well one of my friends are cheating on their boyfriend and my friends don't like it.. her boyfriend goes to a different school.. she was suppose to make out witht he other guy at school but she couldn't cause of a stupid program..We want to tell the boy she is datin but we can't cause he might tell her he probably tells her everything and cause trouble..He has been hurt once or twice.. but we don't want him to get hurt again.. How could we tell him
evlkttn answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 6:56 pm: well first, you need to talk to her about it. tell her that either she tells him or you guys tell him that she's been cheating on him. then tell her she has a time limit, like a week, or 24 hours. don't give her too much time though, like a month. and stick to what you say. if she doesn't tell him in a week, tell him for her. if he ends up breaking up with her either for the cheating, or the not telling him part, then take her out to the movies, or something. gather up 20 or 25 dollars all together from everyone, and tell her that she only has 60 minutes to spend it, otherwise one of you gets it. don't really take it, though. if she doesn't use it when she's supposed to, buy her something that she will like with the money that way, no one gets the money and you guys won't fight over it. and remember to make sure that she ha fun, and relaxes! that's the only advice that i have for you, so GOOD LUCK!!! [ evlkttn's advice column | Ask evlkttn A Question ]
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