Hi everyone... I've got a Psychology degree so I like to think that i know a bit about how people think and why they do the things they do- maybe i don't know a thing, make up your own minds! Also i work with a youth group of girls aged 10-14 so that helps too! Anyway ask me anything no problem too big or too small and I'll do my best...
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Okay here's the story, me and my bf have been together for over two years now and it's getting to the time where I need to decide on a college there this is one college that I was looking into because it had a an excellent animal sciences program but it isn't exactly close and I would have to live on campus. He told me that he couldn't handle me being far away and if I left that he would break up with me. Now there is a school closer to us that I could go to but then I'd have to pick a different major. So wait I am trying to figure out is should I go or should I stay? (link)
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you need to look after your own interests especially education wise. So if this course is the best one for you you should go there. You need to talk to your boyfriend and say this to him and that you'd really love to stay with thim but this is the rest of your life you're talking about and this course is ideal for you. Long distance relationships can and do work if effort is put in. If he still says that he's split up with you then is he really worth it? If he really really cared about your interests then he would support you and it doesn't sound like thats what he's doing. Good luck
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What are some quick and easy things to do to pass the week quicker? I have a huge event i am so exited about Saturday and i need to Pass up Thursday And Friday fast! What are some easy fun ideas? Let me know.. Anything I dont care games, websites, things to do in your room, im not pickey just times slowing down after a FAST week!!!
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i'll say it again http://www.i-am-bored.com !!! its fab!
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i want to no were you get shirts that have the cookies monster on it,and on the butt it says yummy! Or something like, care bears but its totally hott! anyone no any places? [[ps--i dont have any mounds yet,so i need smaller sizes,]]
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Go to ebay and type in cookie monster shirt- there's loads its just the link is too long for me to paste in! Similarly they have care bears ones too!
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Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks... (link)
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I think the question here is what exactly does she hate about you drinking with your friends? Is it because she doesn't like you drinking alcohol, or she doesn't like your friends, or she feels left out when you go out or what? When you know the answer to this then you can work it all out with her. Ask her why she doesn't like it and ask her that you really would like to sort things out you just need to know why she hates it so much. Then, depending on what she hates so much about it you can try and talk it through with her and think of ways to minimise her feeling like this. the best way to do this would be to try and talk it through together. Try and be really understanding and avoid an argument at all costs. If an argument does start say quietly to her that you would rather just TALK about things as you really want to sort it out as you hate upsetting her. Good luck!
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ok ... so my mom said that if i loose 10 pounds shed give me 100 dollers!! the problem is..i dont know how.. i cant exercise regularly cause i never have time im always doing soemthing and i cant really eat special things cause one weekend im with my dad and one day during the week i am with him...i dont kno what to do i need HELP! what could i do to loose weight??????????? thank you sooo so much! OxoxO
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Cut down on carbohydrates, eat as much fruit and veg as you can- try just having fruit either for breakfast or lunch and a balanced meal for dinner. Avoid sweets, fried food, fast food- all that sort of stuff. If your mom is being so encouraging why not ask her for some advise? Also tell your dad what you're doing- he'll be really supportive and make sure that the right sort of food is in the house!
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So here's my story i've been in love w. this kid for 2 years we broke up about a year ago, but im still in love with him. He still enjoys hangin out with me when were around alot of other ppl, but we've talked nd he says sometimes he doesn't know how to act around me. Which i feel the same about him. Recently he's gotten a new girlfriend they've been together for a while now, but sometimes on speacial occasions i call him nd she throws a fit or when im hangin out w. my cousin nd his brother ( who have been together for a while) he likes to hang out w. us, nd his girlfriend gets upset.But i think he's with you if he wanted to be w. me don't you think he would? so she has nothing to get mad about, right now were just friends. However she's going off to college in a few months nd he's still gonna b in high school. They've both told me that they don't see them being together when she leaves,because many complications nd i know he still cares for me or else he wouldn't stick up for me when i call or whenever we hang out,nd he's even told me that mayb after she's been gone for a while nd they've beeen seperated after a while he could see himself w. me,because of his feelings nd all that we've been through together? nd i don't know wiether i should believe him. I don't know how he still really feels about me. But he's changed he used to be the type to get mad if u asked how he felt but now he's completly honest about everything. What do i do? Do I talk to other guys nd still wait a few months till she goes away? or should i totaly forget about the 2 years nd all the memories we made together? (link)
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Be wary- if he really did like you surely he would split up with his girlfriend right now! It sounds as if he has the intention of getting back together with you once his girlfriend goes away, but thats the only reason. He only wants to be with you because she's going away. And that means he sees you as second best which is really really unfair on you. You don't want to feel like second best anyway do you? I think maybe you should leave your relationship with him in the past as it sounds like you'd just be his girlfriends replacement and nobody wants to feel like that. Good luck
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Where could i buy a treadmill? and approximately how much do they cost? (link)
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http://buy.ebay.com/treadmill you probably don't want to get something like this of ebay but it might give you an idea how much they cost!!
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Omg, can anyone help me? It's almost 3 in the morning where I'm at, and my gum's hurting really bad. It's in the back, where I used to have wisdom teeth. I got them taken out way back in Oct. and haven't had a problem since. It's not my tooth, it's my gum, but I don't know. I don't think it's gingivitis, because it's not red at all. I checked for anything there, like food, but found nothing. So far, I've tried brushing my teeth and using rinse, but that didn't help. I took some painkillers about a half hour ago, but it hasn't helped much either. Does anyone know what this could be? And what can I do to stop the pain? Thanks so much, I'll rate.
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Toothache sucks i had it all last week until i went to the dentist! That really is the best thing to do - ask for an emergency appointment and they'll sort you out right away probably with some antibiotics. In the mean time i found that rinsing my mouth out with salt water helps any infection (if you have one) from getting worse. To prevent the pain if you're already taking pain killers continue, and try either holding a hot water bottle next to it or a pack of ice to numb it- it worked a treat for me! Hope you feel better
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I'm really bored, and sick of the websites I've been viewing. Does anyone know any cool websites that I can go to? Thanks! I rate 5's for helpful answers! (link)
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www.i-am-bored.com is excellent and is always changing!
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well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. we're both 14 and pretty conservative. im not sure what everyone else does but im not sure where we should be in our relationship. if you have any experience with this at all, any help is greatly appreciated. (link)
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What everyone else does in their relationships is totally up to them and has nothing to do with your relationship to be honest!! There is only a problem if either one of you is unhappy with the way things are going in the relationship. And that doesnt sound like it is an issue. It sounds as if maybe you're only worried about what other people are doing and maybe what they would think if they found out? That totally doesn't matter as no one's going to find out anyway if you're both happy with the way things are going. Take things at your own pace you'll be much happier!
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okay. i like this guy alot! And my friend asked him if he likes me. He he said "no.....just as a friend". but she says he said it funny (like he was lieing)
And, i dunno 2 move on. or keep flirting. *because when he flirts-i flirt/when i flirt-he flirts.
Do i give up or what? (link)
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If he's flirting with you then definitely keep flirting with him! It sounds as if he just needs to pluck up the courage to take things further! Could you maybe ask your friend to ask him again and get her to say something like "are you sure cos i really thought you did" and see what he says! Good luck
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Many people on this site say they've been fingered and I don't know what that means or how it works. (I don’t want a lot of details if it’s something too creepy) (link)
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Being fingered basically means being touched inside a girl's knickers. Hopefully anyone who goes round saying they're doing it is in a stable relationship and of an age where they can handle the consequences!
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Im having real trouble with this girl. We both love eachother but there is a problem of being 450 miles away from eachother! I'm almost out of high school and shes still got one more year. we dont know how we're gonna work with that. i want to be with her more than anything but i dont know what to do. please give me some help....I'm really lost on the matter. (link)
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Im in a long distance relationship and it can work if effort is put in- it really can. If its meant to be it will work and as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder! Anyway its important to try and set aside dates when you will see each other either weekly if possible or monthly and that means you always have her to look forward to. Also make sure (if it needs to be said- it probably doesn't) that you both have the same view of seeing other people. If you want to be with her in the long term then obviously you'll agree to be monogamous. Be honest with her that you want to stay with her and say how much she means to you and how you really want to stay together. If you both have the same positive attitude towards this then that would be a great start! Good luck
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Okay, about a month ago, me and my boyfreind did some stuff together. (more then kissing) I told him not to tell ANYONE because i really didn't wanted a bad reputation. I knew i made a mistake by doing this with him, but it was too late. Well just today, i found out that he told one of his freinds aaron and one of his freinds jimmy. Jimmy told me that him and aaron wernt the only ones who knew and that my boyfreind told alot of people! So when I confronted my boyfreind about all this, he denied it and said he didnt tell anyone that they were just rumors. I told him that even if they were rumors, they were still true and someone had to know about it. So i broke up with him and told him it was for my reputation and i didnt want people to think i was a big slut. He went off on me telling me i was wrong for doing this. Is breaking up with him a good or bad thing to do. Remember, this is what people will think about me for a while. I need help! (link)
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Well basically do you like the guy? If you do and are upset about you two splitting up then you were probably wrong in breaking up with him as it shows that you value what other people think more than the relationship. It is also possible that he hasn't told anyone and it is just rumours. On the other hand if you would rather not be called a slut than go out with your boyfriend then yeah you made the right decision! Just think about whether you trust him or not as relationships are based on trust and if you really think he said what you two had been up to together to his friends then you can't really trust him and probably shouldn't be together until he learns some maturity. Good luck
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Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 (link)
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www.i-am-bored.com is fantastic and always changing!
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im caught between two guys-- my bf and this guy i like-- my bfhasnt talked to me in like 4 days even though weve sen each other-- hes usually pretty shy! but i mean 4 days he hasnt talked to me!! im still debatin whether or not to break up with him but the thing is idk how much i like that other guy!! should i break up w/him?? and if i do... how?? i rate high!! thanks (link)
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Don't think about the other guy for the moment- think about your boyfriend! Pretend the other guy doesn't exist for the minute- why isn't your boyfriend talking to you? Is it because he's just shy, or is it because you've had an argument or is it because the relationship is fizzling out? talk to him about it- ask him why he's not talking to you. Then depending on what he says you can decide whether you want to be with him- if you don't then tell him and give whatever he told you was the reason he's not talking to you as the reason for breaking up with him. If you want to stay with him however then good for you! If you do end up breaking up with him then you can decide whether you want to make a go of it with this other guy. Deal with one guy at a time its much easier! However, at the end of the day you shouldn't be going out with your boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else! Good luck
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I was at a party last night with a bunch of friends. We all had our cars parked in front of the house the party was at and the actual party took place inside the house and in the backyard. Well, when the party was over, everyone went outside and found all the cars keyed, wrapped, and egged. There were some notes on some cars that said "Spoiled bitches got what they deserved" We had no idea who did it or what the notes meant until school today. A girl came up to us and was like "how do y'all like your cars now?" This is a girl that we do not get along with at all. So, we believe it's her. Oh and by the way, we've never done anything mean to her or her friends. I told my dad that we think we know who did it (he's a Lawyer) but he said that unless we have some kind of proof, there's nothing he can do legally. Is there anything we can try? (link)
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Really don't know if this would work or not but just a thought- could you get a dictaphone or something (in true under-cover reporter style lol!) and get a sort of taped confession? If this girl has actually gone up to you and talked to you about the cars could you go up to her and just ask her why she did it? If shes got enough front to say what she said before its possible she could say something else that could link her to what happened. Might not work but maybe worth a try?? I dunno!
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I really like this guy who lives near me, hes 14/m and im 13/f. Everyone tells me that he likes me but I dont believe them. Everytime he see's me he gives me a hug. And in school, between classes, he trys to hold my hand. I really want to ask him out. Should I? How do i know if he really does like me? (link)
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Yeah he must fancy you by the sounds of it! Next time he tries to hold your hand let him! Its as easy as that- he'll soon get the message and probably ask you out himself!
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I recently started going out with this guy, I am 16 and he is 18. We make-out tons and tons, and its great and it feels great. But then that makes me wonder if he is only in it for the physical aspect, I asked him if thats all it was, he said no and that he likes being around me and he likes hanging out with me. Whell things dont feel right at all, I feel like im just his toy or whatever and he doenst tell me how he feels about things. Its often hard to express myself as well because I dont know how he would react. Its just weird, I just want to make things better (link)
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel. He's your boyfriend and you should talk to him about how you feel about the relationship. Ask him about his feelings and why he doesn't share them. Maybe he's just a closed person and he doesn't like expressing his feelings but you'll only find out by talking it through. This will make things better- things are so much better out in the open! good luck
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there is this guy at school who likes me ALOT! and i kinda like him, but hes part of the popular group, and im not really.. im just part of the normal group. His friends asked him "why do you like her, she doesnt hang out with us, she doesnt deserve you" should i go out with him even though his friends said that, and people would make fun of me if i went out with him? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Yeah you should definitely go for it!! Who cares what his friends think? Its you two that matter and if he likes you and you like him then theres no problem!
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