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To start off, this will be extremely long. I will appreciate it greatly if you take the time to read this, and tell me your feedback. So here it goes.. (Ready?)
19/f
This is a long distance relationship.
Well, it started when our 1 year anniversary hit (Nov, 2008). I call him to give him hints about it and he finally figures it out. So I ask don't you care? He says only 2 year anniversaries and up matter.
So it hit my birthday, which was April 6th. He promised me multiple times he'd call me at the set time of 8:30. He doesn't have a cell phone, just a landline right now. So I said ok. I waited at the phone for two hours then suddenly give him a call at 10:30. He picks up and I yelled at him why the hell didn't you call? He said he forgot. And then I said well fine lets talk now then. He said he can't he wants to watch a tv show instead. So yeah I started to cry and said you'd rather watch a tv show than talk to me, especially since it's my birthday?? He said yeahh. So I called him a jerk and hungup. Cried over it the rest of the night of course.
Then he sends me a letter by mail, it was a card. All it was, was a card with a cat on it, I open it up it ends up being some religious card, and at the bottom it says happy birthday. And on the side he wrote you think I am a jerk but I am not. Look at the back, and I find out this is a card he found with a stack of the same cards. And said nothing about he loved me or anything, and expected some sentimentality on it. Showed a couple of friends and they laughed and said yeah, that is pathetic.
So I call his mom upset and said tell her to tell him don't even bother calling me for awhile until he straightens up. I tell her the story so she's obviously going to yell at him.
So, two weeks pass. He hands out the same excuses: "I'm too tired to talk", "I'm eating", "I'm going to bed", "I don't want to talk"... I try calling him. But he doesn't want to talk.
Distraught, I call his mom. I tell her what's going on since we're pretty close. She said she'll try talking to him but she is sure nothing will work. I seriously recommended military school. She tells me his uncle got him into drinking (possibly drugs), so that can explain his anger and apathy. He just wants to sit around all day, drink, watch tv. He doesn't want a job (he's 19), and when he did have interviews he cancelled them. For what reason I don't know. So I broke up with him. It was very hard..
So tonight, after giving him the silent treatment for a few days. I finally give him a call to see how he's doing. Of course I care about him and love him. I worry about him, even though we're not together. I don't know how it started, but we began to fight. He said he wasn't drinking, but he was yelling at me, telling me to f**k off, and I was with my good friend so he assumed I F***ked my friend behing his back. Which isn't true!! I never cheat!! Would never do it! He also threatens me with a gun, and threatens to beat my friend and i up, along with having his uncle to help. I cried hard. I am scared. He's done this before.. but not this bad. And these threats were heard over speakerphone so a few friends heard it as well.
What should I do? Who should I talk to? He lives in TN; I live in OH, so how can this be resolved?
Thank you again for reading. It means a lot to me.. I just need some advice!
Look at the facts here. You are the one who calls him. All the time. When you do call him he always gets off the phone because he would rather be doing something else. He sends you a card that someone would send to a friend or someone they werent very close with. Im not trying to be mean here sweetie but it sounds like hes really not into you. He makes no kind of effort and doesnt even want to talk to you most of the time. Get rid of him and find someone else who is actually into you and wants to spend time and talk to you. Your wasting your time with this guy. You can find someone much much better and you will be happier when you do.
Iam 20 years old and iam a female my boyfriend is 21 years old and we have only been dating for a week and he's alredy asking me when we are going to makeout and have sex and he says he's the kind of guy who is very sexually active and I told him that I just don't think iam ready for that kind of serious relationship that he wants especially since the last time I had done something sexual with a guy when I was 18 which it was only oral sex so iam still a virgin but the guy hasn't talked to me once since we had oral sex and iam afraid if I do this it will happen to me again what should I do?
Dont do anything until you are ready. Dont ever let any guy, no matter how much you like them, talk you into doing something you dont want to do. If he really cares about, he will wait until you are ready and support your decisions. If you give in when you are not ready, you will regret it.
15-f
alright, well ive had sex with 2 girls before and the rest have been guys. i thought after i went through that little stage i was done, but now i really think that i might be bi. i always find myself turned on by girls, and girls always like me. plus, i get along with guys alot as buds and kind of have a sense of humor and dress not-so-girly... ughh i dont know. i have aboyfriend now so i really cant experiment without it bein cheatin cause i like it. so i dont really know what i can do. how should i go about this, to find out if im really bi without doin anythin with a girl? or does it sound like its pretty much already decided?
I am bi myself and it sounds to me like your probably bi. But honestly, dont worry about labeling yourself. Dont sit there and wonder, am i bi or am i straight? Do what makes you happy. If you want to be with a girl, be with a girl. If you want a guy, be with a guy. Your only 15. You have the rest of your life to figure out what your sexual orientation is. And plus, since you are young, it could just be curiosity. Straight women can be attracted to other women. So my advice to you is just relax and dont worry about it right now. Do what makes you happy. You dont have to explain yourself to anyone.
Do you know of any medical conditions (besides depression) of which two symptoms are chronic fatigue and back or body pain? I appreciate any answers, whether you know of one or several. Thanks.
The only thing I can think of is Lyme's Disease. I dont know what your other symptoms are but look into that and try going onto webmd.com. they have a thing where you can put your symptoms and it matches possible illnesses with them.
Okay, so I've got Mono. and my doctor said I can't go to school for at least the rest of the week, and I can't do gym or sports for the next TWO MONTHS! but does that include sex? Like is it safe to have sex with Mono or no?
All answers would be greatly appreciated, but please let me know if its a guess or if you know for sure.
Thank you SO much!
Mono is very contagious. Having sex while you have mono can pass it to whomever you are having sex with. So unless the person your having sex with wants mono, I would suggest not doing it until the mono is out of your system.
So my friend is considered a so called "slut" just because she had sex with her boyfriend, i dont care if she did or not. But everyone is telling me she's not innocent. Am i just not looking correctly?? By the way im only 13 n a half and so is my friend.
A slut is someone who sleeps with multiple people carelessly. Having sex with one person does not make you a slut, no matter what age you are. It might not have been a good idea for her to have sex at your age, but she is not a slut for it.
So technically, you are right and whoever is calling her a slut is just being stupid.
Hey im 17/f and i have a court hearing to go to on May 13th at 8am. Its reguarding my ex boyfriend and i charged him with stalking. I have a restraining order on him and stuff. But like 2 weeks ago i IM'd him and told him i wanted to give him all his stuff back. So he agreed to meet me. My mom found out about this, and shes afraid that im going to go to jail for filing a false police report even though he was stalking but because i broke the restraining order. Im very scared. I dont want to go to jail. My mom then asked me why i didnt just throw out the stuff instead of giving it back to him and i really dont have a good answer. I just didnt think about it. But does anybody have a good answer that will like make it sound good to the judge and jury? Thanks ill rate every answer!
How will the judge even know that you guys met up? He will only know if someone tells him.. so dont tell him. And I dont know that the laws are in your area but where I live, the person who has the restraining order against them is the one that cannot contact the other. For example, my step mother left my father about a year ago and got a restraining order on him. She can contact him. But he cannot contact her because that would be breaking the restraining order. If your ex boyfriend doesnt have a restraining order against you, then you should be fine. He is the one that is in jeapordy of getting in trouble. But like I said the laws might be different in your area so I would just check up on that. You should be able to find info on it if you google restraining order laws + your area.
16/f bf 16/m
me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up last week. yeah we were in love. he said the reasons we broke up were because we fight too much and that hes at the point where he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me anymore because its stressing both of us out. but he said he still loved me and wanted me to always be in his life. he also said it was going to be hard for him to get over me. so we ended with that and talked the whole next week of spring break. things seemed to be going good as friends n stuff like he even said that i was the only person he trusted and that he didnt need anyone else. but then we got back to school n everthing crashed down. hes always been a flirt even when we were dating and before he was the biggest player in school. all the girls are in love with him and were so happy when they somehow found that we broke up. well me, my ex and this one girl he always used to hook up with are all in the same class. when we got back to school my ex didnt say anything to me. he had said that he wanted space when we broke up but we had still been texting n stuff so i didnt get why he was ignoring me. but i gave him space. it ticked me off that he was ignoring me but i wasnt going to let it get to me. HOWEVER, everytime i looked at him and this girl they were ALL OVER eachother. it looked like they were having sex with their clothes on practically. this made me SOOOOOOOO angry and i wanted to go punch her. plus me and this girl are friends. not best friends but still friends. then i heard him saying stuff to her like stay after school with me. and after school they both walked together with his arm around her to the staircase which is where he would always take me to make out and stuff because no one ever goes there. i was so angry and jealous and annoyed. i really couldnt believe it, it seemed like he didnt care about me one bit and yet i love him so much. i think if he had any respect for me at all he wouldnt do that or at least not in front of me. but maybe i am just iver reacting. i mean we are broken up i guess. but still, i could never even think about doing anyhting with another guy for a long time. its going to take me a while before i get over him because he meant the world to me. so i dont know how he could just go and be ready to hook up with everyone the next week. i just dont know why hes doing this or what to think. please help
Sounds to me like he is enjoying the single life. He may have continues talking to you and being nice over spring break becasue there was no one else around. But now that your back in school there is tons of other girls that he has access to. He might still have feelings for you but he is making it pretty clear that he is not interested in being in a relationship with you at this point. You best bet is to get over him and move on. Enjoy the single life just like he is. If someone is going to be careless with your feelings like that, then they are not worth your time anyway.
i'm a female who is 20 and my two best friends i talk about in this are both 20 and gay.
About six months ago, i was having a HUGE fight with my best friend. The next day I asked my other best friend if I could come and stay the night because i was just emotionally a wreck and he knew the whole entire story. He said yes, so after he got off work at 11 i went down to stay with him. He's gay and has been my best friend for about a year and a half now. my other best friend (the one i was fighting with) is gay also.
anyway, i went to his house which isn't unusual, considering i'd stayed at his house a million times before. he has a little twin size bed and we usually cuddle in it and go to sleep. well, we were laying there and i was facing the wall and he was facing the same way with his arm around me, again, not unusual. being best friends, we're always grabby and joking all the time, usually with other friends. I'd seen his, he'd seen my breasts but not the other region. so we're laying there and then he starts putting his hand in my underwear trying to feel it and saying he wants to touch it...blah blah. i'm laughing and saying no..
and then finally, idk why, but i decided to let him. at first it was just kind of experimentory, but then he started really getting into it. so he ended up "doing things" to me down there for about an hour. it was really intimate with kissing...etc.
we've talked about it and he has told me time and time again that he honestly cannot even answer for himself why it progressed the way it did.
i think maybe there is something about it that he's not saying. there has to be a REASON right?
any advice is GREATLY appreciated.
You know how straight people, especially females, will experiment will other women. Not because they are gay or bisexual, but just to expirament? Well, it could be just like that. Just because someone is gay doesnt mean that they can only hook up with the same sex or not be curious or expirament. There doesnt necessarily have to be a reason for it.
Or, maybe he subconsciously has some sort of feelings or attraction towards you. Again, he can be gay, but still be attracted to women. Or he can be gay but yet for some reason develop feelings for a woman. Even if its just a little crush. The way I see it, people develop feelings for a person. Not a gender. Gay men can develop feelings for a woman and lesbians can develop feelings for a man. You cannot control your heart.
There could be a number of different reasons as to why this happened. You said that you guys have talked about it, and thats good. So I would just leave it at that. If he has something to say about it, he will say it sooner or later.
listen i know it's long but please out of the kindness of your hearts read me and help! i rate high for well thought out advice and i seriously one confused 15-year-old individual!
I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
WELL my friend ariel whos friends with him asked him if he ever liked me and he answered yea i did!!!! OMG! i got so mad he did like me and now i can't have him....or maybe i can
well now just recently he got his phone again but since we don't talk it's not like i can ask for it or anything and idk if it would be weird i know he wouldn't think its weird but if i asked my friend for his number this is how i know this information! and anyways i've been skipping my 2nd period on A-days to go see him in his study hall but he never goes to school but tomarrow im pretty sure hes gonna be there should i try talking to him in there for the first tie in months??? or what please help!!! LO(i'm)VE
If it was me, I would get his number from a friend and txt him. Since its the first time you willt alk to him in months, txting will aleviate any akwardness and you can get out what you want to say. Also, if he likes you, getting a txt from you out of nowhere would be a very nice suprise. It would probably make his heeart skip a beat.
I would start out just by saying "Hey long time no talk.. How have you been?" And then you can ease into talking about the two of you and his girlfriend. As far as his girlfriend goes I woudl just say something like "So I didnt know you have a girlfriend" and see what he says. Sometimes people just stick with their girlfriends because nothing else has come along and they dont really have a reason to break up with them. They are content. Who knows, you could be his reason for breaking up with her.
I think its very commendable for you to have said that you accepted his girlfriend and like him too much to take awar his happiness. But whos to say he's happy with her? Its a dog eat dog world out there sweetie and you have to go after what you want. If you want this guy, GO AFTER HIM! Trying is better than wondering what if. And if he is not into you or doesnt want to leave his girlfriend, then you can accept that. But dont just accept the fact that he has a girlfriend. Who knows, he could be sitting at home wondering what would have happened if the two of you kept in contact. Give it a shot.
Good luck sweetie and I wish you the best!
ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing???
Bulimia is a serious condition that needs to be dealt with. It can cause tons of health issues down the line.
http://bulimiasideeffects.com/
You need to listen to what your friends are saying and get yourself some help. People can die from being bulimic because of malnourishment. Its not something to mess around with.
First step is to tell your parents whats going on and get yourself some help.
Okay, so my boyfriend and my 2-year anniversary is coming up. I am getting him a dc sweater. I think I might be writing some poetry about him too. I am not sure what to get him as he says he wants nothing for the 2 yr or he says he just wants me but I really want to get him something.
About him:
- He doesn't like chocolate
- He can't wear cheap gold/silver b/c it bugs his skin
- He has all of the cds of the bands he likes.
- Can’t do a scrapbook because he hates pictures and I don't have enough for a scrapbook.
- I’ve already bought him movies, clothes, etc.,
I will rate every response and thank you soooo much for your help!
For me and my ex boyfriends 3 yr anniversary I made him a little book of 100 reasons why I loved him. The whole thing was hand made and I sprayed it with some of my perfume before I gave it to him. He loved it. Or make him a coupon book full of things like 1 foot massage, 1 homemade dinner cooked by you, or 1 strip tease.
But if you guys arent that mushy maybe you could get him tickets to like a sports game if hes into sports or cook him dinner. Or even if you just bake him his favorite dessert and bring it to him. Or plan a special day for just the 2 of you. Like if he's into outdoor things take him hiking and pack a picnic.
For anniversarys I like to do things that are more from the heart rather than buying things. But thats just me.
ok so my best friend seems and i are extremely close.she knows well everything about me and the same goes for me and about her.well it seems as though every time i tell her i like again she seems to be crushing on the same guy lets say a day or two later.she even sometimes tells me the same day i told her.it started about last night at first it didnt bother me much.we are some kids and boys dont phase me.but then she started doing it to my other friends.even our one friend who rarely admits her feelings or such.thats when it started really making me mad.then i got over it.well now i like this guy new guy we will call him pretzel boy(he works at a pretzel shop haha) he is 17 and im gonna turn 15 in a few months so only a few months.well now she likes him and my other two friends who dont really do that.one of them being the girl who dont show her feelings.well she did a complete 360 and is totally the oppisite.now they are commenting/messaging this boys myspace saying how sexy they think he is and flirting with him.well it really gets me mad.i really just want to know what i can do maybe to help my problem.
thank you :)
You friend might be jealous or envy you. Maybe she feels like if she goes out with the boys that you like, then you will be jealous of her.
Try talking to her about it. She might not even realize she does it. And she cant do anything about it if she doesnt know its bothering you.
If she continues to do it even after you told her its bothering you, then wait until she tells you she likes someone, and then do the same thing to her. Maybe if she sees what it feels like she will stop doing it.
I have a beautiful, sweet girlfriend and I am very happy with her in every way. She is a black belt in a martial art though. We are both in our early 20's. To make a long story short the other week a friend of mine asked if she could show him some self defense techniques. She said okay and asked him to try to grab her. He did and next thing she had put him on the ground.
My girlfriend is as feminine and nice as any girl, and my friend is about my size and I am 181 cm weighing 81 kgs – and I work out several times a week and I’m a strong guy. My girlfriend is 166 cm and weighs about 55 kg. I realize now that I was naive, underestimated her and that I had some subconscious macho attitude – but fact is I never would have thought that my girlfriend could take a guy down like that, even though I of course knew she was a black belt. I was completely shocked that she could take down my friend like that. Then I got to try grabbing her, but somehow within a second she had put me on my back. I just couldn't believe it. Then for a couple of minutes we took turns in trying to grab her and we did our best to wrestle her down, but it was simply impossible. She put us on the ground again and again as if we weighed nothing!
I think it’s so cool and good that she can defend herself like that. BUT: this was also the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me – by far. I don’t want to feel that way, but I do. Her martial art was basically created so that a smaller person would be able to beat a bigger and stronger one. I understand that now and I admire her skills, but I still can’t help feeling embarrassed. I'm so much bigger and stronger than her - and she's a girl!
How do I get over this? Considering that she is a black belt maybe I shouldn't even be embarrassed - but I am...
You shouldnt be embarassed. As you said, her martial art is meant for smaller people to be able to defend themselves against bigger ones. The reason why she can toss both of you around like a rag doll is because she is trained in the art. You are not. If you were, you might be able to beat her.
You only feel embarassed because she beat you in something physical and you, being male, feel like you should dominate in that area. But if she beat you in a singing or dance competition, you wouldnt care. And I'm sure she doesnt see it as "she beat you and you lost". You guys asked her to show you some techniques. She did exactly what was asked of her.
You should be proud of her. Not many women are able to defend themselves in that way. At least you dont have to worry about her if shes out alone late at night. And if shes a black belt obviously she's been doing it for a long time. That shows dedication and shes hard working and those qualities are good to have in a partner.
16/f me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now. i love her and she loves me, but recently i met this girl 12/f and we hung out everyday this week. i cant stop thinking about her. she hugged me the otherday and i just melted away, now i cant stop thinking about that too! my gf met her too, we met her at the same time and she thinks shes cool.i dont understand why i cant stop thinking about someone who is 4 years younger then me and im not single!! what do you think i should do??? ps im sorry but i dont wanna tell my gf... thats kinda out of the question. thankssss
Im not trying to mean here or anything but come on. your talking about a 12 year old here. thats like 6th grade. its really kinda creepy and gross. please do us all a favor and stick w/ your girlfriend. and the other person that answered is right. chances are its illegal.
is there such thing as temparary dreads?
because i kinda wanna dread my hair but i dont know if it would look good and im not possitive so i wanted to try it out
any suggestions?
I have never heard of temporary dreads. Dreads are basically your hair all matted together in chunks. To get them out you have to shave your head. So I dont see any possible way to have temporary dreads, unless they dont really look like dreads. I dont know if your a boy or a girl but if your a boy I saw go for it and if you dont like it shave them off. No big deal. But if your a girl, I wouldnt do it just because of the fact that if you dont like them. your screwed and have to shave your head or let them grow out which looks like crap.
For prom I have picked out a multi-colored dress , is that okay? Because for most, alot of girls pick out one prom dress that is only one color. I want to stand out, but I'm kind of scared to wear this dress to prom. It is a prom dress though. So is it okay to wear a prom dress that is multi-colored or is it too over the top for prom?
(P.S.) This is not my prom, this is my boyfriends prom.
Multi colored is absolutely fine. I wore a multi colored dress to my prom a few years ago for the same exact reason, to stand out. And trust me, once you get to prom and you see all the girls with plain pink, blue, yellow or whatever color dresses that look exactly the same, you'll be glad you did something different.
ok so like i have this boyfriend and whenever we're making out and kinda leads my hands to his waist. which is kinda feminine and he makes it kinda obvious that he wants me to grab his ass sometimes and i'm just wondering, whats up with that? like why does he like that? and should i make it a point to grab his ass like more? just like casually? Or would that be weird for a girl to do....
Its not weird at all for a girl to grab a boyfriends ass. I used to do it all the time. If you feel weird doing it at first, start by just putting your hands on his ass. Once your comfortable with that, then you can grab.
Girls have a tendency to think that guys dotn like stuff like that, which is totally false. Guys like to be held, have their asses grabbed, complimented, etc. They like alot of the same stuff that us girls like. Be casual about it, it shouldnt be a big production.
15/f
Alright well my boyfriend of two months has lied to me twice before. I got over it and we started over and he told me he would never lie to me again. Well i always have people come up to me and tell me things about him and if they have heard anything nad about him or something bad he did. Today, someone came up to me and told me he went to a party not to long ago and got drunk. The thing is, he never told me he went to a party. When i confronted him about it, he said he only stayed for 15 min. and somebody put whiskey into his mountain dew and he didnt know about it. He got drunk by "accident." So i was really hurt that he didnt even tell me this and he said he didnt tell me because he didnt want to lose my trust. Well according to that stroy, he already has. I still like him a whole lot and i dont want to break up with him but he cant be keepong stuff like that from me. He needs to tell me these things and it hurts when he dosent. He knows this and i have told him. Now, i have no idea what to do. Please help asap. thanks!
Im telling you from experience, he will keep lying. They might be big lies, might be small lies, but either way they are lies and they damage trust.
His whole story about someone putting whiskey in his mt dew and he didnt know is bull. If someone put whiskey in his drink he would taste it and if he didnt then they only put a drop and he wouldnt get drunk off of it. Even if someone did put it in his drink w/out him knowing, he had to of tasted it and kept drinking. So please dont believe that story.
Its up to you what you do from here but if you stay with him, chances are that he will continue to lie and oyu will continue to find out. Now the decision is if your willing to deal with it or not. Im not going to tell you what to do but if I was you, I wouldnt deal with it because your young and you can find tons of other guys that are honest in their relationships.
(this is kinda hard to explain. hope you understand if you dont ask me)
okay so theres this guy that i went out with and we broke up because we argued a lot. and were still friends. we hang out like a couple times a week. and everytime we do hang out, we make out, and other things like that. and he wants to go farther, but i told him im just not ready. the other day we were hangin out and we got pretty far with things. farther than i had wanted things to go. and he started to undo his pants and then undo mine. i got scared and kinda pushed him away. then he grabbed me and was holding me cuz he realised he had pushed it to far.
well for some reason i want to go out with him very badly but he told me that its better we stay friends cuz we dont fight as much. and the other night we were talking about how i wanted to be with him. and he was like you know it will make our relationship a lot stronger if we just had sex.
im not letting him push me over.
so i guess im asking....
what should i do??
any help is great
please and thank you
-cuttechick24
Sounds to me like this guy is just trying to have sex with you. Saying that you guys shouldnt go out because you fight less as friends is bull. He just wants to keep his options open.
I'm glad that you said your not giving in. Dont. It seems like you already know whats going on. Just use your head and dont be naive. Guys can be very good at taling girls into things they dont want to do.
I understand you may really like this guy, but dont let yourself get hurt. Tell him that if he just wants to be friends, thats fine, but friends dont hook up.