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best friend stealing all boy intrests?
ok so my best friend seems and i are extremely close.she knows well everything about me and the same goes for me and about her.well it seems as though every time i tell her i like again she seems to be crushing on the same guy lets say a day or two later.she even sometimes tells me the same day i told her.it started about last night at first it didnt bother me much.we are some kids and boys dont phase me.but then she started doing it to my other friends.even our one friend who rarely admits her feelings or such.thats when it started really making me mad.then i got over it.well now i like this guy new guy we will call him pretzel boy(he works at a pretzel shop haha) he is 17 and im gonna turn 15 in a few months so only a few months.well now she likes him and my other two friends who dont really do that.one of them being the girl who dont show her feelings.well she did a complete 360 and is totally the oppisite.now they are commenting/messaging this boys myspace saying how sexy they think he is and flirting with him.well it really gets me mad.i really just want to know what i can do maybe to help my problem.
thank you :)
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I think you need to talk to her and let her know that she needs to understand how bad this is making you feel, and that friends should come first, especially best friends like the two of you. If she doesn't want to to listen to you or do anything about it, I would tell her that you two can't be friends anymore, considering she needs to change.
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You friend might be jealous or envy you. Maybe she feels like if she goes out with the boys that you like, then you will be jealous of her.
Try talking to her about it. She might not even realize she does it. And she cant do anything about it if she doesnt know its bothering you.
If she continues to do it even after you told her its bothering you, then wait until she tells you she likes someone, and then do the same thing to her. Maybe if she sees what it feels like she will stop doing it.
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