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Question Posted Sunday February 11 2007, 9:20 am

recently i've been falling for this guy i've known a while. we began talking over myspace ALOT and sometimes i thought he seemed to be really into me. he gave me his phone # and I did too..

Well now last night it seems like him and his ex got realy close and something "happened" between them by the joyful looks and <33333333333333333333333 in their comments.
and she told him shes feeling like she used to with him. and i guess hes kind of going along with it.

idk what to do. i really liked this guy, should i give up?


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Additional info, added Sunday February 11 2007, 9:21 am:
what i mean is she told him shes having feelings for him again..

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jena4lopez answered Sunday February 11 2007, 9:51 pm:
dont get involved. this happened to me. some ex got in the middle of it and she got messed over. youll just screw up everything and itll be a big mess :/ so try not going for it if they still have feelings.. let it go..

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karisue answered Sunday February 11 2007, 4:13 pm:
Guys are dicks sweetheart, they really are. My boyfriend of 17 months just broke up with me & i know what it feels like to just be dropped like you were nothing in the first place.

Your best bet is to move on, as hard as it will be, its what you need to do. If he's hurt you, then later on, he may do it again, and again. I'm sorry but it's true.

good luck

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hananfriend answered Sunday February 11 2007, 3:07 pm:
NO you should not give up
you should write or call this guy and ask him how he feels about the whole ordeal if he loves her all you can do is be there for him
but......if its you! girl than youve got your MAN!!
he totaly likes you tho so i think he'll
say yeah let me know how it works out (hanelizhow@yahoo.com)

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the_sweeter_heart answered Sunday February 11 2007, 2:56 pm:
Well, it's really best to not dwell on your feelings for this guy, because if you hang on to emotions for so long, you can't get over it easily. He and his ex seems like they're going to get closer. I'm not going to sugarcoat things for you. But I'm sorry. Hang out with friends. Watch movies. Listen to music. Find other guys. Do a lot of activities to get your mind off of him. It's not that hard if you don't hang on to him that hard. Let it go.

If this guy does really like you, he'll ask you out and just have the ex around as a friend. And that's great! Hope you have a happy love life then!

xoxo
-Jenny C &hearts;

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christina answered Sunday February 11 2007, 2:18 pm:
If you like him, tell him. And if he likes you, he'll kick his ex to the curb & go with the one he really likes. But if he ends up going out with her, then you know he's an idiot & missed out something good. His loss, not your's.

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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Sunday February 11 2007, 2:05 pm:
if you think he`s worth the fight, then fight for him. if you don`t think he`s that special and you can find someone else like him, the give up.

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