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A guy named Kiel, who works at the same place I do, started giving me notes, asking me if I had a boyfriend and kept telling me how nice I looked. Then we started talking on the phone. He kept asking me if I wanted to date him. At work, a lot of girls flirted with him, but he didn't flirt back. He basically only talked to me. He seemed very interested in me. Today, Kiel called me. We talked for about three minutes. Then, all of a sudden, some very angry girl in the background yelled, "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!" (The chick DID NOT mean that I was his gilfriend, she meant that someone else was.) There was silence for a couple of seconds and Kiel said madly to the girl, "NO I DON'T!!!" Then the girl sounded even madder and told him, "F**k you!" Then some other background noise went on. After that, Kiel said, "Can I call you back?" I said, "Yeah," in a what-the-hell-is going on tone. Then I told him bye (a little nicer) and hung up. Then, a few minutes ago, my phone rang once, then stopped. Maybe he accidentally hit redial.
Then the SAME girl that was yelling at Kiel called me from a different phone number. Here's our conversation:
Me: Hello?
The Mystery Girl: Who is this?
Me: Sarah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call Kiel. He has a girlfriend.
Me: He does?
The Mystery Girl: Yeah. Do you know him from work or what?
Me: Yeah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call him. He's f**king stupid. He has a girlfriend.
Me: Ok. Bye.
What should I do? I want to find out the truth. I really like Kiel, but of course I don't want to be with him if he has a girlfriend. What would you do in this situation?
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I'm sorry if my advice sounds really bad but this is probably the hardest question I have ever tried to answer and I'll try my best. Well, personally if u really liked the guy that much u should probably just go for it and shouldn't listen to the mystery girl calling u.
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well ask him and be like.. if you have a girlfriend then don't talk to me the way that you have been because I don't like cheating liers .... and if he says that he really doesn't have a girlfriend then still be suspicious... but be a little easier on him
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well maybe he was planning on breaking up with her, and that's why he was giving you hints at his interest in you. maybe she's a friend playing a sick joke? who knows. you should talk to him at work most definitly. find out anything you can when you're there. call him in a few days if you dont talk to him at work. the girl wont be with him all the time. hopefully he'll have a good excuse. if he doesnt, then forget him- you dont want to mess with guys who play with two girls. sorry that girl screwed with your head, maybe she was just playing a really bad joke on you? ask him, he'll tell you. tell me how things go. =] -ask_anything
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Alright...kinda weird! I bet that took forever to write haha! But definately go for him i mean u dont know the girl!! haha
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uumm ok, talk to him about it at work and see what he says. tell him how you feel about him and tell him the crazy girl called you and what all she said. i really dont know but if you need any more help let me know G/l
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i'd try talking to him next time you see him. i mean, start off asking what that girl was talking about, and find out if what she said had any merit. if he says it doesn't, ask him why she said it...
i'd give it some time to cool down a lil, ya know? just to make sure any psycho ex doesn't come after you...
good luck, let me know how it goes!
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