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Whats the difference between anorexia and bulimia?

arent they technically the same thing because either way you aren't getting food into you system?

and which one would cause the worst effects to your body? (link)
Anorexia is when you starve yourself
and Bulimia is when you eat but you throw all your food up

they are similar but they are different ways of not eating

both cause very bad effects on your body :

Both Anorexia and Bulimia...
There are many similarities in both illnesses, the most common being the cause. There seems to be a common occurence of sexual and/or physical and emotional abuse in direct relation to eating disorders (though not all people living with Eating Disorders are survivors of abuse). There also seems to be a direct connection in some people to clinical Depression. The eating disorder sometimes causes the depression or the depression can lead to the eating disorder. All in all, eating disorders are very complex emotional issues -- Though they may seem to be nothing more than a dangerously obsessive weight concern on the surface

Bulimia
they will eat a large quantity of food in a relatively short period of time and then use behaviors such as taking laxatives or self-induced vomiting -- because they feel overwhelmed in coping with their emotions, or in order to punish themselves for something they feel they should unrealistically blame themselves for. This can be in direct relation to how they feel about themselves, or how they feel over a particular event or series of events in their lives. Those suffering with Bulimia may seek episodes of binging and purging to avoid and let out feelings of anger, depression, stress or anxiety. New research indicates that for a percentage of sufferers, a genetic predisposition may play a role in a sensitivity to develop Bulimia, with environmental factors being the trigger.

go to this site for more info :

http://www.something-fishy.org/whatarethey/bulimia.php

i hope i helped


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i am thinking about buying this cami from american eagle (in PINK). i am going for a casual look. what type of pants/accessories should i wear with it? khakis? jeans? capris? and should i wear a cardigan over it? (link)
you could get away with a pair of capris with flip flops .. or even the flat soled sandales that cover your toes and make an oval around your foot ..


If i live in California and want to text someone in Florida will it cost me any money for like long distance or something? I have Cingular, and i get 200 texts for the month (wich i have not used) Will rate and give feedback. (link)
No it wont, i used ot make calls to other people who live far away .. and i had no problem with it .. so tecting shouldnt be bad either .. good luck


OK Im a girl and I love guys, but there is this one girl at my school and shes bi and I think I really like her, but she basicly the only girl that I have feelings for dose that mean im BI too????? (link)
No not at all , you c an be curious what its like to be with a girl . and how it feels , cause if you think about it girls feel the same way you do and want the same things, but that doesnt mean its any easier to make a realtionship, you may be curioius to see how a realationship or even a hook up with a girl would be like , a lot of girls feel this way . and there is nothing wrong with it . if you really feel something try it out . nothing wrong with it , youll never know until you try .


anyone heard of the clothing stores Tellos,Rave,and Deb?if you have,i'd like some help!
Is tellos a good store to buy dance(club) clothes?
is deb and rave?
also,are they similar,or is one better than the other?
thankyou (link)
Your talking club clothes? ok well any store will really do . if your goign for the tight look or the short shirt look with your stomach out .. or something else .. any kind of prep store will work .. tellos is very good though


ok well my best friend and i always hang out because now she hate her former best friend well now her former best friend is now 1 of my friends and my best friend hates my new friend when my new friend sits with us, my best friend wont talk......especially to me. HELP (link)
Ok .. i have a friend like this , you shouldnt have to be the person who fixs the problem between them .. and its not right that she doesnt talk to you in that situation you need ot talk to her and fix it, and tell her im firned with both of you, and you need to except that and if she cant shes just being selfish .. now if it was over something stupid then im sure in time shell come to terms with what happened .. so i hope you the best of luck . but try not to get caught up in it


my skin gets dry pretty easily. so after washing my face at night and putting an acne medication on, i will wake up in the morning and simply put makeup on without washing my face first. is there any harm in this? (link)
Yea there is a problem there . after washing your face at night and putting the cream on . its gunna sink into your pores. and then when you put make-up on its gunna be more . you need to used a face wash day and night and moisturize .. i use an salon product called aveda . but it can be pricey .. but they have face wash . a toner that gives you natural oils to your face but keeps it from getting so oily . then they have a moisturizer for sensative skin day && night . and they have other things such as masks . and other things . if you want you can check it out at aveda.com


Is it true that if you dont shower when you're sweaty or after a workout you get acne because the sweat clogs pores or something? j/w (link)
No its not that the sweat clogs your pores .. your pores open up when you sweat .. so it leaves them open for any dirt to get in .. and if you dont shower the dirt will get into your pores and you might get acne if you have oily skin .. but everyones different .. but its still better to shower after to be clean and so your face wont break out .


how can i gain wait? im 15/f i have a fast matabolism and i cant seem to gain weight past 100. my mom said that if i dont gain weight than she is going to take me to the hospital for crazy people....no offence ok.....and i dont know what to do....i dont even know what foods fatten people up....can you help me? my mom is mean. lol. just because im skinny and shes not doesnt mean that she has to be mean to me.....so does anyone now any fattening foods (link)
Be more lazy .. until you slow your matabolism down .. eat salt .. not fatty foods cause its just bad for you .. you can eat out alot more..


ok well i was watching rent and rosario darson or w.e. her name is really skinny and i was wondering if anyone knows how she stays skinny because i really want to lose weight, and im running and doing this fitness thing for your stomach and it works [the stomach thing] and i was just wondering some exercizes for my legs, besides running.

ill rate 5's (link)
Ok well . yo ucant get your body to look exactly like that .. but .. if you have eat healthy first off..they not to eat alot of salt makes you retain water .. ok so lay on the floor like you were going to do crunches .. put your legs up at an angle not straight up . keep your knees locked and moving one foot above and then below one .. it helps your leg muscles to get tight .. also using a gym bike .. helps alot ..


Ugh ok so everyone says that making out is so fun and stuff like that. Well i'm 14/f and I have had my first kiss and stuff but it was only a pucker on the lips. I want more then that with my bf but I'm so scared I'll be like a bad kisser or something stupid like that. i also don't know how i would start making out with him bcuz i don't think he would expect me to do that. i'm not like prude or anything i just need to know what to do!! i'l rate 5s! (link)
Youd be surprised how your instincts take over when you kiss.. if you really wanna do it i say go for it if your shy try hinting it cute lip gloss .. things like that .. a word to the wise make sure if your going to kiss him he knows so you dont end up kidding his ear .. haha .. once he gets the idea lean in towards him and tilt your head (so you dont hit noses) pout your lips, parting them slightly as your pressing against his lips.. purse and release your lips ..BUT without taking your lips off his .. you can mix it up and shift when you kiss him and feel relaxed .. just so yo odnt get bored .. keep it short the first time you do this .. you can slow down your motion .. and end with a sliight peck .. now french kidding?! oh boy .. once your used to just kissing .. try adding tounge .. (might want a mint before this..dont use gum to freshen your breath it makes it worse!) ok .. start by kissing normally like above ..then either you slide your tounge into his mouth or let him into yours.. now if your gunna go for it .. push it part way in .. be slow and gentle .. and if hes going in for the kill .. massage your tounge on his .. dont be shy ..


I've had this acne around my chin for a long time. Probably for half a year or probably longer.. Is there anyway I can get rid of it? What are some good products to make them get white heads?
And also, is there any acne scar fading products? if yes, what are some good ones?
I've had really bad acne..and the scars are bothering me.. (link)
A good product that will work for your face is Aveda .. just go to aveda.com and look at there products .. it keeps my face clear and healthy .. thye have masks .. cleansers , creams ..toners .. and more


my hair used to be down past my butt, i decided to cut it to my mid-back after having it so long for all of my life. i have a straight down the middle part, somewhat longish straight hair. i'm getting so bored with it. i was thinking of dying it a chocolatey brown, and getting side-swept bangs. i'm pretty fat (haha), so i have a somewhat round face, and i also have a large forehead. therefore, i don't want to do something that's going to completely expose my forehead or make my face look rounder than it already is (but what could expose my forehead more than my middle part that i already have now, right?) anyways. my main issue is that i don't want it to look like crap. my hair changes color in the sun, due to my natural highlights, and my skin is fairly light, though it isn't fair... (with some freckles in the summer)

it looks like this normally: http://i3.tinypic.com/wco7k7.jpg
and like this in the sun: http://i3.tinypic.com/wco7j6.jpg

by the way, i have never dyed my hair, i haven't ever done anything to it before i got it cut. anyways, that wasn't really QUESTION, and i'm just rambling, but should i avoid the side swept bangs? i know for sure that i'm going for a darker brown, does anyone have any SPECIFIC brand and color suggestions?

thank you, and sorry that was so damn long.

i rate high. (link)
Wow you have amazing hair .. umm well you could think about curls ? you should deff go to a hair salon that will customize your hair to your face shape .. so it would be a hair style that would only look totally hot on you .. depending on your skin tone would do with the color and highlight of your hair .. but if your going for a brown .. you could do copper .. or even caramel highlights..


well my vagina burns. i had a look (i know it sounds gross but its painful) and its red both sides just inside.
i have no idea why it is. Im not sexually active and havent had anyone do anything down there.

what could it be and what should i do? but please dont tell me to go to the doctors/gyn. (link)
It could be a yeast infection .. depending on if you have discharge .. but you could also have a UTI .. Urinary Track Infection (if it hurts when you used the bathroom) you can go to the doctor for a yeast infection they can give you a pill for over night .. or a cream .. or you could go to the stor and buy the cream like at a drug store .. its called Monistat .. its nothing sexually trasmitted .. its just bacteria that grows is dark moist places..


How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥ (link)
You can either buy make-up remover pads .. ponds work very well .. or what i use is a gel cleanser from a salon calls AVEDA .. and it works really well ..


Well today i approached my boyfriend that i told one of my friends he was cute. But it meant nothing because it was over myspace, and i was commenting his pictures. I mean being i have a boyfriend, i can't be super nice because then he'd get mad. He wasn't too happy about it but he said as long as it meant nothing that it's fine. And it didn't, see i think he's worried though becuase my friend that i called cute thinks i'm the most gorgeous girl he's ever saw and all that.

My thing is that i've tried telling my boyfriend that it means nothing in multiple ways, i've told him straight out, i told him not to worry, but i still have a feeling he does worry, because now he asks if me and my friend talk, and what we talk about.

So my question is how can i prove to my boyfriend who i love dearly and would never "drop" him for anyone, that there is nothing to worry about?

I'll rate high for good answers.

Thanks so much in advance. (link)
Deff dont tell him that the boy thinks your gorgeous .. if hes kinda if'y right now hell be more..like why is she talking to him? you dont wanna cut your other friend off either because its not fair to you .. my boyfriend gets like that sometimes.. but if he trusts you hell come to terms with the fact that its just talking and that you really want him .. and nobody else .. and he cant tell you who to talk to either so dont let that happen .. just let him know keep reminding him that your with him .. your not going anywhere .. because if you were im sure you would have left by now ..


Is it true that mascara makes your eyelashes fall out? If so how do you prevent it?

Thanks =) (link)
No its not true .. but waterproof makes them week .. so dont use it .. it damages them ..


I take a shower pretty much every day, and straighten my hair every day. I know it gives you split ends and stuff but I get a lot of haircuts so that's not a problem. But is it unhealthy? Will it burn your hair? (link)
Use a damage control spray to protect it form the heat .. and a deep conditioner for moisture .. you should be fine if you get haircuts it will get rid of most of the split ends ..




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