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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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hey, i just got my period in the beginning of September. today i got a lot of discharge does that mean my periods coming back like really soon? I already know cause of my cycle it will be back soon but idk if the discharge meant ne thing....

thanks
Please let me know asap!! i rate 5`s (link)
No. Discharge always comes in-between your actual period cycle, and at times it will be heavy, but it doesn't necessarily mean that your period will come the next day. If you know that your period is coming soon, that's good, but the discharge amount doesn't have anything to do with it!

Love ya!


My girlfriend says we should see other people, but I'm schizophrenic, does that make me other people? (link)
This is a very confusing question...


Well in a few weeks I'm going to see Green Day in concert (this is my first concert EVER) Anyways, I was wondering, how much does they're merch. cost basically (like a shirt or hoodie) cause I just wanted to know how much to bring. (link)
I'm thinking that their merchandise can run from about $10-$100 depending on what exactly you buy. You should probably just bring about $100 with you if you're not sure what you're going to get!

Have fun! =)


Hey I wanna be a barbie or a posessed barbie for Halloween; can anyone give me tips on what clothes 2 where; make-up; hair; im 5 feet, brunette w/ blonde highlights, skinny, hazel eyes.
thanx:) (link)
For Barbie, this is what I think you should look like:
1.) Wear a long blonde wig.
2.) Paint fingernails and toenails bright pink (maybe even get longer fake fingernails)
3.) A short, tight, pink dress.
4.) Pink high-heels!
5.) Matching purse...

Hope these will help you! If you need some more tips just drop one in my inbox! =)


i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do? (link)
When he tells you that he wants to hook-up with you, then hook-up with him! Especially since you two have already liked each other for about 5 years, you're probably destined to be together! Your two friends might be a little angry with you, since they have crushes on him, but just follow your heart and you won't go wrong! =)


what are signs your going to get your period soon..? .. i rate u high! (link)
Having discharge for awhile (the clear sticky substance you see in your underwear), maybe mood swings and grouchiness, and last but not least: CRAMPS! =)


whats the average age to get your period ? (link)
The average age for a girl to get her period is between 9-15 years old! =)


i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks. (link)
No! I definitly support inter-racial marriages! Skin color or background shouldn't affect true love! =)


hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!! (link)
You should confront your boyfriend and ask him why he's going around hugging and getting all comfortable around other girls. Tell him that it makes you feel like he doesn't like you and that you can't trust him as much anymore! =(

Sorry...Good luck, honey!


This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
Here is what I think:
1.) You get butterflies in your stomach everytime you see them.
2.) When they smile or look at you it just completes your whole day.
3.) You want to spend every free moment with that person.
4.) You can't stop thinking about that person and if you two would have a future together.

I feel like I'm in love with this guy now and this is kind of how I would explain my feelings and I hope I helped you! =)

...I might add some more later when I think of it so keep checking!


i relle liek this guy but i no he likes my friend and my friend always gets all the guys and i meen i have boobs but the other girl has even bigger and liek every 1 says im gorgeous but how can u think that wen no guys liek you? are my friends just being nice... (link)
You probably are gorgeous, sweetie! =) You just need a little bit more self-confidence. Bigger breasts definitly don't mean that a girl is prettier and that guys will like her more. It's all about your personality and if you're friendly toward the boys.

If someone says they think you're beautiful, just simply say "thank you"...because you are! =)

If you need some more advice just tell me - sorry it took so long to write back, so much homework and all! =(


Hi i'm the girl that asked about is it normal to not have ur period yet at 14 and everything. anyways yea but i have been getting discharge for a while tho and i still havent started...is that still normal? thanks! (link)
Yes! You'll have discharge for probably up to a year, but it really is different in every girl because we all have different bodies.

Just be prepared for when your period comes, which could be within the next few months!

Hope my advice helped you! =)


14.m 8th grade... wuts the best kind of gum to chew before makingout with sum1 (link)
Orbit...any mint flavor (spearmint, wintergreen, peppermint)! It lasts the longest, and, in my opinion, tastes the best! =)

Have fun!


whenever anyone starts to kiss me i always freak out cause I don't know what to do and I pull away, what's wrong with me? (link)
There's no REAL way to kiss, so don't be afraid that you're going to do it wrong. You just have to overcome your shyness, sweetie! You're very lucky to have people come up to you and want to kiss you, you should take advantage of that and kiss them back! =)

Good luck!


One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.

Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up (link)
I don't think you should let your friend have this girl, since you two seem to obviously have feelings for each other already! Ask her who she wants to be with, since things seem a little bit confusing, but don't just "give her away" to your friends if you really like her!

Tell her that you want to know who she likes and that you really like her =)


well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP! (link)
Well, pads usually come with a really sticky liner on the bottom so if you just stick that to your underpants they shouldn't come off!

Also, the pads with wings help to keep them more secure =)


my best friend and my ex boyfriend have done stuff before and they still like each other on and off. and thats the same for me and him, but i want to do stuff with him but i dont want my best friend to find out and get mad. should i do it or just forget about him? (link)
I think you should find a new guy to do stuff with because this one has just been using you and your best friend for fun and the games should stop! Also, you shouldn't be sneaking around your best friend! =(

Just forget about him and move on! =)


okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance. (link)
First of all, you SHOULD talk to your mom and ask her if you could get a FEMALE doctor, especially at your age, to make things a little bit more comfortable! =)

Also, it's perfectly fine not to be getting your period yet, most girls get it between the ages of 9-15 or 16. So, maybe you have even two more years period-free! Consider yourself lucky!

But, if you currently have discharge, then your period will come within a year! =)

Hope my advice will help you!


hey im 13.m 8th grade, i still like this girl that i went out with about a year ago, were still really close friends but whenever i try and tell her how i feel about her she thinks im jokin or juss tryin to mess w/ her.. tell me how i can get her back plz (link)
When you talk to her, just say "I really need to talk to you about something." Then, she'll probably get the feel that it's something more serious than just flirting. Tell her that you still have strong feelings for her and love being around her and would really like to give going out with her a second chance (most girls love the mushy stuff, hehe)!

Just tell her that you really like her and that you're not joking when you say it! =)

Tell me how it turns out & good luck!


Okay I asked a question before about boners before. :/ Please dont delete this question, I need some opinions. When a guy gets a boner is his penis supposed to go up or straight. Somone told me its a sign of cancer. :( Is that true? Or does it have something to do with age? Help please!!!! (link)
Umm...His penis is supposed to stiffen and go up straight when he gets a boner! =)




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