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about a boy
I recently started going out with this guy, I am 16 and he is 18. We make-out tons and tons, and its great and it feels great. But then that makes me wonder if he is only in it for the physical aspect, I asked him if thats all it was, he said no and that he likes being around me and he likes hanging out with me. Whell things dont feel right at all, I feel like im just his toy or whatever and he doenst tell me how he feels about things. Its often hard to express myself as well because I dont know how he would react. Its just weird, I just want to make things better
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well i guess it depends on how long you guys have dated. try to get more on a personal level. get to know eachother, and talk on the phone a bunch. im sure itll work out!
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If you just feel like his toy then ditch him!!! i mean i'm not sayin dont talk to him cuz believe me you can get him to talk but it again would be only because you cut off the physical supply(if you know what i mean) but no gurl deserves to be some guys toy i mean we weren't just mad to give them whatever it might give them to be with us. God doesn't want it like that and if I was you I wouldn't want it to be that way either!!! well hope this helps!!!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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Try writing it to him. Feelings are sometimes easier to write than to say. Hope it helps. :)
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If you still want to be with him tell him how you feel and let him know that until you feel like you know him well enough and have a meaningful relationship you will not make out with him anymore. It can be hard to keep a promise like that, especially if he's all over you, but if your body is telling you one thing and your brain is saying something different...listen to your brain. And if he tries to make out with you afterwards, that's definitely a sign that he doesn't respect you and your wishes and is not worth staying together with.
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If you don't feel right about what your doing maybe you shoulds take it a little slow with him..next time he goes to kiss you tell him that you would rather talk..if he doesn't take that well or keeps on tring then to him you might just be a toy..but if he sits and talkes with you and everything is dandy then he prolly really likes you
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel. He's your boyfriend and you should talk to him about how you feel about the relationship. Ask him about his feelings and why he doesn't share them. Maybe he's just a closed person and he doesn't like expressing his feelings but you'll only find out by talking it through. This will make things better- things are so much better out in the open! good luck
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tell him how you feel and that it doesn't feel right.
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Okay you really need to run it by him that it doesn’t feel right.. And spill your guts to him! .. If he gets all effective then I don’t think that he is a really great guy to be going tout with .. I don’t think that he would go out with you if you were just his little play toy! .. I think he’s got to like you or else he would be pushing to have sex already!… plus he could have picked lots of other girls .. But he picked you and that’s the special part!.. Let me know how everything went!
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