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are my freinds back stabbing trash talkers
I have alot of friends, but not alot of best freinds..people i wuld consider bffs. ANyways, i'll be talking to one freind and then another one will come and we'd all be talking, then the 2 would have to go to there lockers and would meet me at class or lunch soon, but i have a huge feeling in my gut they are now talking shit about me at there lockers. do you think they r or do u think that im being paranoid. becuase at times i feel they are since they are SOMETIMES during some convos before they go to' there lockers on each odd day b4 lunch, they sometimes say when i say outrageous things "your so weirdd *giggles alittle*". it seems after they leave that they are saying like 'omg shes so annoying. wowww"
PLEASE HELP!
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everyone has that paranoia and its pretty logical considering the way girls behave but in truth no one can really tell if their talking trash about you except them. but be careful who you trust because they can hurt you.
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you haven,t specified your gender... how ever i believe you are a female..
A little while earlier i also used to think like this...this a common feeling among ppl...basic thing i found was that i was lacking self confidence... may be you are also passing through the same phase... all you need to do is have confidence in urself, believe in yourself and let the dogs bark... recognise ur positives and make a clear picture of yourself in your mind...
remember that however and how much you try you will come across many personal comments like these... just dont give any importance to these things...
also there might be times that what you feel is not exactly the same... so dont go by the gut that the guy says bad about... however if he really does so he is not worth your friendship...best of luck
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you gut can miss lead you but you dont need FRiENDS that give you bad feeling right??
this is the way i see it if they talk to you about other friends
then whats stoping them from talking to them about you
you can always confront them but they might get upset SO......
so if you wont to really know if they are saying things about you...watch them and see if they talk about other friends to you
also...
you can tell if they keep blowing you off
makeing lame stories
if so move on find some REAL friends
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I dont know the full situation but if they are calling you weird and you dont trust them then those people arent you friends..so loose them
edit well then they arent your friends..so find new ones..dont stand for that crud.
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