ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:
your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers
sounds bad enough, right?
well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.
she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her
thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas
helllp me
just a thought, the annoying twirp could be your brother.
try not to hate her, it's got to be hard, but i think it's possible. try talking to her about the need for a basketball hoop, maybe your dad's just being over protective of her because he's afraid you'll never like her.
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Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice?
tell your friend that you like this girl, be honest with him. it sucks to watch someone you like date your best friend. so tell him. and talk to her about it! if she really likes you but you step away bc your friend likes her as well, she'll be crushed!
in short: communication works wonders
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I have been having theese problems I mean every thing schoolparents boys and I have been cutting myself for about a year and it is really bothering me at school I will go to the bathroom and just carve a knife into my leg and I want to stop but I jsut cant I tried to but I couldnt plz help me
you're strong enough to admit it's wrong, so you're strong enough to over come this. tell a school counselor. or a parent. please.
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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.
walk a few miles every day... once you're comfortable doing that, start jogging, then running. swim, eat healthier foods, drink more water.
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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes.
exercise lots and lots
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ok, so i have a ton of guy friends, and i never have any trouble talking to them or anything. but theres this one guy that i have a crush on, and i cant look at him when i talk to him! i dont know why, i can talk to him fine, but i avoid looking at him, which makes me look stupid! what can i do to make myself look at him? i can talk just fine, but the looking is the problem... thanks!!
remind yourself that the eyes are the window to the soul, and that he can't see yours if you're not looking at him!
plus, i'm sure he has great eyes... get some time to at least figure out the color every so often, it paints a more accurate mental image and all that
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ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..
well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne
please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..
find out what the hell happened in your house before you moved in. type in the date into a search engine or something. once you know what's haunting you, maybe it'll be easier to stop it. try getting it blessed again... wear a cross necklace, say prayers when you're scared... that's really all i can think of.
just because i know a lot of ghost shows have done it... try taking pictures of the blank space in those rooms, if you see orbs of light, they're considered spirits or whatever... or try filming this stuff.
freaky...
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hi im almost 16 and my parents never told me straight up if i can date or not but they know i have anyways i want to bring a guy home how do i ask my mom or should i just bring him or wat i dont want to make my bf feel weird or my parents but this is the thing my bf doesnt speak the language my parnts do he only speaks english and my parents only understand but they cant speak help me out i rate good thanx
go ahead and ask your parents if you can bring your boyfriend around before a date some time, that you'd like for them to meet him. play translator for a while if you need to, then enjoy the date with your bf, and ease away any awkwardness
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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?
tell your mom before he does. tell her that you made a mistake that you know not to make anymore, that you're sorry, and that you're willing to accept the consequences of your actions. most parents are lenient after that.
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okay, so im 13 and im really small like my body is and im only like 5"4 i weigh bout a little over 100 pounds and im not trying to be arrogant but im really fit. The only thing is my boobs are really big. I wear a D cup bra and even when i wear sports bras they like look really big anyways theres a lot of problems. Im majorly into sports and they get so much in the way and they make my back hurt really bad. Second of all I always get hit on by like way older guys and I dont want that because im a really christian person with a strong faith and its just wrong. Then theres also the problem that like a whole bunch of guys like me and the only reason is because of my boobs, and theres been like a whole bunch of rumors that i had a boob job which is NOT true at all and a lot of girls dont like me because of them because they get jealous that the guys at our school really like me even though i tell them i dont like any of them. Then i also have stretch marks and i dont know how to get rid of them??? can someone please tell me about any really good bras that will like hide them or help support them, cause ive talked to my dcotor and they just gave me this pain medicine to keep them from hurting when they put strain on my back and stuff and also to hide them from perverted guys that im tired of dealing with?? please help me
to get rid of stretch marks, use cocoa butter.
as for hiding them... there are bras at victorias secret and such that squish them down and all that, the opposite of a push up bra.
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Ok, a couple of months ago, one of my guy friends (not a really close one, but somebody i talk to alot) moved away, and i was sad, but not a lot. Then i started to talk to him online alot more, and he was always nice, and teased me, but in the nice way, and now i think i kinda like him. He might be coming back for winter break, and i dunno what to say to him if he does. I dont even know if he'll wanna be my friend once he sees his ex (they broke up because he was moving, but i think they still like each other) wat do i do?
play it by ear and hope for the best. ask him about his feelings for his ex... if there are any. tell him that you need to do something together over break. ask him to go ice skating or something...
gl
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my arm has been hurting for the past week like by the socket...idk what i should do... it hurts sometimes but not all the time... i told my mom and she wont do anything about it. anyone know what might be the cause?
try going to your school nurse about it, during gym class or whatever. i dunno what the cause is, but it'd be best to get it checked out
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ok im in 7th grade and i have a 9th grade boyfriend and i never see him!!! he went to a party tonight at the movies and i couldnt go bc my mom wouldnt let me.. but he could and this one gurl that i think likes him went too and i dunno if he'll do something with her..shes in 8th grade.. i dont know what to do!? I rele rele like him but everybody says i should dump him but i dont know.. i dont wanna hurt him because i feel if i was too brake up with him, id like him after a day and i would wanna be back with him but he'd say no, thats how i feel and hes so hot and nice but my friend wyatt who helps with anything says im gonna get hurt or hes gonna play me and that he think he likes other gurls..ugh i dont know what to do.. im so confused!! i Mean i love him to death but it just dont feel right i mean im soo attempted to flirt with other guys at my school ugh he prolly flirts with other gurls too...omg i dont wanna hurt him but i gotta do whats best:( what should i do? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me...*Ashlee*
i think it's really hard to try and date across schools like that, because it's all the distance in such a young relationship.
totally random, but your friend wyatt may like you a tad.
i think it could probably be really helpful to be unattached right now, because then you'd be free to flirt with those your age, and you'd be able to potentially see the guy you date more often than never.
good luck! let me know how it goes
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A guy named Kiel, who works at the same place I do, started giving me notes, asking me if I had a boyfriend and kept telling me how nice I looked. Then we started talking on the phone. He kept asking me if I wanted to date him. At work, a lot of girls flirted with him, but he didn't flirt back. He basically only talked to me. He seemed very interested in me. Today, Kiel called me. We talked for about three minutes. Then, all of a sudden, some very angry girl in the background yelled, "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!" (The chick DID NOT mean that I was his gilfriend, she meant that someone else was.) There was silence for a couple of seconds and Kiel said madly to the girl, "NO I DON'T!!!" Then the girl sounded even madder and told him, "F**k you!" Then some other background noise went on. After that, Kiel said, "Can I call you back?" I said, "Yeah," in a what-the-hell-is going on tone. Then I told him bye (a little nicer) and hung up. Then, a few minutes ago, my phone rang once, then stopped. Maybe he accidentally hit redial.
Then the SAME girl that was yelling at Kiel called me from a different phone number. Here's our conversation:
Me: Hello?
The Mystery Girl: Who is this?
Me: Sarah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call Kiel. He has a girlfriend.
Me: He does?
The Mystery Girl: Yeah. Do you know him from work or what?
Me: Yeah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call him. He's f**king stupid. He has a girlfriend.
Me: Ok. Bye.
What should I do? I want to find out the truth. I really like Kiel, but of course I don't want to be with him if he has a girlfriend. What would you do in this situation?
i'd try talking to him next time you see him. i mean, start off asking what that girl was talking about, and find out if what she said had any merit. if he says it doesn't, ask him why she said it...
i'd give it some time to cool down a lil, ya know? just to make sure any psycho ex doesn't come after you...
good luck, let me know how it goes!
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i have been going out with this guy for a little over a month now. i like him alot and from what i hear he likes me a lot too. we have only made out 3 times though. and weve hung out every friday night just about and a few other times at parties and stuff. his only problemis he doesnt show affection. he doesnt do the cute little things like kiss my check, put his hands around my waist, or hold my hand. i am beginning to like other guys that i know would treat me better. i really like him but what should i do?? (oh yeah im a 13 year old girl.)
try initiating it more... maybe he doesn't know when to do those kinds of things. maybe he's not sure if you'll like it. talk to him, he may not know about it. just give him a chance before you just dump him...
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i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
ignore what they're saying if you feel strongly enough. but ask yourself if you want to have a pot lifestyle or date someone who does it. if the answer is no, find someone else.
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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?
you're falling for the wrong guys... you're falling for the ones that are superficial and don't care about anything other than cup size. ignore them. they're not worth it. you don't want to date them or be like the girls they date. it's not worth selling yourself out like that.
talk to your parents about having all the fights and such, they prolly are just as confused. schedule in some time every week/day that you spend with them, to do something together. i know someone who started going ice skating with their parents, and it's much better for them now.
and get some confidence! it's more beautiful than anything on anyone!
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sry this is soo long! plz help!
ok so theres this kid that i kno.. and im starting to have feelings for him but im not sure if i should or not.. heres the situation: Me and this kid knew who eachother for a while but never really talked, well a few weeks ago i was talkin to a friend and we were introduced. Now we always talk when we see each other. when i dont talk to him, he always seems to mess with me*flirt*(i think) or say something to get me to notice him and talk to him. and today in lunch i anytime i wasnt talking to him he would play hit me and tell me to shut up. and later i started to think what it would be like if we would go together. but i dont wanna get myself all worked up if hes jus playing with my head. does he like me? does he jus wanna be my friend? is playing mind games? im jus really confused. please help! i rate high!
*confused*
it's hard to tell since we don't know you or him, but i'd say it's worth a shot. see how it goes.
you're young, might as well try, what's the worst that can happen?
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I'm 14 and a female. ok theres this guy that i really like and he wrote me a note and asked me if we could date, and i said i had to get to know him better. so we "talked" for three weeks and then i hear he didnt like me anymore and it was true. So i wrote him a note saying that we should just be friends, but thats not really how i felt, what do i do?
talk to him about it. it could have just been a rumor. and you could have crushed any hope with that letter. time for damage control
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I put a question like this on here a few days ago, but I'll go over whats going on again.
My friend and I both liked a guy, then I backed off so she could have him, then she didn't want a bf. So I stepped up and now I like him and he likes me and outa no where she says she likes him again, so I told her I liked him too and now shes all wierd about it. I told her I didn't want a bf though, and now me and Andy (the guy) have been hanging out alot and I really like him, and when I come home from our dates I hear "Amanda really likes Andy, what are you doing?" and stupid stuff like that. What the hell am I supposed to do? I mean I can't control my feelings, and she had her chance with him. And I'm not going to date him right now anyways b/c I want to get to know him...so people are making it into a lot bigger deal than it is...what do I do?
if you like him, and he likes you, go with it. she should be happy for you because that's what you did for her.
you're right. it is your turn. take it and run with it. tell her that if she didn't want to be with him that's her choice, however, she shouldn't infringe on yours. and tell everyone else that they have no place in your personal life like that. if they have a problem with who you like and who it bothers, they can keep those opinions to themselves. everyone has the right to be happy.
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