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breakup?!
im caught between two guys-- my bf and this guy i like-- my bfhasnt talked to me in like 4 days even though weve sen each other-- hes usually pretty shy! but i mean 4 days he hasnt talked to me!! im still debatin whether or not to break up with him but the thing is idk how much i like that other guy!! should i break up w/him?? and if i do... how?? i rate high!! thanks
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ask ur friends if they can ask the guy if hes in to you if they reply "yes" then break up wit yo bf and ask the other guy out. if "no" then talk to him (yo bf) and see wats^
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i had the exact same situation like a week ago. stay with the shy guy! everyone told me to go with the other guy but i follwed my intuition and it worked out. dont break up with him, he'll come around! <3
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if you do and you don't have any feelings anymore for the other guy then your screwed.. so i suggest that you make sure that you actually like this other guy a lot before you break up with him.. and my suggestion is if you and him don't talk.. whats the point in going out.. but be true to yourself if you really think that breaking up for the better then do it
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If you want to break up with him because he isn't talking to you, then I think it's understandable. But please don't think about the other guy as a reason, he will always be there if the relationship you are currently in fails.
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Don't think about the other guy for the moment- think about your boyfriend! Pretend the other guy doesn't exist for the minute- why isn't your boyfriend talking to you? Is it because he's just shy, or is it because you've had an argument or is it because the relationship is fizzling out? talk to him about it- ask him why he's not talking to you. Then depending on what he says you can decide whether you want to be with him- if you don't then tell him and give whatever he told you was the reason he's not talking to you as the reason for breaking up with him. If you want to stay with him however then good for you! If you do end up breaking up with him then you can decide whether you want to make a go of it with this other guy. Deal with one guy at a time its much easier! However, at the end of the day you shouldn't be going out with your boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else! Good luck
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I think i'd just tell him he isn't very good at communicating and you need that in a relationship. So, you think maybe you should break up. You gotta take risks sometimes so go see what the othre guy is like. :)
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