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Hey everyone, my name is Kevin. I'm just another guy trying to live this race called life.

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like a lot of other people i have a bad habit of biting my nails. i ALWAYS do it! i like cna't stop. Can anyone give me advice on how i could stop?! I'll rate 5s!

Put something nasty tasting on them.

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well there\'s this guy and me and him both lyk each other. we never really went out because its would be impossible to convince my mom so durin early april we\'ve been talkin on da phone a lot. i had spring break a week ago and i didn\'t get to talk to him. 2 nights ago i was on three-way with him and his friend, i told him to hold on but i was still on the phone listening to him and his friend talk. turns out he met another girl, he does\'t know who to choose, me or her. i think he\'ll choose her because only me him and his friend knows about our \'relationship\' if my friends knew they would be lyk what the hell r u thinkin goin out with him. lyk they wont understand. so at skool i dont talk to him a lot. so yesterday and today i talked to him and it seemed lyk he was trying to get rid of me. i really lyk him and it would be so hard to get rid of him. this is my 1st relationship thingy so i need advice. i\'m 13 by the way. i\'m just getting the sense that he chose the other girl. we\'re not bf/gf or anything official but you know. i\'m scared, yes. so tell me what should i do? if we do break up i cant run to my friends becuase i cant tell them! so i\'m basically alone. i just don\'t know what to do if he does break up with me and i dont know how to deal with it. give your best advice, thank you so much! xo

If you'll arent going out then how can he break up with you?

Since you'll don't really have a relationship, I think you should just continue to do what you are doing.

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Do boys consider makeup to be a turnoff? I know that wearing too much makeup is definitely a turn-off, but I mean makeup in general. I know how to put on makeup very well, and people tell me I do and seek advice from me about it, but I just need to know whether boys think it looks unattractive.

I don't care. Longs you don't have on so much where I can't even tell that its you then it doesn't matter.

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how do you get guys to notice you more? i mean i'm not ugly but i dont think i'm "hott" so what should i do? i think i have a nice personality...but idk.

We will notice you if your personality sticks out from the rest.

It helps if you are
-outgoing
-fun to be around
-easy to talk to
-not afraid to have a good time

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everyone at my school hates me.yesturday i got really upset so i didnt go to school today. We were talking on the phone and..a lot of people at my school dislike me. This hurt me a lot. i mean i knew i wasnt liked by everyone but i dont know what to do. apparently its because i "flip out" and this made me really upset, and now i think i should change so i am well-liked. what should i do? like, what kind of people would you be friends with?
(please dont tell me not to change myslef.)

You get more friends if you are fun to be around and easy to talk to.

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well one of my friends are cheating on their boyfriend and my friends don't like it.. her boyfriend goes to a different school.. she was suppose to make out witht he other guy at school but she couldn't cause of a stupid program..We want to tell the boy she is datin but we can't cause he might tell her he probably tells her everything and cause trouble..He has been hurt once or twice.. but we don't want him to get hurt again.. How could we tell him

I think the best thing to do is stay out of it.

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This is my story:I have this guy friend who i've known for 3 years but we used to hate each other before we made out and well the other night he came over to my friends house and he brought a friend too and well him and my friend were kinda hooking up but he kissed me and we werer really wasted so i didn't know what i was doing and the next thing i moticed was the lights were out and i was dry humping with him.... does that make me a slut and could i get pregnate from that????

No that doesn't make you a slut. I do a lot of crazy stuff also when I'm drunk. You can't get pregnant.

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how would you like some1 to give head to you? or like yeahhhh

edit: All you have to do is put your mouth on the guy's penis and suck it/lick it.

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Im 15. I think I want to invite my boyfriend over to my house to just hang out, but when we get hungry I want to be able to cook him something special and really delicious?

any ideas / recipes?

Burritos and tacos are awesome.

Both of them aren't that difficult to cook, so it wouldn't take a long time and it would be easy.

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How can I make myself more attractive with out looking like a slut? How can I make more guys interested in me? particularly the guys I want to like me? Alsoo. How can I get out of being seen as a slut? please help! i need it bad!

I'm a guy and I take notice to girls that show their shape but not all of it.

Examples
-Don't wear real tight pants but don't wear big baggy ones either.
-Don't wear shirts that show all of your brests but don't wear shirts that are big and loose.

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my skin WAS usually somewhat clear...i had some acne, but nothing bad. well, i decided to take care of the acne i had and get rid of it. my acne is just WORSE now. the products i have used recently are Nature's Cure for Females, over the counter benzoyl peroxide by neutrogena, and makeup by Lancome Paris to cover. I am not sure which one of these is the culprit? How can stuf thats supposed to get rid of acne be making me break out TONS...please give me some tips on a skin care regimen that WONT make me break out and that will help me clear up my acne!!!

My sister uses Clearasil Ultra and it works good for her.

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See theres this guy and I really like him. He was one of my boyfriends and he recently broke it off with me. We were really really close with eachother and know its over. All i want to do is get back together with him. The problem is I dont know if I should or shouldnt and i dont know if i should just forget about him. And all I do know is think about him and I see him everywhere. Jst please. I need help.

If he broke it off with you its because he no longer wants to be with you. So you shouldn't try to get him back. You should give him some space and try to move on.

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for guys only..
1)what do you look for in a girl 2) how do guys show girls they like them like signals because im confused about this one guy i thought liked me and i can't figure him out. HELP!

I look for a girl who knows how to have fun and joke around.

If I like a girl I'll treat her better than the rest of the girls.

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Well, I know this may sound silly but I will rate 5's. I'm 16 and school, friends, drama, parties, etc. everything has kept me really busy lately. Time has been going by way too fast. Before I know it it's already April; the monthes go by like weeks && everything's just way too fast! Haha. So is there anything you can do to like .. slow time down? Haha. Idk. I'll rate 5's for anything. Thanks!

Unfortunately nobody has evented a time machine that actually works yet. lol

There's nothing much you can do about it except enjoy yourself.

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How can you tell if someone likes you?

If they treat you better than the rest of the males/females.

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What can I do to get rid of acne on the back?

This is a website that sales an acne treatment product that also works on backs.

http://www.acnease.com/?source=awsgoogle&ovchn=GGL&ovcpn=Back&ovcrn=Back+ad1+US=&ovtac=CTX&gclid=CPOPzZ3BsIQCFQt6Ggod8SHD-Q

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15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!!

"what does that mean in guy terms"
We don't speak a foreign language.

It means exactly what he said it means, he needs some time. So instead of trying to translate it into something that its not, just respect that and give him some time.

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Are there any specific books I should read or things I should experience? It's a vague question but for anything in general, what can I do to be smarter?

Here are some websites that have some recommended books.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/richpub/listmania/fullview/215848PBVB7CF/103-5013464-0555852?%5Fencoding=UTF8
http://www.microsoft.com/mspress/findabook/list/series_GS.asp
http://www.microsoft.com/mspress/findabook/list/series_GS.asp

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Okay so this guy who lives next door to me asked me to give him head. Should he wear a condom idk, i'm really new at this


Its more pleasurable without a condom but its more safe with one. So yeah you should wear a condom.

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hello... i really like this foreign student in my history class..he's a korean.. my teacher let him sit in the middle of me and my classmate so that we can help him once in a while.. the problem is... the more we see each other the more i develop my feelings for him.. i'm really trying not to like him because first, he already has a korean gf and secondly, all of the korean students in my school only have korean gfs because it's difficult for them to communicate if they will have a filipina gf. but i really really really like him.. and one more thing, i'm really flattered because i'm the only one he talks to in our room besides his korean friends. i can say that my classmates are jealous of me because most of them likes him a lot and he only talks to me and whenever i enter the class, i see him talking with his friends and when he sees me already, he'll sit beside me but only because he would borrow my notes or to ask something about our lesson..i really like this guy, my other friends told me that maybe he likes me too because we seem close with each other and because they also notice that he doesn't ask to anyone about our lesson but only to me.(i'm not the best in the class) i really hope that it's true but i don't think so. and i'm afraid that i would fall with him because 1 month to go and we'll not see each other anymore because he has different course than i have. ow please help... i don't want to be hurt...thanks...

He has a girlfriend. If he liked you he wouldn't be with her.
I don't mean to hurt your feelings but its the truth.

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