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Hey yall! I may be new here, but take me seriously, because I have great advice, and to prove it, go look at my feedback. All I have are straight 5's, so trust me. My best thing is in the Relationships: Love Life thing.--:)JC(:--
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Okay so sorry if this is long but if you repond I'll give you a five no matter what:]]
I had been going out with a boy and he was like, the best boyfriend possible except he just would suffocate me kind of, but not a lot. I started to like this other boy so I broke up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend was sad and stuff but then I started liking him again and not the other guy. Now I really want to get back with my ex but he is just like considering it. I am having my friend talk to him because I am soo shy. I have never loved someone so much in my life and I really want to get with him again. What should I do?
Dont send your friend over. That can be interpretted as you not liking him, but just wanting to go out with him. Talk to him yourself. Find out FROM HIM that he still wants to go out with you. Good Luck! Hope I helped!
OK, so i basically wear my hair in a ponytail EVERYDAY. My hair is extremely thick and kinda wavy and it is soooooo fuzzzzzy, a ponytail seems like a managable way to control it. But i am sick of my beloved hair-do and i cant stand to wind another rubberband arounf my precious strands.
The thing is, my hair is O-so fuzzy (none of the serums, conditioners, shampoos or anything work for me) AN my hair is so thick that is kinda sticks out if i wear it down. I need help!!!! Can you give me advice, hairstyles, products or anything to help me excorsice my pony-do?
yes...my hair is exactly the same...dont feel bad. the best thing to do is to go through different shampoos or whatever. something that i did was straighten my hair. if u do, then don't wet it, otherwise you'll have to do it again, and it takes me 45-60 minutes to do it. i got my hair permanently straightened, so it's a lot easier to deal with now, and i can actually brush it now. good luck and hope i helped!!!! peace!!!
~shitaki mushrooms~
i want to go with my friend (hes a guy, im a girl) to our dance at the end of they year. alot of poeple have dates already. but he's already going with my sort-of friend. i really want to go with him though!!! anyone have any ideas on how to get him to go with me?
the best thing is juat to wait. if it is meant to be, it will happen. don't worry about that. let him know how you feel. talk to him, and do not chicken out. that's the worst thing you can possibly do. good luck! hope i helped.
no but i want to talk to u on aim, do you have a screen name what is it so we can just talk back and forth. k
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are you still there? if so, then e-mail me at evlkttn2@yahoo.com or coolcat_neo@msn.com. this is for everyone to!
are you online rite now so we can talk please!!!! whats your aim i need advice urgently!!!!!!!!!!
yea, i'm here
Well there is this guy Alex and I like him alot and he likes me alot.Well on Friday he was about to ask me out, he was all like"(J.)..... would u like to be my.......o nevermind." I was stunned so this Friday I am going to flirt with him as much as I possibly can. What are some ways that I can let him know it is ok to ask me to be his girlfriend??? I am definatly not asking him out so dont give me advice like that. If possible can you go into details. Please. I need this as soon as possible. Thanks in advance. I rate 5s!!!
J. I am a 13 year old female just to let you know.
this is coming straight from a 13 year old girl...and my advice is to just ask him! i know you don't want to, but it will turn him onto you even more than he already is. guys love girls who are willing to make the first move! and if you really think that you can't ask him out, then don't flirt too much because that's a way he my get turned off of you. wear something skimpy, like a skirt and tank-top. but do not do the whole whore/hoe routine. have fun teasing him! and if he does't ask you out by friday the next week, then you're going to have to make the first move. you can even talk to his friends, tell them that you really like alex, and have them help you out. GOOD LUCK!!!
well one of my friends are cheating on their boyfriend and my friends don't like it.. her boyfriend goes to a different school.. she was suppose to make out witht he other guy at school but she couldn't cause of a stupid program..We want to tell the boy she is datin but we can't cause he might tell her he probably tells her everything and cause trouble..He has been hurt once or twice.. but we don't want him to get hurt again.. How could we tell him
well first, you need to talk to her about it. tell her that either she tells him or you guys tell him that she's been cheating on him. then tell her she has a time limit, like a week, or 24 hours. don't give her too much time though, like a month. and stick to what you say. if she doesn't tell him in a week, tell him for her. if he ends up breaking up with her either for the cheating, or the not telling him part, then take her out to the movies, or something. gather up 20 or 25 dollars all together from everyone, and tell her that she only has 60 minutes to spend it, otherwise one of you gets it. don't really take it, though. if she doesn't use it when she's supposed to, buy her something that she will like with the money that way, no one gets the money and you guys won't fight over it. and remember to make sure that she ha fun, and relaxes! that's the only advice that i have for you, so GOOD LUCK!!!
Alright so hate to bug you guys with this problem because im sure you see it alot but i help people with theres so now its my turn to get some help.
there was one guy brad who i made out with while this other guy nate was in florida. nate and i tell each other we love each other but we were nothing offical when i made out with brad. ok. so me and nate are kinda crazy bout each other. and i havent spoken to brad after i made out with him. he just never called me.
thursday night nate calls me and we talk for about 3 hours. he asks me out. i say yes. we were suppossed to hang friday and he said hed call me round 8. he never called. i call his house round 11 his mom says hes sleeping and that shed tell him i called. i never get a call back. i call his house round 2 30 and his dad says he went out. since then, ive been doing everythign in my power to get in touch with him. he blocked me online for some reason and when i finally got in touch with him im like are you mad at me? and hes like no its nothing personal ill call you later though im at the mall. yeah um so how is this not personal?
question- why would he be doing this? how do i talk to him if im being avioded? should i end it or see if he can change it around? should i ignore back? HELP!!!
Okay, first things first. do you really like this guy? If so, then think of what he's been doing to you. He's been blowing you off and avoiding you. Do you think that's it's possible that he found out about Brad? For how you can talk to him, that's entirely up to you. Corner at school or something. Make sure that he has to listen to you. Don't listen to his excuses until after you have talked to him. Don't beleive most of his excuses. There really is no reason to be blown off like that. Also, think about how he's been acting, then think of the possibilities. He could have gotten together with somebody else, although that is unlikely. He should not be acting this way, however, no matter how "real" his excuse is. You really should end it, but only if you want to. After you have talked to him, what you need to do is reward yourself for speaking out. Go get a mani/pedi, go to the mall with your friends, have fun and just relax. That's the best advice I can give you.
ok im confused, i want to makeout w/ my bf but on a survey not too long ago he said he wasnt ready...but my friend told me that he wants to m/o with me. we are in a really open relationship but idk how to tell him...im afraid/embarrassed that he wont tell me that he feels the same way. and even if he did say that he would too...when it comes to the topic of m/o im completely clueless!! plz help! i rate high!!
okay, first, you need to calm down. take deep breaths, and relax. now, if you guys are in an open relationship, then yu guys really shouldn't be dating. talk to him, see if he'll want a real relationship with you. if he doesn't then dump his a*^ and find someone that will want a real relationship. as for the whole makeout thing, if you want to, talk to him, and if he says no, and he wants a real relationship, then just wait. and don't make out with him if you guys aren't in a real relationship. after you talk to him, reward yourself for speaking up for yourself, and go do something that will relax you. go to a spa, go to the movies, watch T.V., but keep in mind that you are trying to relax, so have as few distractions as possible, and have fun. if he really likes you, then he'll want the relationship, so keep that n mind.
Theres this guy his name is .. Max. Max is my best friend, last year we became really close. He secretly liked me and never told me, till 8 months after, when he started to go out with my friend Emily. Emily is "inlove" with Max. And Max is "inlove" with Emily. During these 8 months that Max liked me, i LIKED someone else, and was obbsessed with him. But when me and him were over, i started to relize i think i fell in love with my best friend. Now hes in a 6 month relationship. Almost everynight i write about him in a journal. I told him before I might have fell for him, and he said oohh. I don't know what to do anymore, i watch them all over eachother EVERYDAY. I cant take it any more, Does anyone know what i can do?
P.S a little advice to some girls, if you have a best friend who likes you alot, and everyone says you guys should go out. Give him a chance.
okay, first off, you need to ask yourself why you like him so much. then figure out about when you fell for him. and if you really like him, you'll wait for him, but you won't leave yourself socialy inactive. if he really loves you then he will want you more than emily. as for the whole them being all over each other everyday, for that, just don't hang out with them when they're together, or just ignore them. keep in mind that whatever happens, happens for a reason. no matter what the situation is, so just live it out to the fullest, and reward yourself when you do so. for example, if you live life to the fullest for 1 week, then grant yourself 24 hours to relax. go to a day spa, watch movies, whatever, just keep in mind that you have to have fun, and why you get the day of relaxation to begin with.
--:)JC(:--
okay i am in a new relationship with this guy that i have known for about half a year and we work together and we just started dating, officialy. wed been on a few dates before and all but anyways i was just wondering i know us girls seem to think about guys like crazy! haha but i was just wondering do guys think about us girls as much as we think about them? im just curious if he ever thinks of me too. lol. i know i sound dumb haha but opinions are great. question is do guys think about their girls as much as we think about them?
question for you: do they ask they same question? ask him girl! go on! if you're diring for the naswer, ask him!
I`ve been very interested in wicca for a long time. I was wondering if anyone here new more about wicca or sites I could figure out more about wicca. I am very interested in becoming wiccan
well, lucky i'm here then. i am a wiccan and i do have some advice. first, do you have a BOS (book of shadows) and if you don't, then you need to get one. don't imagine one of those hard bound old books. just think of a regular journal. go to barnes and noble, or borders, any book store has wiccan books.look on google, or yahoo, or something, and meditate regularly. this doesn't mean for 3 hours a day, it means maybe 15-30 minutes a week, just some time to relax, and focus on your problems currently, draw, read/write poetry, write in your BOS, whatever. and remember that being a wiccan means not trying to tamper with anyone's free will (that includes love spells) and hurting no one, including yourself, with anything you do. have fun!
--;)jc;)--
Okay, so I was dating this girl and we were makin' out and stuff and she took off her pants and I looked "down there" and there was nothing. No hair at all.
Is she a slut? am I goin' to get warts or HIV or somthing?
I rate 5s
dude, calm down. just because she has no hair there, doesn't mean anything bad. ask her about it, but don't go straight out and say it...ease into it. maybe she just doesn't like the hair there. i know i don't. she could get it waxed...it just depends. so calm down, and have fun.
Ugh ok so everyone says that making out is so fun and stuff like that. Well i'm 14/f and I have had my first kiss and stuff but it was only a pucker on the lips. I want more then that with my bf but I'm so scared I'll be like a bad kisser or something stupid like that. i also don't know how i would start making out with him bcuz i don't think he would expect me to do that. i'm not like prude or anything i just need to know what to do!! i'l rate 5s!
okay, so you're trying to decide on wether or not to kiss him. just talk to him about it, and don't worry if you're a bad kisser. or you could just kiss him. if he really likes you, he'll kiss you back, and he'll love the fact that you decided to kiss him instead of him having to kiss you first. kiss him someplace private though, because if he gets scared, or he backs off, then you won't be as embarrased, and you'll know hat kind of guy he is. beforehand, you should have a relaxing day watching movies or something. and just relax on the whole bad kisser thing. most people are better than they think. and if he really likes you, it won't matter to him.
I was at a retreat with my friend "Susan" for a weekend. Friday night, I told her that I liked this guy "Charlie." He doesn't know that I like him. The next day we go about our usual retreat business. Sunday, after telling her that I don't think "Charlie" likes me, she tells me that he likes me. "Susan", I'm not sure she is telling the truth. But I did notice "Charlie" giving me 'the i like you look.' "Susan" says that she got the info from "Freddy" who heard it directly from "Charlie." I'm really not sure who to believe. What do I do?
you need to talk to him yourself. that way you're not misled, and you know the answer straight up. even if he says no, you will feel good about yourself for speaking up, and reward yourself with a day to relax, and just have fun.
I found out my ex boyfriend who i love so much and want back, likes this slut from another school and she likes him back and he is going to ask her out...if this happens i dont know what ill do...it may be something drastic...please help! im scared and heartbroken =[
trust me...i know how you feel. i had my heartbroken the same way...only with and to my best friend. it will hurt, and i'm not going to sugar coat it, but you will get over it. the best you can do if this happens is to relax, take some deep breaths, and take a long bath or something. something that will relax you. go see a movie with your friends...got to a spa...get a mani pedi. watch old movies. take your mind off him, and show him that you won't be brought down by it. but no matter what you do, never regret what you did. he will, and you'll move on. if you even have the slightest regret, you won't be able to move on, so just take some time away from him, and enjoy yourself.