You also have to trust that your BF wont do anything with her either.
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ok i have this coolclose friend ive known for her for like 2 years (but i wish i knew her longer) and she told me that shes movng to Philippines this year 2 weeks before the school ends and i was shocked about it, and it pretty much makes me sad so much and also because shes like my good clos friend and all that how can i make myself not to be sad and cry? and what song describe about your friends is moving?
sorry im not good at english im from Japan. (link)
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Loosing a friend is always hard but if you try to keep in touch then you can still be friends. Try to think of the fun times you guys had and to think of how good it will be to talk to eachother whe you get the chance. Also try making a scrap book with the 2 of you so youll always have something to look at when you miss eachother.
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okay, this might be a stupid question but i just have to say something.
there's this guy i really like, i actually talk to him so i know a bit about him and stuff.
i see him in school and at the ice skating rink on fridays.
last friday i went to the rink with my friend. we were together for practically the whole time.
anyway, the guy i like, he kinda sorta flirted with us [i'm not sure if it was with my friend or me] and since i'm a flirt myself i most likely flirted back.
its just any guy i've liked has never liked me back. is it possible this time its different?
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He could tottally like you. Everyone finds someone soo your chances are as good as anyone elses. Try asking him to hang out outside of school or the ice rink and see what he says. Maybe he likes you too and youll have your first boy friend!
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what are some fun things you can do online (besides myspace, i had to delete mine cus of my parents)
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I had to deelte mine because of my parents too....but now I mainly talk on aim or go on addictinggame.com. Also when I get bored I go through and answer questions on this site
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I JUST turned 13 and i'm i'm around 5 foot 4 to 5 foot 5. Also I just weighed myself and i'm about 102 pounds. Do you think I can grow about 4 or 5 more inches before i'm like 20 so maybe I can be a model, maybe even before 20? Also, do you think i'm skinny enough? Please tell the absolute truth. ALso, my legs aren't STICK SKINNY. They aren't like chicken legs, but they aren't fat either. Do I need really skinny legs? (link)
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Im the same age an height as you and im staying the same but its different for everyone. As for skinniness i way about 30 pounds more then you,so i think your fine
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Okay...this is a really weird quesion....but how can i become a prep? (and i dont want to dye my hair...highlights are fine though) like i need tips on personality and looks. thanks:D (link)
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i personally dont think preps have a "Certain" type of personality. Me and my friends are preps and we are all completley different. As for the look , as everyone else is telling you preppy people mostly shop at abercrombie ,hollister and american eagle.
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