ok, i love my girl friend, and i have loved her since the day i first saw her, and because i have loved her for so long (i first saw her 12 years ago) when i finnally got to be with her (just 3 months ago) i guess i went really into things cause i felt (causa my love for her) that we've been going out for 12 years, but i didnt get to do anything...so i guess i rushed into things when we were first going out... All we have done was i hold her during movies, and i put my head on her shoulder, and then every once in a while i kiss her on her cheek or neck. And now, she said that she wants to take it slower, but i dont really know how to go TOO much slower, i mean, i first kissed her on the cheek when we were going out for 2 1/2 months. So does anyone have any advice on what i can do so i can show my affection, but not doing "too much"??
duckyfernanda answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:53 pm: Brilliant QUestion!! You can hold hands, wrap your legs around the other's leg, tell her you love her, and go see a chick flick with her (I know it is torture...but hey...no guy hasn't seen a chik flick in his life), go shopping with her, text message her just to say that you love her. There are many ways actually, it just depends on what you are willing to do...Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to b/c then she may feel too uncomfortable. You sound like a really good boyfriend because you respect her. All guys should be like that. Well...hope I helped some!
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OrionsFire answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:01 pm: Maybe she feels that you are pressuring her or that you want to move further. Tell her that you respect her feelings and ask her if there is anything you could do to make her feel less uncomfortable? Also, don't run around telling her how much you love her and always will because that will just make her feel like you are stalking her and have a weird obsession. [ OrionsFire's advice column | Ask OrionsFire A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 2:11 am: I think you need to ask her exactly what it is you are allowed to do. That is the only way your'e going to figure her out I think! Sounds like your doing okay to me, so you better just ask her. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
carlos2234 answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:15 pm: look...im a boy so this is easy..even thought i hate when girls say that...but just keep things down like just hug her and...she shold put her head on u not the other way round..neways just dont kiss her much like u ust to enless she really wants it or its a specail moment. [ carlos2234's advice column | Ask carlos2234 A Question ]
strawberry143x answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:14 pm: Well it sounds to me as though she is still very nervous. Try to explain to her that you love her and tell her that she does not need to feel wierd around you because you love her. If she still feels the same way accept it if you really love her and she really loves you then everything will work out just fine ! If you ever need anymore adivce feel free to either write to me on here or emial me on www.Craziisexiicooll@yahoo.com
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