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Question Posted Sunday December 12 2004, 11:10 pm

A guy named Kiel, who works at the same place I do, started giving me notes, asking me if I had a boyfriend and kept telling me how nice I looked. Then we started talking on the phone. He kept asking me if I wanted to date him. At work, a lot of girls flirted with him, but he didn't flirt back. He basically only talked to me. He seemed very interested in me. Today, Kiel called me. We talked for about three minutes. Then, all of a sudden, some very angry girl in the background yelled, "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!" (The chick DID NOT mean that I was his gilfriend, she meant that someone else was.) There was silence for a couple of seconds and Kiel said madly to the girl, "NO I DON'T!!!" Then the girl sounded even madder and told him, "F**k you!" Then some other background noise went on. After that, Kiel said, "Can I call you back?" I said, "Yeah," in a what-the-hell-is going on tone. Then I told him bye (a little nicer) and hung up. Then, a few minutes ago, my phone rang once, then stopped. Maybe he accidentally hit redial.

Then the SAME girl that was yelling at Kiel called me from a different phone number. Here's our conversation:
Me: Hello?
The Mystery Girl: Who is this?
Me: Sarah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call Kiel. He has a girlfriend.
Me: He does?
The Mystery Girl: Yeah. Do you know him from work or what?
Me: Yeah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call him. He's fucking stupid. He has a girlfriend.
Me: Ok. Bye.

What should I do? I want to find out the truth. I really like Kiel, but of course I don't want to be with him if he has a girlfriend. What would you do in this situation?

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kandiekisses531 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 11:56 pm:
First of all confront him and ask "who sarah, she called me after we talked" and if he has to think about it or he studders you need to find out about her. she might be a sister or best friend but the conversation with you and her seems a little sceptical. when you go to work dont just dont Kiels throat about what happened just talk to him and act a little annoyed by it... that may crack him a little bit. when he flirts with you flirt back a little but not alot just to send him a little taste of what he can have, but also dont be consistant with the questions about the phone call just ask like "what was that all about" just dont make it a big deal unitl you find out more... maybe ask one of his friends in case hes holding back in giving you information. if i was in your situation which i kinda am right now with a guy i like and who says he likes me but then comes out and says he made out with a girl who likes him but he doesnt like her... well anyway id confront him and talk about it just not interrigate him. Try just talking casually about it and asking him what was the whole thing about and see what he says, then if you need anymore help just ask me and we can see whats all going on. hope i helped!

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ilovehissmile answered Sunday December 12 2004, 11:15 pm:
well next time you see him at work get him alone and ask him what the hell is going on. Dont call him or anything until you know who that girl was and why he was denying he had a girlfriend when she said he does.

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