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My ex and the slut
I found out my ex boyfriend who i love so much and want back, likes this slut from another school and she likes him back and he is going to ask her out...if this happens i dont know what ill do...it may be something drastic...please help! im scared and heartbroken =[
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I know this is probably hard news to hear, but if your ex-boyfriend wants to get with someone whose a slut, then it'll just have to happen.
What you have to concentrate on is yourself and how you can make everything around you more comfortable to deal with this break-up. If you spend your time trying to find out what he's doing and who he's doing it with, it will just make you hurt even more when you hear about it. And the worst of it is that what you hear in the future may not even be true. So you might be hurting and crying for a rumor that might not even be true.
Do yourself a favor by staying out of his life and not worrying about what he's up to even though you feel good when his name comes up in a conversation. I know it has to hurt thinking about all of this, but this would be the time to have your family and friends as your love and support team. Theres nothing worse than dealing with something really painful all by yourself. Reach out to someone who can be there for you and bring you comfort.
-TheTeenGirl
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trust me...i know how you feel. i had my heartbroken the same way...only with and to my best friend. it will hurt, and i'm not going to sugar coat it, but you will get over it. the best you can do if this happens is to relax, take some deep breaths, and take a long bath or something. something that will relax you. go see a movie with your friends...got to a spa...get a mani pedi. watch old movies. take your mind off him, and show him that you won't be brought down by it. but no matter what you do, never regret what you did. he will, and you'll move on. if you even have the slightest regret, you won't be able to move on, so just take some time away from him, and enjoy yourself.
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