can you somehow find out who'ss added you as a favorite? thanks
Yes..Your surely can its actually very easy too..
Under where you log in at there is a link that says "Favorite Columnists" click on that && it will tell you whos added you && who you`ve added..
Easy right??
♥Dez
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this is going to sound really dumb but if you use tampons then is it posible that sex wont pleasure you if you're constantly putting something up you're vagina every month?? just wondering
Sex && tampins are two completely different things && defiantly feel completely different.. I don`t think you have any worries sweetie..
♥Dez
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so i would bring a bunch of dresses or whatever in there with me. I'm thinking about possibly giving him and hand or blow job. i'm not sure yet. any ideas? i need some pretty desperately.
Well so your not so obvious yes i think bringing dresses in would be a good idea..
But if you haven`t done anything with him at all i wouldn`t rush into giving him head..Possibly a hand job maybe a blow job next time sweetie..But like i said thats completely up to you..
♥Dez
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Me and my bf had sex without a condom and he cummed inside me..i was on my period though and it ends in two days. I figure i should be ok because sperm only can survive inside you for 3-5 days right? and the egg for next month wont be coming down for a couple weeks right? should i be worried or am i most likely not pregnent?
Most likely Not because i asked my gynocologist this question && he said its one of the most rarest things..
But if you miss your next period i suggest getting a test..
Make sure to always use a condom or possibly get on birth control..
♥Dez
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Is making out with another guy cheating?????????
Yes darling it surely is..
♥Dez
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hey dez! my guy friend/new friend with benefits and i decided to meet up at kenwood mall and hook up. do you think it would be a good idea to makeout and stuff in a fitting room? you know, like the ones at dillards that arent really supervised and have full coverage doors? i'm welcome to new ideas! thanks!
Hi..
Meetin up at kenwood mall && making out in a fitting room would be pretty cool but then again wouldn`t you like to be able to do it for awhile && not a short period of time.. I know i would..It also depends on the other stuff you`ll be doing.. I mean teenagers do things in places like that but if it excites you && him i say go for it.. But if your talking about sex i don`t know all about that but thats completely up to you..
Hope you have fun && if you`d like anymore ideas feel free to ask..
♥Dez
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do???????????????????????
Your defiantly not getting the respect you deserve if he is going to let his friends have sex with you.. Thats disgusting && if he truly loved/cared for you then you`d be all to him not him && other people.. Yeah he takes care of you or whatever but you must be doing something in return someway maybe not noticing it sweetie..
You defiantly need to talk to this guy about whats going on!!
♥Dez
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My friend went on the Depo shot sometime around the middle of March and lost her virginity (unprotected) maybe a couple weeks after that. Thing is, she hasn't started her period yet. It's now nearly 7 weeks later and she's scared. The only time she's bled on the shot is after having sex. She has only had PROTECTED sex once of twice but has had unprotected sex many times. She says she's not going to worry about it but I can tell she is and I don't know what to tell her. Is it normal for her not to spot or start her period or is this something she should see her doctor about or take a test for? Please help, I rate high! Thank you.
Usually when being on the shot your not suppose to have a period at all!!
She should call her doctor && get details
♥
Dez
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I guess I got myself mixed in the wrong crowd. I want to make friends with new people but I feel I dont fit in with them. How can I slowly fit in with them?
If you don`t fit in don`t try be yourself.. If you try to be like them or do things you`ve never done most likely you`ll make a fool out of yourself.. ♥DEz
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Alright, so I'm 14 years old and shaving sideburns-- is this normal?
If your a male then defiantly this is normal for your age..
If your a female maybe try waxing instead..
♥Dez
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ok i have a boyfrind that i love with him and he says he loves me to but i cant trust him i think he's cheating on me but i like his best friend and he likes me what do i do (sparkles)
Well in my opinion you should have trust in your relationship before love!! Maybe ask him if hes cheating on you but give your reasons on thinking this so he can explain or lie whatever..
Also you must not love him too much if you are liking his best friend.. Maybe watch out cuz you might be the one he has to worry about.. be careful
I don`t mean to sound like a bitch but read your question && think of how you would of responded,,
♥DEz
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Do u think its to soon to give my number? I had met this guy at a party and I was attracted to him, I talked to him on myspace for the first time and I invited him to a party and gave him directions.......I also gave him my number incase he needs directions.
No i don`t think its too soon.. I mean he might need that number if he gets lost..Also you can get to know him better at this party && then if you still like him be like call me sometime we can hang out.. ♥Dez
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um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs?
I don`t think there is a certain age to start shaving your legs.. Whenever the girl feels they are hairy i think shaving them would be a good idea.. some girls don`t think their legs are are ever hairy or the hair is too light to tell that you haven`t shaved.. ♥Dez
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What do i tell a guy to do to get me to orgasim, i really want to, but i dont know how?
the clitoris "your clit" will help you reach this.. either by oral or him rubbing it.. If you`ve never experienced in that area i suggest maybe like rubbing it yourself so you know what you like!!
♥Dez
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My mom never wants me to pluck my eyebrows on my own, so she takes away the tweesers. (I don't think I do that bad of a job) But usually, I find the tweesers and fix up my eyebrows.
But I can't find them, and my eyebrows are really growing back. All I have are these big tweesers that open real wide and are really hard to use.
I should get them professionally done, but I'm embarrassed to ask my mom. help asap?
Just tell her you don`t want bushing eyebrows && that you`d like to get them thinner && things.. ♥Dez
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does anyone know what this song is called and who its by ?
A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile they can share the night
It goes on and on and on and on
Its by Journey its called "Don`t stop believing"
♥Dez
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I want to make my image just a little more punkish/skater, but I don`t know of any places where people get band tees, and things like that. Does anyone know of any?
I know Hot topic sells them!!
♥DEz
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i have short hair about up to the end of my neck. and it's black,and incase this helps i'm african american. i was just wondering what color highlights i should get. and i was just also wondering if higlights damage your hair? please be honest b/c i don't want my hair 2 break down for nothing.thanks in advance
Highlighting wouldn`t damage your hair..I can think of tons of good colors to highlight your hair with..
-Lighter brown
-Dark blondish color
-albrun "my favorite'
-Copper color which is between brown && blonde that would good..
Hope it looks good
♥Dez
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is it shallow of me to want guys only for my butt.. i don't have much of a nice face or body for that matter but i do have 'a great butt'.. as i've been told.. so just tell me if im that shallow or not please
That doesn`t make you shallow in my opinion..
But you should want guys to like you for more then your butt..
How about personailty..?
♥Dez
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12 1/2 femail. i am not exactly sure but this is a really dum question but i really want to know
when people say they went out on a date . where do they like go how do you know and where do u go on a date wat do you do on one?
please help answere bc i am 2 emberrased 2 ask friends or mom. thanks!!!
Don`t be embarrassed..
Most people who go on dates go to..
-Movies
-Dinner
-Dancing
-At a party
-His or her house to hang out
When people go on dates they mainly hang out..The point is to get to know eachother..So having conversation is good..Ask questions about eachother..
Sometimes kissing happens on a date depending on how things go..
♥Dez
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