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well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. we're both 14 and pretty conservative. im not sure what everyone else does but im not sure where we should be in our relationship. if you have any experience with this at all, any help is greatly appreciated.
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Sistah girl, you stay only 14! Don't even think about moving quickly! Auntie get one cousin dat had her firs' bebe when she wuz only 15! You no like be like dat, so keep things goin' slow! In fack, Auntie neva even have her firs' boyfriend until she wuz in college! And you know what? Auntie no like change dat fo' da world!
So take it EZ! No worry where you "should" be. 'Cause in Auntie's mind, you already stay where you should be!
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look in relationships people do things with there lovers at different ages you shouldnt be worring about what everyone else is doing and what you should be doing you should only do things when your good and ready dont feel presherd into doing things youve got all the time in the world
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If I were in your position, I would have already kissed...
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Where you should be? Why should there be a certain "normal" timeline for a relationship? Go at your own pace (so long as it's not too fast) and don't just do things because other people say that's what's "normal" in a relationship. The "normal" relationship now is quite scary, so don't just go with the crowd.
My boyfriend and I didn't kiss until we had been together for seven months, and he and I were both eachother's first boyfriend/girlfriend. Take things slow and just let things happen. They will happen when the time is right, so don't rush into anything. He and I have been together for a year and a month now, so I consider myself somewhat experienced with relationships. Just take it slow and enjoy the little bit of childhood you have left!
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Its acually up to you guys where you both should be. Dont move too fast. The furthest I would go in a relationship for 2 months is 1st n 2nd base. Do whatever makes you both comftrable. X0`
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where you should be is completely and entirely up to you and your boyfriend.. some people by this time yes, have kissed but there is no limit to where you should or shouldn't be!.. if you are ready and your boyfriend is ready to kiss or not do or don't do it..! this this completly up to you to! hope i helped... anymore questions let me know!!
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It sounds like you already know your own mind, and it also sounds like your boyfriend is on the same page as you.
Those two things are the most important things in regards to relationships, no matter if you're talking about emotional or physical things.
There's no checklist of where you should be at any given time in a relationship. I understand it can be comforting to sort of compare yourself to other people your age, but you'll find 14 year olds that are pregnant and 14 year olds that have never been kissed.
The only thing you can measure yourself against is how you feel. If you're happy with the way things are going, and this relationship makes you feel empowered and joyful - well, there's your answer.
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What everyone else does in their relationships is totally up to them and has nothing to do with your relationship to be honest!! There is only a problem if either one of you is unhappy with the way things are going in the relationship. And that doesnt sound like it is an issue. It sounds as if maybe you're only worried about what other people are doing and maybe what they would think if they found out? That totally doesn't matter as no one's going to find out anyway if you're both happy with the way things are going. Take things at your own pace you'll be much happier!
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Hmm take the next step!
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