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bi?


Question Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 8:48 pm

15-f
alright, well ive had sex with 2 girls before and the rest have been guys. i thought after i went through that little stage i was done, but now i really think that i might be bi. i always find myself turned on by girls, and girls always like me. plus, i get along with guys alot as buds and kind of have a sense of humor and dress not-so-girly... ughh i dont know. i have aboyfriend now so i really cant experiment without it bein cheatin cause i like it. so i dont really know what i can do. how should i go about this, to find out if im really bi without doin anythin with a girl? or does it sound like its pretty much already decided?

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BeautifulMessXx answered Wednesday April 29 2009, 12:40 pm:
There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. I don't think you'd have to experiment with girls to actually see if you are in fact, bi. But it's what your mind, body and heart tell you. Not to sound sentimental, but it is. Because hooking up with a guy or girl can feel good, but that doesn't tell you if you are bi or not. If you enjoy looking at girls, getting turned on by them and hooking up with them, then you are more than likely Bi. But I'm not the one to tell you that, you have to tell yourself that. There's nothing wrong with it!
Good Luck!

-Jess (BeautifulMessXx)

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elw5039 answered Sunday April 26 2009, 12:04 pm:
I am bi myself and it sounds to me like your probably bi. But honestly, dont worry about labeling yourself. Dont sit there and wonder, am i bi or am i straight? Do what makes you happy. If you want to be with a girl, be with a girl. If you want a guy, be with a guy. Your only 15. You have the rest of your life to figure out what your sexual orientation is. And plus, since you are young, it could just be curiosity. Straight women can be attracted to other women. So my advice to you is just relax and dont worry about it right now. Do what makes you happy. You dont have to explain yourself to anyone.

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Darby answered Sunday April 26 2009, 11:34 am:
If you've had sex with girls before, it sounds like you are bi. If you often get turned on by girls, have sex with them, and want to experiment more with them, I would say you are bi.
Hope this helps

-Darby

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