hello... i really like this foreign student in my history class..he's a korean.. my teacher let him sit in the middle of me and my classmate so that we can help him once in a while.. the problem is... the more we see each other the more i develop my feelings for him.. i'm really trying not to like him because first, he already has a korean gf and secondly, all of the korean students in my school only have korean gfs because it's difficult for them to communicate if they will have a filipina gf. but i really really really like him.. and one more thing, i'm really flattered because i'm the only one he talks to in our room besides his korean friends. i can say that my classmates are jealous of me because most of them likes him a lot and he only talks to me and whenever i enter the class, i see him talking with his friends and when he sees me already, he'll sit beside me but only because he would borrow my notes or to ask something about our lesson..i really like this guy, my other friends told me that maybe he likes me too because we seem close with each other and because they also notice that he doesn't ask to anyone about our lesson but only to me.(i'm not the best in the class) i really hope that it's true but i don't think so. and i'm afraid that i would fall with him because 1 month to go and we'll not see each other anymore because he has different course than i have. ow please help... i don't want to be hurt...thanks...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ItzMzManda answered Thursday April 13 2006, 9:26 pm: If he has a girlfriend already, I dont think he likes you anymore than his girlfriend. If you continue to being his friend then he will probably develop feelings for you too. Try getting his number or email or any other way of communication. Next time you have free time then ask him if he want to hang out with you. Although you guys wont be taking the same course try to still talk to him and still be friends with him. Until he does break up with his girlfriend just get to know him better and build up your friendship with him. Dont worry too much about him because there are plenty of other girls. Not all couples have to be the same nationality and yeah it is easier for them to all communicate, but its more fun to meet someone different from you. Hope this helps!
tropicalbabe33 answered Thursday April 13 2006, 5:07 pm: It seems that he likes you, as a friend, but I can't really tell if he likes you as more than that. Also, he has a gf. What i think you should do is carry on being his friend, but just flirt a little, only a little. Him and his gf won't last forever so if you're still in his class and they've broken up, then ask him out. If, after a month, he's still going out with this girl, then just ask him for his moby number or msn addy, that way you can still chat (and flirt) to him even though you won't be taking the same courses. If he breaks up with his gf after a month, he's bound to tell you (by text, or phonecall or msn or email, whatever), and then you can ask him out. By the time he splits up with his gf, you'll probably be quite close, and you will have flirted with him quite a bit!
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HipYaHop1213 answered Thursday April 13 2006, 3:33 pm: ok
since he has a gf you need to just lay low but if the time ever comes that he is single then you can ask him out.also by that time, you and him will probally be REALLY good frineds.
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