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I need help!
I'm 14 and a female. ok theres this guy that i really like and he wrote me a note and asked me if we could date, and i said i had to get to know him better. so we "talked" for three weeks and then i hear he didnt like me anymore and it was true. So i wrote him a note saying that we should just be friends, but thats not really how i felt, what do i do?
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Well .. sometimes thats how things happan but just talk to him and see what happaned between the 2 of you and why he is acting like that and ask your friends if they know anything. good luck trix
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i think you should walk up to him and say how u felt and see if he will give you another chance, and see how he fells then. check back here later, buh bye
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ask him if he is just saying that to cover up what he really htinks and stuff or wether you could give it another try because now you know each other and at the begginig you didnt which would have caued problems but now would be ok and just basically see if you could get another chance at the whole thing.
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Just tell him how you! Maybe he feels the same way as you do! When you heard that he didn't like you anymore, maybe that was a rumor? Call him or write him another note explaining how you feel! If he doesn't like you, then you just have to be friends with him and just find another guy like every other girl does! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok well-you were rite to wait to get to kno him-but as soon as you knew how you felt you shoudl have told him-and you still should-say ifwe cant be more then friends can we atleast be friends-that will show him you care-and then maybe he will start liking you again--
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talk to him about it. it could have just been a rumor. and you could have crushed any hope with that letter. time for damage control
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Well, you have two choices, and they both involve confrontment, which, btw, means talking to him. You either tell him, or write him a note saying you still like him, or asking him if you wanna go get pizza, or go to a movie with him, or you just tell him that you want to be more than friends. If not, then maybe you should move on. If you feel like its not worth it to maybe embarress yourself to see if he still likes you, then he's probably not right for you. Or, you have one more option, known as Code X. You get your friend's friend, who is friends with his friend to ask him if he likes you. If he does, make your move, and if he doesn't, I'm sorry, but u'll either have to wait it out, or find somebody else.
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Just be friends with him. You're only 14 and there will be other guys. Don't worry.
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Yeah.. I kno this story ALL to well. Tell him how you really feel & if he doesn't feel the same then move on & get a new guy! Kisses, Stephanie
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