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<3btw ima girl
ok well i have a really close friend(a boy) he has really helped me get thro the last year without me wanting to slit my wrists or something.. i have found out that he is lyk in love with me.. its not even just a crush he is lyk totally serious and i dont want him to act lyk this..btw we went out for 2 years a year ago n i promised myself i wouldnt fall in love with him again because he is amazing.i dont know how to say i dont want to go out with him but i still want to be friends...what should i do?
<33paige
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it will hurt more if you lead him on.
tell him that you love him and appreciate everything he has done for you, but you no longer see him as a potential boyfriend.
i know it will be hard for him to take, but stick by your word. you DO NOT have to compromise the way you feel for the sake of not upsetting someone else. it's a big mistake i used to mistake and still do.
it will make you feel guilty, but ultimately it is YOUR LIFE and if you don't want to be with him, that is your decision and no-one can take away your right to make that choice.
just make sure he undertsands how much you truly value his friendship.
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Do whatever your heart tells you, and try your best not to beak his(heart). Talk to him about it and try to work something out. If he really cares about you he will respect that you want to stay just friends.
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Here is a good site that will help with what to say.
Good luck. :)
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Sorry you don't like to read!
Great info there if anyone else cares to check it out. :)
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