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so i have no date to a dance coming friday
and ive gotten my ticket , and i do know what
its like to not have a date .. but it just makes
me so uncomfortablee knowing its kinda like a
valentines dance ):
haah any tippps to not sitting at a table
with friends while a slow song is going up? (link)
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be forward you can only have so many school dances pretend like it s the last day of you life ask some one to the dance do you really think a guy is going to say no??
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How do you handle jealousy in your relationships. Not freindships, because i get jealous of my friends all of the time, but i handle that (sorta) but how do you handle jealousy with your boyfriends...i just dont know how...suggestions anyone? (link)
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first- You need confidence tell your self are buetiful and have no reason to worry
second- Trust if your guy loves you so much then trust him he wont break your heart if it is true love
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Well my sister just went off to collage and she has a lot of problems! When she still lived with us she would over eat then starve herself, and she drank underage and smoked! My parents would always yell at her but she still did it! I was always worried about her and still am!! What if she gets soo mad she cammits suicide!! IM SCARED PLEASE HELP!! I'm a 13/f!!
PS. She doesnt talk to me cause she thinks im stupid and sh already sees a tharapist but i don't think it is working!! (link)
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you must see things the way your sister does she see that
-im in collage
-i have parents who are to tight
-i have a sister a in my bisness
NOW what you must do is give her space and show her you care by sending her a letter
dont get in her bisness tell her how your going tell her you care about her and miss her and hope to see her soon
so even if she doesnt write you back shell know you cae and are there for her
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17/female:
I'm having a confusing problem...
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months (1 year in March). And for a while now I've been kinds thinking like where is our relationship going? Things aren't the same as they were in the beginning and I feel like i'm getting "bored".
I was rushed into the relationship because he fell for me straight away, so I guess I kinda went along with it and then grew to like him later on and hence why we stayed together.
Anyways I went away on holiday with my college to barcelona for a week, and Me and my friend were hanging out with these cool and REALLY good looking guys (that came with us but we haven't really spoken to before because we were new). She told me that she thinks one of them liked me but I thought she was just making things up and I just brushed it off thinking that he was only being friendly.
However when I came back from the trip, I get a text from him saying that he likes me and wants to go out with me. I told him I have a boyfriend and he's still interested.
The problem is that I really like him and I think that he's SOOOOOOO good looking and has a nice personality (really caring etc..). And i'm already going off my boyfriend so what should I do?
Should I dump my boyfriend and see what happens with this guy or what? Because even if I do dump my boyfriend I wouldn't just be doing it to go out with this guy.
Please help, sorry its so long! (link)
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i think if your board with him than you should eather spice it up
or
dump him if you board than your not meant to be because cuples live together for years in marage and dont get board
its what every you think but i hope you take this to mind
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i have been out of school for 2 weeks and will be out about another week because of medical problems . i really want to be homeschooled , but my dad threatened my mom saying that if she doesnt keep me in a public school then he will take her to court and get custody of me . so do you think my mom can go on and homeschool me or do you think my dad would be able to really take her to court and get me ? (link)
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hi im home schooled and i think that some one needs to tell you dad the beifts of home schooling you should also lisen to why he doesnt want you to home school and work out some thing that works between every one
"do you think my dad would be able to really take her to court and get me ?"
he might take you to court but he mostlikely wont win
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I have no idea if I have self confidence or not. Like I usually act like it.. I mean, I like myself and stuff.. atleast I believe so. But then sometimes like in school and stuff its kinda like.. its a fake confidence. Its kinda hard to describe it, but its like im acting like I have it, when I'm like kinda shy or not have alot of confidence at times. But im not usually shy, unless im uncomfortable in the situation or with the people im around and stuff. how can i overcome this? I'd like to just get over that and not have issues with my self esteem and stuff. also so i can make friends more easily.. because i find it hard to just let go sometimes, but it depends on the person im with though. thanks alot! im sorry that this is kinda confusing.. i'll add extra info if necessary. (link)
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"how can i overcome this?"-when do you feal pretyest?and then i want you to look at your self and see who you ARE
because girl think that the
way people see them is who they are
but thats not it at all
you need to step up and under stand what you wont out of life and how to get it
HEY WRITE ME at....... hanelizhow@yahoo.com
well talk more because i had
the same problem
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How do I know if im a good singer? I usually just sing at home when I'm bored, sometimes when my family is around, but usually when i'm like in a room by myself. I dont really mind singing for my family, but like how do I know if im a good singer? nobody in my family really knows that stuff and i wanna enter a competition in my school. i dont wanna get embarrased kinda like the people on american idol where they think they have talent when they really dont. :/ (link)
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trust your self to do good every one goes throught these omge am i any good moments
but if you can sing a song in a popular place with mild butter flys i think you should go for this singing thing and at least you find out
hope it works out
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i wish i had 1 best friend that i could share all my secrets with, and that would be like better than all my other friends and stuff. but most of my friends are just good friends and stuff.. but what do you consider to be best friend material? idk if we're more than good friends yet.. even the ones i've known forever. or maybe they are, but like i still dont think i've found someone that like completely blew me away and that i'd totally know is my best best friend. :/ how do i get one? How do i find one? im always hoping for a new kid in the neighborhood or in my class at school and that we'd click and become best friends. -sigh- what should i do?
13/f (link)
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best friends are people that come from no where they just happen
-most of the time some one you dislike and need to get to know better
-some times old pals
-some times friend that invites you over and BAM yall talk and share so mild secrets lke crushes to show that you trust each other and walla you got a bff
my advice is stop looking and get to know every one around you
YOU NEVER KNOW!
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I have alot of friends, but not alot of best freinds..people i wuld consider bffs. ANyways, i'll be talking to one freind and then another one will come and we'd all be talking, then the 2 would have to go to there lockers and would meet me at class or lunch soon, but i have a huge feeling in my gut they are now talking shit about me at there lockers. do you think they r or do u think that im being paranoid. becuase at times i feel they are since they are SOMETIMES during some convos before they go to' there lockers on each odd day b4 lunch, they sometimes say when i say outrageous things "your so weirdd *giggles alittle*". it seems after they leave that they are saying like 'omg shes so annoying. wowww"
PLEASE HELP! (link)
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you gut can miss lead you but you dont need FRiENDS that give you bad feeling right??
this is the way i see it if they talk to you about other friends
then whats stoping them from talking to them about you
you can always confront them but they might get upset SO......
so if you wont to really know if they are saying things about you...watch them and see if they talk about other friends to you
also...
you can tell if they keep blowing you off
makeing lame stories
if so move on find some REAL friends
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this will probably be long and im sry but bear with me. so i [16/f] have the sweetest boyfriend ever [17/m]. we have been together 7 months on valentines day. i love him so much, hes my first love and vice versa, but im so afraid im gonna get bored of him. why you ask? he never wants to do anything! all summer, my cousin, her bf, and us hung out at six flags pretty much at least once a week sometimes twice, and it was soo much fun. other than that weve been to the movies ONE time. and the rest of the time we sit at his house. ive suggested going to the movies, but he never wants to, and ive suggested going to dinner, and even my mom has offered to pay for our dinner, but he doesnt want to do that either bc 1- he "feels bad" if my mom or i pays [especially during the time he was unemployed], and 2- he considers the things my mom and i eat [longhorn, chili's, cracker barrel, etc] "fancy", and all he ever wants is burger king and crap. my mom mentions all the time how i have a boring boyfriend, and even he says that he doesnt want me to get bored of him, and the other night he said he knows id like to go out and do stuff and im probably used to that from previous boyfriends, and he said he'd start doing stuff with me, and said we could go to the movies saturday [yesterday]. so during the week i mentioned some things we could see and all he'd ever say is "i dont care" or "i dunno". yesterday rolls around and i said "do you still wanna go to the movies" and he was like "i dunno". i mentioned it probably 3 times and he kept giving the impression that no he didnt want to so i was just like forget it and let it go. it drives me insane because we never do anything. we sit at his house eating or watching tv or making out. i mean sure "chill" time is great but we go to different schools and i only see him maybe 1-3 times a week and thats all we ever do. and im afraid i will become bored enough to the point that i break up with him, and i dont wanna do that because i really do love him. but in 7 months, weve been on 1 date. he didnt even come to my birthday dinner [at longhorn]. the main reason was because when we all first got there he was on his way back from the store or something with his brother. but even when some of my family offered to LEAVE the restaurant and pick him up, he kept beating around the bush about it and in the end didnt come. and my whole family was like wtf? according to him hes gotten "accustimed" [whoah i spelled that wrong] to not eating out at "fancy" places and now doesnt prefer it. about the movies, who knows. and theres nothing else to do in this town. ughh, help? neither of us drives btw.. i have a license but no car, and he has neither. (link)
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THIS MAY HURT..
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but if he really loved you he would do what ever you wanted and WOULDNT blow off your b-day
i say tell him that
and
if he wont change hes not the guy for you -sorry
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I have a best friend he's totally cool he's nearly sixteen..We trust each other a lot i can open up to him about anything...Espeicially things at home and stuff
Me and him have such a laugh its untrue..haha :D...I had troubles-he listens and thats what i need a good listner
I say a problem and he says the answer and its exactly how i feel we've known each other for more than a year!!:)). And then our friendship has grown and grown we are soo close..:)
I dont know how i feel..
Help me ! (link)
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how do you feal
or
how does he feal
if you can open up so good ask him how he feals about you relationship
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is it bad to pretend your happy when inside your totally broken inside? Is it wrong to change or just be happy because people are tired of hearing me cry? Is it dramatic if you cry yourself to sleepover somethign you thought was real? (link)
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1-is it bad to pretend your happy when inside your totally broken inside?~(yes you know that your broken now fix it)~
2-Is it wrong to change or just be happy because people are tired of hearing me cry?(these people dont really under stand you and you need to be opened up so the hurtness can be heeled)
3-Is it dramatic if you cry yourself to sleepover somethign you thought was real?(that isnt to be answerd by me you have to look in side and if was "real" would or should it have broken or fell apart )
hey email me please i would love to talk more
hanelizhow@yahoo.com
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Two nights ago i was out with some friends and we wanted to call my "bff" to see what she would say. she is now going out with my brother and it ruined our friendship. she was say that she used me to get to my brother and it really bothers me. and saying that she wanted to fight me because she knew she would beet me up. i dont no what to do now she talked about me behind my back. i am confused and i would like to have someones advice. thank you
Chrissy19 (link)
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tell your bro.....
show your brother that she is bothering you and im shure hell rethink there relatoinship
or
you talk to her and tell her it hurt to be used and that you dont wont to fight you just wont every thing to be ok
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How do you start and keep a convo going? (link)
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ask Q's every one likes to be lisened to
tell funny storys or intereasting news
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my best friend is dating my crush of three years-- she knows that i like him. infact we almost dated last year but some things happened and it didnt work out. ive never liked someone as much as i liked him, she knows that. she acts like she forgot. what should i do? do i want someone like that in my life? (link)
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it all depends on WHY it was you say it didnt work out
but as far as your friend goes shes useing you so just dump her because you diserve better
and about this boy be his friens because one day hell see her for who she is and youll be there for him to come to
and/or
dont wait there for him if he likes you hell come running
TRUST ME guys like a girl that doesnt need
them like he needs you
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recently i've been falling for this guy i've known a while. we began talking over myspace ALOT and sometimes i thought he seemed to be really into me. he gave me his phone # and I did too..
Well now last night it seems like him and his ex got realy close and something "happened" between them by the joyful looks and (link)
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NO you should not give up
you should write or call this guy and ask him how he feels about the whole ordeal if he loves her all you can do is be there for him
but......if its you! girl than youve got your MAN!!
he totaly likes you tho so i think he'll
say yeah let me know how it works out (hanelizhow@yahoo.com)
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here's the deal, i grew up in a upper class family and have bene kind of spoiled my entire life. and i like it... but the thing is i cannot live a life like that when i'm older if i'm not a) a doctor b) a lawyer c) a scientist, engineer, business, something along the lines of that! but i'm not interested in any of that. i want to be a celebrity, like a lot of other girls. but i know that cannot happen since it is 1 out of a million. or i'd like to be a fashion magazine editor (also hard), nutritionist, yoga teacher, makeup artist, etc.... all of the above either doesn't pay alot at all or is one out of a million. i don't know what to do. in order to become any of the "good jobs" i have to get into an IVy league (i know i don't have to, but there's alot of pressure). sooo, help? (link)
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ok if thats your dream totaly shot for it because
you shouldnt go for anyless than your DREAMS
try you best to do IT
go to adishions
be in play
shoot for the stars my friend
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My ex dumped me cause she wasnt felling it, Any way I want her back but she likes for othere guys, and just wants to stay freinds. I cant live without her she is the love of my life, and I cant let her go. She already has a date to the dance with one of the guys she likes, and I was with on of my freinds the othere day and we were walking threw the hall and she so us and I had my arm around her and my ex gave the othere girl like a dirty look. Anyway I want her back relly bad but she just wants to stay friends soo how doo i get her to like me in that love way? i need help thanks
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hi, people are going to tell you that you cant cange her mind BUT if you truely love her youll do any thing and this is it............
YOU MAKE HER JELOUSE!
ok so pretend you dont need her and when she thinks your over her you do somthing totaly romantic like: poem,flowers,candy, any thing REALLY romantic
it has to work
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