|
confused
ok im confused, i want to makeout w/ my bf but on a survey not too long ago he said he wasnt ready...but my friend told me that he wants to m/o with me. we are in a really open relationship but idk how to tell him...im afraid/embarrassed that he wont tell me that he feels the same way. and even if he did say that he would too...when it comes to the topic of m/o im completely clueless!! plz help! i rate high!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Open relationships can work. They just require maturity which people mostly don't have when they are young. A real emotional commitment is needed to connect with someone enough, so that you feel comfortable enough to be physically intimate.
Don't pressure him. Just try and talk to him about it in a safe and non threatening way. If he freaks out, then you probably should be seeing someone else. Communication and honesty are the two key things in a relationship. Without the ability to be honest, a relationship doesn't stand to last long.
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
That is a good link about kissing technique, and should help you if you do wish to do it.
Just be careful, and don't get into anything you aren't comfortable with.
]
okay, first, you need to calm down. take deep breaths, and relax. now, if you guys are in an open relationship, then yu guys really shouldn't be dating. talk to him, see if he'll want a real relationship with you. if he doesn't then dump his a*^ and find someone that will want a real relationship. as for the whole makeout thing, if you want to, talk to him, and if he says no, and he wants a real relationship, then just wait. and don't make out with him if you guys aren't in a real relationship. after you talk to him, reward yourself for speaking up for yourself, and go do something that will relax you. go to a spa, go to the movies, watch T.V., but keep in mind that you are trying to relax, so have as few distractions as possible, and have fun. if he really likes you, then he'll want the relationship, so keep that n mind.
]
More Questions: |