about

Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

I don't know who I need to talk to about this. I'm just looking for someone to try and help me make sense of my situation. See, I've always dreamed of being famous. Being an actress or singer and making millions. Being as popular as Britney Spears was and all that. But, the problem is I like in a small town and inside, I know that it is so unlikely I am going to ever have the chance to be famous. I;m in local plays and musicals, but I get small roles. I don't have a good singing voice either. But, every day I dream and think about this. Does everybody want to be famous ? Or do you think i should pursue this dream, that i think about this a lot for a reason? help!

Well think about this...Britney spears,christine aguilera,justin timberlake,eminem,and so many more came out of small towns and theyre famous.If you're serious go for it, but finish high school and train for a back-up career in case the acting doesnt work out.

♥ashley♥

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When I sit down I have this dot thing on my leg like a dimple kind of. What is it and why is it there how do i get it off?

It's probably cellulite.Do pilates and excersize to get ride of it:-)

♥ashley♥

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13/f -- I am really scared because recentyl i was dared by my friends to go to porn websites on my compter ..But i deleted my history right after -- then i read something about people going to jail and i was wondering can you go to jail for looking at internet porn? I promise myself i will never do it again and i know it was really wrong but i dont want to go to jail!! And im crying im so scared ..what do i do?

You can't go to jail if you looked at legal porn.The only time someone would go to jail is if the porn was of people under 18.The worst that could happen to you is your parents find it.So don't worry too much about it.

♥ashley♥

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When it comes to dating and what-not, do guys prefer looks or personality? If looks, then what primarily are they interested in? If personality, then what kind of traits do they like?

Well all guys are different. Most guys will say both are important,but they lean more towards personality.If a girl is gorgeous,but has a horrible personality,but good would it be to date her,they wouldnt want anything more than to hook up.The guys I know they like girls who are fun,and can joke around and don't take stuff too seriously.Who don't act all snobby (think regina george from mean girls).Hope I helped:-)

♥ashley♥

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hello everyone.... jsut wodnering but what are how are you actually suppost to clean your vagina, and what with? and no not the feminine wipes i am tryign to avoid that humiliation

If you don't want to use feminine wipes,use johnson's baby soap,it's the most gentle stuff you can use.

♥ashley♥

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What are some good prepaid cell phone deals? thanks!

Nextel is the best

♥ashley♥

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I can't wake up in the morning. My bus comes at 6:45, and I've been waking up at 630. is there anything i can do to get more sleep? i usually cant fall asleep until 12

Try sleeping pills.But be careful,some people can get addicted to them.I heard exercising before you go to bed at night helps you fall asleep easier.And set an alarm clock by your bed, and another one 15 minutes different somewhere else so you'll have to get up to turn the other one off.

♥ashley♥

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ok soo my face is fine in the mornign wheni get ready for schhool, but then by the end of school my face is soooooo oily, what can i do, besides pound more powder on, cuz i hate to wear a lot of make up, its jsut really shiny, and gross.. but yeah like i i ahte wearing tons of make up, i jsut wear anough to loook natural, and nothing works i've tryed translusent powder,a dn all taht and i do clay masks liek evry three days, what do yuo suggest?

Make sure you wash your face with a water-based cleanser designed for oily skin every morning.

♥ashley♥

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ok i want dimples on my cheeks soo bad ...like if i see ppl with dimples i think it is soo cute and i want them...my friend wasnt born with dimples but she got hurt and they did surgry now she has one dimple...i was wondering if u can just get a dimple...and how?? i kno it sounds weird but ya

You have to be born with them.Dimples are cute,but it's okay not to have them too.

♥ashley♥

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hey does anyone know where i can find some good makeup products online? thanks!

Go to sephora.com they sell jessica simpson's "dessert" products there =)

♥ashley♥

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hey i was just wondering because i got the new color pulse by loreal thing, its like semi permanent hair dye, that washed off in 8-10 shampoos. and it says wash and towel dry ur hair. does it mean dry it entirely of just partially. because i haven't washed my hair for like 3 days and i don't know will the dye stay in. i got dark blonde hair, and i want it lighter. i got cool blonde, and i don't know if it'll work. thanks in advance! i rate 5's. =)

Towel dry means to get your hair to wear its only damp,not soaking wet.Don't dry it completely,or the die won't work.Good luck,i'm sure your hair will turn out great:-)

♥ashley♥

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what are some good ways to get a boy to notice you in school?? i like this kid in school but i dont think he notices me... i need help!! thanks!

flaunt urself:-) talk to him,smile and be yourself.when u think something is funny, dont be afraid to LAUGH!:-)

♥ashley♥

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14/f hey does anyone know what i should wear on valentines day? nothing pink or anything like that-- i absolutly hate the holiday but i want to look cute .... maybe get a guys attention? lol nothing black either
thanks!

Wear red!red and pink are valentine's day colors,so maybe wear something with little cute hearts on it:-)

♥ashley♥

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my cat bites (a lot) what should i do?

Get a trainor to get the cat out of its bad habbits.


♥ashley♥

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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up?

The doctor will look at your skin and tell you what all your options are.He will probably give you a lotion or cleanser to use,or if your acne is severe he may suggest using a laser to diminish some of the acne.


♥ashley♥

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My friend always is so depressed. He never has his luck in love. I always tell him we're barely even teens yet and he doesn't know what love is. I always send him links to some good columns o here but he always says he is too depressed to click it. It is getting really annoying. Some of my other friends (including me) talk about how annoy it is and that they don't really know what love is. What should I do to show him this? I rate pretty high.

If he is your friend,be his shoulder to cry on.Help him out through these tough times.Or you can give him numbers to depression hot lines.But all depressed people really need is a friend.

♥ashley♥

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I've had a really, really sore throat for the past 3 weeks, which was the last time I made out with someone. This kid was saying it sounded like when his friend had mono and that I should check it out, because I have some of the other symptoms of it as well [fatigue,headache,body aches,abdominal pain],but I wasn't sure if that's true because it has been three weeks.
Does anyone know if mono is a possibility?

Yes mono is a possibility.That actually sounds like the only thing is could be.Definateltly go see a doctor!

♥ashley♥

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well me and my best friend have been friends for 9 months. and i love him to death! i was thinken of asken him who he liked/loved or something today but then i found out he was talking be hind my back!!! calling me a slut and a bitch! he gets mad at me very easy. what should i do talked to him about it? i don't want him to get mad at me ! please help

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Well hun, I don't think anyone who talked about their "friends" behind their back is a good friend.But maybe you should talk to him maybe somethings bothering him and you two should talk it over.

♥ashley♥

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Hi does anybody know the ingredients for a high protein drink which can help build up muscles. I wanna make it myself cos they r expensive at da shop. thanks for the help!

I rate high!

Well I know people who drink raw eggs and it's supposed to help you get muscles faster and better.But I think you can get protein drinks pretty cheap at CVS or something.

♥ashley♥

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Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too?

Not if you make sure your boyfriend's okay with it.Some guys see that as a sign that you're not interested in him anymore.

♥ashley♥

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