Member Since: April 25, 2006
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heyy! well i have this really hot guys in my 4th hour class the only thing is he is sucha HUGE flirt! he flirts with everyone but this girl in my 4th hour likes him and they always flirt it bugs me so much! not to be mean or whatever but like he never flirts with me and i dont think im THAT BAD looking..i think he flirts with ugly girls. i mean i know its not all about looks but he is kinda the guy that goes for that. he sometimes like hits me and stuff but doesnt really talk to me. im not really the outgoing kind so i just wont go start to flirt with him first because i wont know what to do,ect plus i wouldnt want to be annoying and if he flirted with me first i would know he wanted to you know!? what should i do..he is pretty popular but how can i get his attention. it seems like whenever i wear cute clothes like last friday when i wore a skirt and a cute top for my birthday i got his attention more but i usually dont dress up much because i cant afford a cute wardrobe! and i only have one skirt. i just dont know any suggestions to get his attention or anything?!
thanks
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ok here are a few things i find might help
1) listen to what he talks about (evesdrop) and find out little things that he likes or stand out from all the others, then when you talk to him bring a few up to get the convo started- you don't have to like theese things but it's better to knoqw a bit bout them-eg what he does in his free time
2)also if you know a friend of his find an excuse to talk to them this way he sees you and will become more familiar with you.
3)don't force him to talk to you this will make you seem pushy!
4) when he makes eye contact smile and wave- this works best when he is the only one looking at you
5)if he hits you play fight like and it doesn't hurt then laugh bout it, if it does hurt, tell him this lets him know a bit about urself
6)during a break walk buy him with a few friends
all this does is makes him see you more and makes it easier to talk- once you think it's enough -or when he starts to "say hi" first- then this is when you make ur move
but all this takes time- and if it doesn't work it's not ment to be
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Ok, my friend who doesnt have an account on here needs some help and wanted me to ask this for her. She cuts, and she really wants to stop, but she cant. I really want her to stop too, shes a GREAT person, but ya, please tell me so I can tell her, how does she stop? (link)
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i've been in the same situation
by far the best thing to do i to see a psychologist or counsellor. but if she is not ready for this maybe she can try what i did: i found mimicking the situation, but not actualy doing it helps. eg if she cuts he rists make her draw red lined on her rists and give her an elastic band to flick, this inflicts a little bit of pain wile not doing any damage. also if she writes dow the reason everytime in like a journal she can reflect or show it to someone else.
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