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love sucks.
Theres this guy his name is .. Max. Max is my best friend, last year we became really close. He secretly liked me and never told me, till 8 months after, when he started to go out with my friend Emily. Emily is "inlove" with Max. And Max is "inlove" with Emily. During these 8 months that Max liked me, i LIKED someone else, and was obbsessed with him. But when me and him were over, i started to relize i think i fell in love with my best friend. Now hes in a 6 month relationship. Almost everynight i write about him in a journal. I told him before I might have fell for him, and he said oohh. I don't know what to do anymore, i watch them all over eachother EVERYDAY. I cant take it any more, Does anyone know what i can do?
P.S a little advice to some girls, if you have a best friend who likes you alot, and everyone says you guys should go out. Give him a chance.
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This is a tough one, because Emily is a friend. You can pretty much bet there are going to be hurt feelings over this.
Max knows how you feel, and you know how he feels...unfortunately what you have to do now is wait.
You don't want to be the "reason" Max and Emily break up....let that happen all on it's own. If Max truly does want to be with you, then their relationship will end.
You have to remember to consider Emily's feelings, and how she is going to feel when he breaks up with her to go out with you.
I would try my best to carry on with your life until he can make a decision. However, I wouldn't wait "forever". If he truly wants to be with you, he will wrap up his relationship in a timely manner with Emily.
I know how hard it must be to see them together everyday. Can you distance yourself from them a bit? I hope for everyone's sake you two will end up together soon.
Good luck, and take care.
Brenda
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okay, first off, you need to ask yourself why you like him so much. then figure out about when you fell for him. and if you really like him, you'll wait for him, but you won't leave yourself socialy inactive. if he really loves you then he will want you more than emily. as for the whole them being all over each other everyday, for that, just don't hang out with them when they're together, or just ignore them. keep in mind that whatever happens, happens for a reason. no matter what the situation is, so just live it out to the fullest, and reward yourself when you do so. for example, if you live life to the fullest for 1 week, then grant yourself 24 hours to relax. go to a day spa, watch movies, whatever, just keep in mind that you have to have fun, and why you get the day of relaxation to begin with.
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