So here's my story i've been in love w. this kid for 2 years we broke up about a year ago, but im still in love with him. He still enjoys hangin out with me when were around alot of other ppl, but we've talked nd he says sometimes he doesn't know how to act around me. Which i feel the same about him. Recently he's gotten a new girlfriend they've been together for a while now, but sometimes on speacial occasions i call him nd she throws a fit or when im hangin out w. my cousin nd his brother ( who have been together for a while) he likes to hang out w. us, nd his girlfriend gets upset.But i think he's with you if he wanted to be w. me don't you think he would? so she has nothing to get mad about, right now were just friends. However she's going off to college in a few months nd he's still gonna b in high school. They've both told me that they don't see them being together when she leaves,because many complications nd i know he still cares for me or else he wouldn't stick up for me when i call or whenever we hang out,nd he's even told me that mayb after she's been gone for a while nd they've beeen seperated after a while he could see himself w. me,because of his feelings nd all that we've been through together? nd i don't know wiether i should believe him. I don't know how he still really feels about me. But he's changed he used to be the type to get mad if u asked how he felt but now he's completly honest about everything. What do i do? Do I talk to other guys nd still wait a few months till she goes away? or should i totaly forget about the 2 years nd all the memories we made together?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? craazylau answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 10:43 am: Be wary- if he really did like you surely he would split up with his girlfriend right now! It sounds as if he has the intention of getting back together with you once his girlfriend goes away, but thats the only reason. He only wants to be with you because she's going away. And that means he sees you as second best which is really really unfair on you. You don't want to feel like second best anyway do you? I think maybe you should leave your relationship with him in the past as it sounds like you'd just be his girlfriends replacement and nobody wants to feel like that. Good luck [ craazylau's advice column | Ask craazylau A Question ]
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