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Confidence
I have no idea if I have self confidence or not. Like I usually act like it.. I mean, I like myself and stuff.. atleast I believe so. But then sometimes like in school and stuff its kinda like.. its a fake confidence. Its kinda hard to describe it, but its like im acting like I have it, when I'm like kinda shy or not have alot of confidence at times. But im not usually shy, unless im uncomfortable in the situation or with the people im around and stuff. how can i overcome this? I'd like to just get over that and not have issues with my self esteem and stuff. also so i can make friends more easily.. because i find it hard to just let go sometimes, but it depends on the person im with though. thanks alot! im sorry that this is kinda confusing.. i'll add extra info if necessary.
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You have to be reasuring of your self, tell your self that you look good and if anybody says any different that they are jealous. Many people have issues with their self-esteem, I am one of them. I always tell myself before people can have confidence in me I have to have confidence in myself. That is true how do you expect someone to trust your decsions if you don't. It's okay to have a "fake" confidence, people like to see people who are confident in them selfs, and after awhile people will grow to that "fake" confidence and start giving you compliments. That will bring up your self-esteem. Trust me be confident in yourself and other people will see it.
Most people find it hard to open up and talk to new people it's not an easy thing. A good way to meet people is through your friends and their freinds. Don't be shy when you meet new people because the chances are they are going to wait for you to talk to them. Thats how most people are.
hope I helped & good luck with your confince
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"how can i overcome this?"-when do you feal pretyest?and then i want you to look at your self and see who you ARE
because girl think that the
way people see them is who they are
but thats not it at all
you need to step up and under stand what you wont out of life and how to get it
HEY WRITE ME at....... hanelizhow@yahoo.com
well talk more because i <u>had<u/>
the same problem
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