I am 13 and I still don't have a boyfriend. All my friends have boyfriends and I sometimes feel left out. I also go to and all girls' school so I don't really know alot of guys. But I go to dances and dance with guys. Please help me be flirty and likeable.
worrywart answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:32 pm: Flirty and likeable? You don't have to be flirty for a guy to like you, all you need to do is be you--just be who you are. You don't need to rush just cause your friends all have guys ... I have friends who are fifteen who haven't even gotten asked out yet. No rush. And a lot of girls like to try and be the guy, meaning they like to be the ones to ask the other person out. I was just talking to my friend and this is the advice he gave me: if you like someone you should be flirting naturally you should'nt have to think about it.
more_than_a_feeling answered Friday July 14 2006, 7:13 pm: Be yourself and smile alot. If boys aren't attracted to you for who you are then screw them. And guess what? Alot of girls don't get into their first relationship until they're fifteen or sixteen. Don't let not having a boyfriend make you jealous of others or keep you from having fun! [ more_than_a_feeling's advice column | Ask more_than_a_feeling A Question ]
missmad127 answered Friday July 14 2006, 7:02 pm: hi i don't have a boyfriend either and i never have but i don't let that get in the way of letting me have fun. i go to a private school where most of the boys i have known just about all my life and seem to much like brothers to ever date them. Just remember that you are only 13 and you have the rest of your life to find a boyfriend. if you try to rush into finding a boyfriend you just might miss that special someone. you don't have to be more flirty for guys to like you when you try to be flirty guys don't get to see the real you. If the guy is worth anything at all he has to like you for who you are and not the flirty girl you try to be.
I hope my advice will help! Good luck with the boy troubles
fluter1289 answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:25 pm: Hey, you know what? I'm 16 and I'm on my first boyfriend! And you know what else? I didn't let it bother me that other people had boyfriends and I did. It's not something that should define you. You shouldn't go out and have that as a goal. If a guy comes along that you truly care about, then go for him (responsibly), but for now, don't worry about it. It's not worth the stress. Just be yourself. When I was single, and my friends went out with thier boyfriends, there were usually 2 or 3 people like me out with them. Ask your friends to try that. But remember that it's ok if they want to go out alone sometimes. And of course, a girl's night out every other friday night or so is a must. Anyway, the bottom line is that a boyfriend will come in time, but whether or not you have one should never be a signifigant part of the way you define yourself. :) [ fluter1289's advice column | Ask fluter1289 A Question ]
dumbbrunette42 answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:20 pm: I definatley know how you feel!!!
I have been in a situation like this before and i know how to work it out. Okay well first of all you don't HAVE to have a boyfriend its really fun to be single and flirt with all the guys that you want! When you see a guy you like and he is looking at you smile at him with confidence. you could also try and talk to a guy and if he kind of teases you play along with it and the flirting will go on. Just be nice and sweet to guys and they will like you better. Also remember most guys don't like sluts so you don't have to dress like one. You also don't have to wear too much makeup. Guys like more of a natural look but some is okay. most of all the number one thing is to be yourself!! GoOd LuCk!! [ dumbbrunette42's advice column | Ask dumbbrunette42 A Question ]
DancinHottie22 answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:15 pm: be yourself and if boys don't like you for that then there not right, but don't rush getting a boyfriend, a relationship is suppose to be special not a just a popularity thing besides your only 13 so enjoy hanging with your friends and in high school get serious about boys hope i helped! [ DancinHottie22's advice column | Ask DancinHottie22 A Question ]
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