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E-mail: iamhavingfun@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: L4luv1717
Member Since: April 24, 2006
Answers: 8
Last Update: July 14, 2006
Visitors: 1078
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I am 13 and I still don't have a boyfriend. All my friends have boyfriends and I sometimes feel left out. I also go to and all girls' school so I don't really know alot of guys. But I go to dances and dance with guys. Please help me be flirty and likeable.
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I definatley know how you feel!!!
I have been in a situation like this before and i know how to work it out. Okay well first of all you don't HAVE to have a boyfriend its really fun to be single and flirt with all the guys that you want! When you see a guy you like and he is looking at you smile at him with confidence. you could also try and talk to a guy and if he kind of teases you play along with it and the flirting will go on. Just be nice and sweet to guys and they will like you better. Also remember most guys don't like sluts so you don't have to dress like one. You also don't have to wear too much makeup. Guys like more of a natural look but some is okay. most of all the number one thing is to be yourself!! GoOd LuCk!!
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i'm going to try and make this brief
by just stating facts first off.
-i am a sixteen year old girl
-i had this boyfriend for 6 months.
-we broke up because he said he was confused,
and was starting to have a change of feelings
for me.
it's been three months since the breakup.
we're still friends, we never really stopped.
lately i've been doing horrible in school,
so he offered to tutor me.
he came over last night and we went over homework,
but he would occasionally get unfocussed.
so i asked him what was wrong and he said
he just had alot of things on his mind.
so of course, i asked him what they were,
and he wouldnt tell me at first,
but eventually he said
"im starting to have feelings for you again,
and it's just so weird how this is the first
time we've hung out since the break up"
and from there we kindof locked eyes, and he
said he really missed kissing me, and he started
to cry. saying how much he misses me but he doesnt
want to give me the wrong idea if he kissed me
because he doesnt know what he wants. which is
why he wont even ask out this other girl. cause
he's confused.
[now mind you right now he's KINDOF with that other girl, theyre not dating, but supposadly
they like eachother and they kiss once in a
while and that kind of stuff, but theyve
been going downhill the past 2 weeks]
wo we kissed. but not just making out. he
would kiss my forhead and my nose and say
how im beautiful and all that. and i was
so happy because i thought maybe he wanted
to be with me again.
his mom called and we went to wait outside
while his mom drove to pick him up. and it was
pouring outside and it was dark. me and him
just stood there and he said "maybe we shouldnt
have done what we did, i dont want you to
expect me to ask you out right away becayse
i honestly dont know what i want."
and he started crying again, saying how he couldnt
bare to hurt me again. and all this stuff.
his mom came to get him, and he hugged me goodbye.
and later that night he called me and told me
that what we did was a mistake. and how he couldnt
see uss together again. but how he still has
feelings for me he's just afraid if we date
he'll lose feelings again.
so i dont know what to do. i love him so much.
i always have and i probabbly will for a long
time. im happy we got to hang out after so long.
and im happy i got to kiss him but i dont
know what to expect out of this.
please help me. im sorry this is long.
ill rate hi for sure.
thanks
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First of all that is really romantic i have to say!!! Well if you love him that much you have to tell hm how you feel. Talk to him about how you could make the relationship work! Do whatever you can. Hang out with him some more and make him want you back. If he really loves you he will will want to be with you again. i hope i helped!!
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Today at school my mates were saying that I look like Nanny McPhee! I do have a big nose & bushy eyebrows but I try not to care about looks at all, whereas looks are the most important thing in my mates lives.. it's not just my mates who think I look hideous, they printed a pic of Nanny McPhee & kept asking teachers if I looked like her, and they all said, "well I'm not trying to be mean.. but yeah, she does". Now I feel terrible, I have no confidence whatsoever as it is, I have huge problems with talking to people and stuff.. Anyway, how can I make myself not hideous and revolting? Thanks :\ (link)
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Wow what nice friends you have (NOT)! Well i'm not quite sure what you can do about your nose buti'm sure its not that big!! For your eyebrows you can get them waxed or pluck them. It doesn't hurt like at all. Then you should talk to your friends and tell them that it hurts your feelings when they say that. Maybe if they care about looks so much they could gove you some pointers. Just try your best to talk to them about it because that is one of the best things you can do to slove this problem. hope i helped!!
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ok well i have a really close friend(a boy) he has really helped me get thro the last year without me wanting to slit my wrists or something.. i have found out that he is lyk in love with me.. its not even just a crush he is lyk totally serious and i dont want him to act lyk this..btw we went out for 2 years a year ago n i promised myself i wouldnt fall in love with him again because he is amazing.i dont know how to say i dont want to go out with him but i still want to be friends...what should i do?
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Do whatever your heart tells you, and try your best not to beak his(heart). Talk to him about it and try to work something out. If he really cares about you he will respect that you want to stay just friends.
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I have had braces for about 8.5-9 months now and so far, I'm not liking it. When I look at myself in the mirror, I don't think of myself as beautiful anymore, because theres disgusting metal on my teeth. Having braces has lowered my self esteem twice as much as my self esteem was before I had them. I feel like a dork and sometimes I even regret getting them. I've tried telling my friends and family about this, but they've all had them and they say their little stories just to make me feel worse. Even some of the kids in school teased me about my braces before. Like one guy had a metal pen in his hand one day and he told me to put it in my mouth, because it would shock my mouth, because I have stupid braces. I hate my life with braces. I just want my old life back! Every single kid in my school everyday is getting their braces taken off. It's like a school epidemic. The more kids who don't have braces, the more upset I get. Is this normal or do I have issues? (link)
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Braces.....like everyone hates them and there isn't much you can do about it. You can try to see if you can switch to invisaline Idk if you can do that but just see. Also think of it as when you get ypur braces off your teeth will be perfect. you can still be beautiful with braces, Just try not to let those other jerks get to you. Just try not to think negativley about it. this is normal so don't worry.
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im doing areport for school and i need songs about sucide anyone know any?? (link)
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youth of the nation by POD
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Hey I'm an eigth grade girl and i have a major problem!! I just got in a big fight with this mean girl and now we are enemies. anyway we both like the same boy. i think he might like me too, but i want him to ask me out. how do i get him to ask me out and not her? (link)
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to start out at least try to not be enimies with the girl. if you don't and if she found out that you were trying to get him to ask you out. She could do something bad to make your chance of going out twith him even smaller. then try to flirt with the guy as much as possible and talk to him a lot. Just get to know him. Try to see if he can hang out. then you will just have to see how it works out in the end.
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4 the past 3 years ive been feeling like i want to die and i have stress that just wont stop.i feel like everybodys like against me and i havent eaten in 4 days and i hope that im not turning anerxic.eveyday i get in arguments with my parents and teachers.i tried to commit suicide a few times but either the pills were old or it just didnt go through as planed.i think im adicted to cough medicine.i dont know what is wronge with me ill be overly happy one min. and they next ill freak out and start balling.i dont know what to do.please..HElP
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Wow actually I have been feeling like that the last couple of days. Well life is tough and there is nothing so bad in your life that you have to kill yourself. Trust me!!!!! Try to talk to your parents about how you have been feeling, maybe they will try to help you. Also try to do whatver makes you happy and lay off of the cough medicine please. Talk to your school conselor or someone you trust about how you have been feeling lateley. they will probably help you. And just remember that everyones life means something and you don't have to kill yourself.
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