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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
[x]yz??? look down idiot!!!
[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

advice

is it supposed to hurt when u take out a tampon .. cause when i do it hurts really bad..

it hurts me...but just relax when you take it out, it might also be that it's dry! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about?

i think you should try and get to know her! you guys could end up really good friends! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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About a couple of days ago I got an e-mail from my boyfriend's sister. She told me that he tryed killing himself and he's currently in the hospital for blood loss. I'm blaming myself for all this. He told me he loved me a week ago or and I rolled my eyes and blocked him. Because we've been fighting for awhile. One of my friends told him I didn't love him, but mixed up the converstation when he should have said I didn't know if I had the same feelings for him anymore. My boyfriend took it the wrong way because I do really love him. Problem is, his family doesn't know if hes going to make it. I have no way to get to see him, because he's on the other side of Canada. (He moved). We've been together for 3 years. I know this is all my fault and I think about it everyday and been crying all the time. I don't know what to do. ANY help would be GREAT!

DON'T BLAME YOURSELF! that was his choice to try and kill himself! there could be another side to the story of why he tried to, but it's not your fault! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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I hate school so much! Like its crazy how much i hate it. So does anybody have some advice on how i can enjoy it more? Or at least get some kind of motivation to do my work. Its not really school i hate, its just the work part of it. Please help, thanks.

well if you find that one subject your really good @, and you always get good grades in that class, then it could motivate you to get more good grades and you'll eventually like doing the work because you know your good @ it! hope this helps!

~alyssa

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ok well i really did like this guy...he will be guy A...well we talked like 4 or 5 times and just stopped. he wasn't really my type anyways. well the next couple of days we didn't talk or anything...then this other guy ...he will be guy B...started to spread ors and say that me and guy A were going out. it really made me mad cause we aren't and it also made guy A mad cause we aren't. and now a lot of people don't like me cause they think i'm saying that we are. and i'm not. do i get all in guy B's face and make a big seen and embarrasse him since he did that to me... or should i call guy A and tell him that i never said anything like that???

just tell him that it was a really jerky thing to do...and if i were you, i would get up all in his face and give him a taste of his own medicine! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this...

i wouldn't go out w/ him if i were you! if all he's interested in is sex...then he's soooooo not worth it! especially if you want to remain a virgin until your freshman year! hope this helps!


~Alyssa

P.S.-i wouldn't ahve sex until after high school if i were you!

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I was wondering if anyone knew any web-sites where they have hair cut idea or picutes of diffrent like hair styles. Thanx a bunch! xoxo - KrIsSy*

i don't know any websites...but they have a bunch of magazines that are all hair style based! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...

don't have an abortion! if you love that baby that's the last thing you want to do! i would just be a single parent. if your mom is going to support you, then you need no father figure around until your older! hope this helps!


~Alyssa

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I'm 20 (F) and the type of person that usually panics when somebody wants to know about by feelings. I'm not very much leaned into emotional blabberings.

I have been in a relationship where we don't see each other much but agreed to fix our lives (school, family etc) first before we go head-on a serious relationship.

My problem is - How, as girl can I control my feelings of longing to be with that person because I don't want destroy that future plan and disturb his pleasant present because of by my present needs (wherein in all the years of my life, its the first time I've felt this confusion)?

Well maybe you could call him, and talk to him so that way you could @ least hear his voice! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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i have this friend. shes nothing like me, and follows me around everywhere. i've tried to deal with it, but its really annoying. ive told her several times how i felt , but she still follows me and stuff. i guess i kinda feel sorry for her. only im tired of it. should i move on?

you need to tell her again, maybe she didn't get the message... but you shouldn't move on. if it continues, then yea, move on! hope this helps!

~alyssa

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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??

you can't really it to be "love" until your an adult.

~Alyssa

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I always wished I was fatter I'm so skinny and all my friends can wear tight jeans and juniors clothes and I'm stuck in 10/12 in pants and 14/16 in shirts. The 10/12's are even baggy, I can't fit in 8/9 because they are to short. How can I gain weight? I know I have to eat but is there any other ways?

Your right! you do have to eat but don't consume so0o0o0o much food that you become fat-fat! just consume enough until you think you are happy! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH!

If i were you i would just leave it alone and see what happens! and if it keeps growing, tell your mom or dad to take you to a doctor to get it looked @! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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do yall know any GOOD face masks you can make like with just everyday stuff in ur house? thanks

of you mix kiwi,orange,and oatmeal it make your skin sooooo smooth!! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Hey, I'm a 17 Male from TN and I need a little help on how to deal with my brother. We are ferturnal Twins and a pretty close. He is a heavy drug user, smokes pot usually about twice a day and takes other drugs with it like Adderal (which he is not perscribed to). He's been doing it for around a year and a half now. He drives while hes intoxicated about everyday. He's been to Juvy, had his car taken away at least 3 times, and been on probation, but he wont quit!.

I want to tell my Mom about all hes doing, but it would ruin my relationship with him and would probably make his friends and my friends hate me (because we are twins we have a lot of the same freinds). Also, hes been in trouble so many times and hasn't changed that if i tell on him he might not change because of all the other times hes been caught. His life is in danger though and I might be doing the wrong thing by not telling him, but a lot of people need to choose by themselves or they won't quit. So I don't know what to do.

You need to tell your mom about this!! he may be mad @ first, but he'll thank you later! trust me!
Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~

OMG!! this is very serious...i think that you need to tell somebody about this... i strongly urge you to! She may seem mad now, but she thank you later, trust me! Hope this helps! and may God be w/ her and guide her to the right choice!

~Alyssa

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I wanted to know is it okay to go out with your best friends Ex boifriend?? I knida wawnt to go out with him. But she says it is okay and totally fine with her but i am afraid that might do something to our relationship? Should I go with him or say no because of my friend???...

DON'T GO OUT W/ HIM!!! your best friend might say it's ok...but like you said..it could definetly do something to your relationship w/ your friend. Maybe tell him that you can't because you don't want things to be all messed up w/ you and your friend. tell him your can still be friends though!! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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is it normal for a girl to have hair on her nipples?

Yes it is, you have hair on every part of your body, some is darker than others! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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I really love the laid-back, hippieish, original style of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen...
Does anyone know where to get clothes that look alot like theirs for not too much money...I'm really not into spending 200 dollars on a teeshirt:-P

they sell Mary-kate and Ashley clothe @ walmart.

~Alyssa

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I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks .

Well...you could ask the teachers @ your school to maybe tutor you before or after school. and as for the depressed thing, it's probably just stress. if there's something that you need to get off your chest, or a secret that you have, that could be the cause of it. Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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