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Never seeing friends again
I'm going to a completely different school. Nobody else from my school will be going to it. I made some really good friends this year, and I love them to death. But now that Im going to a different school, I'm scared that I will miss them so much that it will hurt. I've been hurt so much before that I don't want to be hurt ever again, so I've been trying to get them to say they hate me and never want to see me again, so that I wont really miss them as much. I know that they'll always stay in my heart, but I cant stand knowing that I probably wont see them again, since we dont really call or much, but rather talk in school. Should I continue getting them to hate me so I wont get hurt and neither will they (since they hate me)? Should I continue or not? If I should not continue, what should I do? Thanks in advance.
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make more friends. and dont be that "oh, me and my friends did this back when.." person that no one likes.
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Getting them to hate you will just hurt more.Why would you want your last school memory to be of them hating you ? Just keep in close contact with your friends. Im friends with people at different schools and we talk on aim or phone and we see eachother a lot in the summer and a few times during the school year. It may have even made our friendship stronger because were not together all the time. Not being together doesnt cause as many fights. Also you will have way more to talk about when you do get together.
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I don't think you should be telling them to hate you, because then you still know that isn't true. I think that if you really care for them, just try to keep in contact with them. Through internet, e-mails, ims, phone (even if you don't call much- you can try now?). I am still friends with people who've moved to different states far far from me. Technology helps a lot these days. Good luck, and don't ruin your friendships just because of distance, you never know what the future holds.
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