Question Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 10:26 pm
well ive been going out with this boy for about a year now and i really love him, i do. We are best friend. but lately i have been having feelings for my ex. i cant help them and i dont know why im suddenly feeling this way. im not going to tell my current boyfriend because it will just ruin everything..can anyone give me any advice on what i should do? how can stop these feelings? why am i feeling like this? ughh its so fustrating!
BriannaBaybee05 answered Friday February 16 2007, 12:30 am: i cant really relate to this at all. so i will try my best to give advice that might help. i agree with you though that you shouldnt tell your boyfriend that you feel these feelings for your ex cause it could ruin something so good and another year down the drain. i think your feeling like this just because of flashbacks. since you have a year with your boyfriend, you may think if you and your ex stayed together, would yous` make it this long ? where would you too be if you two stayed together ? something you will never. really i think its something you have to live with, you know how people say they loved someone but that person broke their heart ? thats life, unfortunally & we all go through it. im not saying these feelings will go away cause only god knows. but just know its normal to always have some kind of love in your heart for another person. maybe your first love ? who knows. just try and remind yourself that if you made it a year with the person your with now, he must be doing something right. he must be treating you the way you want to be treated and you dont want to ruin something that you are fortunate to have.
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