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ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean? (link)
that means you like it and your going to organsm, its a good thing tho!


I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!? (link)
i agree but i dont think this is a question that you need advice on. so if you dont like something, send it to the makers of this site and complain to them, not us. then dont ask us for advice.


what is spooning? and dry humping? use details. (link)
i think your the girl who imed me asking me that, just im me or something.


ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and weve knnown eachother for a year and we havent really done anything yet...i go to his house every wednesday and we are home all alone..and we just havent done anything...hes not the innocent boy i mean hes not a virgin and neither am i (only once) lol....but i dont knw...weve done handjobs, fingering etc..but not oral or intercourse....he says he doesnt want to rush me into anything because he loves and respects me and my body...im really ready though too and i think he is too...we are only 16...the only fear im having is PREGNANCY! what is the best type of condom, how can you prevent it to break, etc? (link)
the best, idk, trojan? dont buy cheap ones. to prevent it from breaking, keep checking if it hasn't broke every idk, few minutes, or at least right before he goes. the only way you can get pregnant is if sperm enters your vagina. so do it with a condom, thats your best choice. and if you guys think about being together longer and stuff like that, maybe you should look into birth control. have fun! xox


me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?

what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx (link)
even a little doubt, just like that, dont do it, i dont think your ready, and i know that you guys both love eachother, but do it when YOU feel right,and i'm sure he will too! its not a big deal for him that you dont want to, because he thinks of you and what YOU want. so dont worrya bout it, do it when you feel like its right in your relationship with him. xox


My exboyfriend who im still in love w, broke up w. his girlfriend. He called me nd told me that he wanted to be friends and that he missed talking to me nd having me around. When we hang out or were around each other there's always that special bond between us, were always flirting and attracted to each other. But a few days ago he told me that he we really wanted to be friends,nd that he didn't want me to get attached to him because he really didn't know what was going to happen and he didn't want to me to get hurt.He says the reason he stoped talking to me was because his girlfriend made him, nd he told me that when he was her sometimes he just wanted to pick up the phone nd call me just too see how i was doing. But now i don't know how to handle this, this kid will always have my heart nd i couldn't picture myself w. any1 else but him. But i don't know what i should do. Im so worried that he may go back to her nd then here i am alone again, without him even as a friend. Please help me figure out what nd how i should act on this. (link)
i went thru what you went thru, and dont worry, its not that bad, most of the time when couples break up they dont talk to eachother, and hes actually wanting to be friends with you, seems like you both went out for a while together. after a while when you guys hang out, you'll start not to like him as much as you did, trust me, you get over the point that you cant have him anymore but you can have him as your best friend. xox


im a 14/f...im still a virgin..i have masterbated before(fingering myself) and i do use tampons, but if i were to have sex, would the guy feel me as being tight? or loose? (link)
you'll still be tight to him, which is a very good thing ;D, they like it. they like it alot.


i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it? (link)
well, get it waxed, shaving leaves red bumps and they itch and the hair comes in darker and thicker. xox


ok well me and my friend where arguing about htis before.. how do girls masterbate?? (link)
girls use their fingers, or other objects, like a dildo, and they turn themselves on and pleasure themselves. yea that should be right lol. xox


argh i dunno what to do. im in love with my boyfriend and stuff but he always wants to do sexual things and i dont always like to and he makes me do it. i dont wanna break up but i want to say the right thing to him to make him understand that we can do stuff just not all the time. what do i say to him !? i really dont wanna break up not at all but im so sick of this! please help! exx0hh
-c0nfused (link)
dont get pressured into doing anything! he shouldn't just use your for his sexual needs, its not right. yea when me and my bf do things, and it seems like we do stuff all the time and i dont want our relationship based on THAT, so sometimes i say no, and he insists on stuff like that but once i say know, he knows not to do that anymore. you need to talk to him about how you dont want your realationship based at that, he shoudl understand, he is your boyfriend. xox


my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8! (link)
she needs to tell her parents because one day shes going to show up at home with a kid and their going to be like whered this come from, and her boyfriend helped make it so he NEEDS to know. hopefully things work out xox


I need urgent help please, I want to print some cute coloring pages to color but I have already printed all the pages on the coloring websites I know of, so can anyone tell me any coloring page websites ASPCA please?

P.S. I want them to be very cute and I will rate a five for anyone who will name a coloring website whether or not it was a good website!!!

-Videogamegirl- (link)
so, you want like outlines of pictures that you can print out and color them? the easiest thing to do is to go to a search engine like google or dogpile, and search coloring page print outs or anything, you should get a ton =) hope ive helped!


Okay well I dont know if my boyfriend really likes me as much as he did the first time we started dating .. but it might just me I have no idea.. and I was just wondering if there are like ways that I can tell if he still likes me? Please help!xoxo

--Unknow-- (link)
hmm,i'm not quite sure if theres ways that you can find out if he does really like you as much as he did the first time, lets hope he does! does he still do the things that he used to do before? what has changed since then? anything good/bad since then? pretty much think of the pros and cons from before and now, i would think that he would still like you as much as he did before. xox


well, my friend told me that before you use a tampon there is a piece of skin that the tampon wiil break! I am 14 and i haven't started my period yet! Does it hurt the first time you put a tampon in? Is there a piece of skin? Thanx 4 helpin! (link)
idk, i learned there is a peice of skin, but its really thin and really esay to break.. so idk if there even is one, since you haven't started your period yet i dont think it broke? but like i said idk if there even is one, but the first time you use a tampon it shouldn't hurt, if it does try putting it in a different way. xox


Okay, so I started school about 5 months ago, and there are a few girls (I'm not going to say their names) and they've been really mean to me. They were spreading around rumors, and talking about me behind my back. I mean, they keep doing it! I'm so sick of it! I don't know what to do because every time I try to talk to them their always together and i mean 4 against 2... You get the picture. Please help me!
-Bethany (link)
dont waste your time with them girls, and dont show that everything that they do bother you, because once they know something that pisses you off they'll do it again, its a chain reation kind of thing, so dont show that your hurting inside because of them, dont let them bother you! their meanies! haha. xox


I went to my gyno a week or two ago becuase i have had irregular periods for about 5 years so she decided the best thing to regulate my periods and help with my acne, was to put me on the pill..so today i started my period which means tomorrow (since its sunday) will be my first day to take the pill..anyway my question is...i have heard from many people that the pill since it deals with your hormones and such it causes you to gain weight..i am very self contious and a little heavier than i would like to be as it is now..so will it cause me to gain inevitable weight??????? please does anyone know???? (link)
you can gain weight, you can loose weight, different things happen to everyone if their on birth control, sometimes nothing will change, just your period is on schedule, it just helps if you watch what you eat and you shouldn't gain weight because of the pill.


Ok im a 14 year old girl that needs help! i cant wear tampons. ever time i try to put one in it doesnt go in all the way or it hurts. I've tried many times and its just not happening. THis is the problem. Spring break is coming up and im going to florida with a bunch of ppl, Just my luck its the same week as my period. I mean i cant wear a pad with a bathing suit! nd plus there are gonna b tons of hot guys. I cant talk to my mom bout this kind of stuff bc i live with my dad and i never see my mom, and i dont have an older sister. pleaseeee help (link)
try putting your foot up on the tolite seat and putting them in there, their not sopossed to hurt at all, their sopossed to be comfortable, if you have more trouble talk to one of your best friends who wears them, they should help you, and plus you wont be embarassed to talk to them about these kinds of things. xox


i have a good guy friend that i hook up with a lot. i really like him and ive been thinking about having sex with him for a while. im not sure if he'll think im easy because were not actually together. should i just do it or wait to see if we go out? (link)
friends with benefits are always a good thing in some peoples' eyes, but going all the way with him, i'd rather wait until you guys go out, if people hear that, their going to think that your easy, and HE may even think that, until you guys go out, do whatever, but try not to have sex, but its your decision =) pick well. xox


um this is kind of a weird question, but i wake up during the night with really bad hunger pains... is there somthing wrong with me? somtimes i even feel like i'm going to puke or somthing and i wake up all hot... am i eating enough or am i eating wrong or somthing..? (link)
it could be acid or that stuff in your stomache, if not i dont know, all i know is that my boyfriend has to tilt his bed so that he can sleep without wakinig up in the middle of the night because he feels like hes going to puke and it burns.. idk if thats whats wrong with you, but try watching waht you eat before bed, i tried. xox


hey i was just wondering if you know any site were i can get lots of good love quotes and just lots of other thing. i would really like it if you chould tell me


and now for the queshtion. can you get something wrong with you like lower spots because my boyfriend of a long time fingured me and my cheepy poped and it hurt realyl bad for liek 2 days but i asked a friend and she said it was normal but i want to know what you think. and i shave to and like it looks diffrent then it ever looked or that i rmemeber because i shaved like the whole thing off and do you htink something could be wrong from getting fingured or liek it always looks like that but i never noticed. it dont look wierd it just looke like a flap of skin (link)
im trying to find a good website for all them stuff myself, sorry, but when i find out i'll let you know!. getting your cherry popped is when you break the hyman (?) or a thin layer of skin in your vagina, and it can happen anywhere anytime pretty much, riding a bike or something, idk this is what i learned, but whatever, i dont know when mine did or anything like that, so i cant really help you, but the pain should go away soon, if not go to your doctors, i wouldn't think that it would look differently down there, you may just be sore, everything should clear up really soon i would say, but like i said if not go to your doctors. xox




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