i have been going out with this guy for a little over a month now. i like him alot and from what i hear he likes me a lot too. we have only made out 3 times though. and weve hung out every friday night just about and a few other times at parties and stuff. his only problemis he doesnt show affection. he doesnt do the cute little things like kiss my check, put his hands around my waist, or hold my hand. i am beginning to like other guys that i know would treat me better. i really like him but what should i do?? (oh yeah im a 13 year old girl.)
Additional info, added Monday December 13 2004, 12:02 am: by the way, i dont think he is too shy. he has gotten head by this other girl before and i dont know what else.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sweeTie3 answered Monday December 13 2004, 4:44 pm: well mayb hes afraid tht you dont want it..if you wanna stay w/ him and see itll work out..try doin it first then let him take on from there..if he sees youwanan do it..then he will if he really wants to..or mayb he doesnt no wut to do..or wut grls lyke?
i mean you guys are only like 13 n 14..its new..mayb not to you..but is it for him?
PerkyPeacock answered Sunday December 12 2004, 11:23 pm: try initiating it more... maybe he doesn't know when to do those kinds of things. maybe he's not sure if you'll like it. talk to him, he may not know about it. just give him a chance before you just dump him... [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
carmextHiEF answered Sunday December 12 2004, 8:18 pm: well it's only been a little over a month. maybe he's still shy about the relationship. if he hasn't had very many girlfriends than that could be why too. i honestly wouldn't bring it up to him right away since it's only been a month and you two are still young. just give it time. maybe you could start kissing his cheek or begin to hold his hand. if you start to do that he may realize that you want that affection and he might start doing it on his own in the future. [ carmextHiEF's advice column | Ask carmextHiEF A Question ]
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