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WHAT DO I DO?
My exboyfriend who im still in love w, broke up w. his girlfriend. He called me nd told me that he wanted to be friends and that he missed talking to me nd having me around. When we hang out or were around each other there's always that special bond between us, were always flirting and attracted to each other. But a few days ago he told me that he we really wanted to be friends,nd that he didn't want me to get attached to him because he really didn't know what was going to happen and he didn't want to me to get hurt.He says the reason he stoped talking to me was because his girlfriend made him, nd he told me that when he was her sometimes he just wanted to pick up the phone nd call me just too see how i was doing. But now i don't know how to handle this, this kid will always have my heart nd i couldn't picture myself w. any1 else but him. But i don't know what i should do. Im so worried that he may go back to her nd then here i am alone again, without him even as a friend. Please help me figure out what nd how i should act on this.
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That happend to me before .. but yeah i just got to the point that i told him .. that i want to be friends and that girl cant get in between us because that is stupid i mean i liked him soo much i would do anything for him .. but he just didnt feel the same he acted like it but he didnt but yeahh .. just tell him how you feel and if he goes back to that girl then just tell her you guys can still be friends even if they are together!
hope i helped babe .. tell me how it goes ..
--brooke--
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omg thats how i feel !! im still in love with my ex !! but your lucky cause my ex doesnt talk to me much at all cept when i call for his sis ( who i am bff's with ) ( hes a year older than me ) he will talk on the phone if shes not there and say hey and ask what im doin but much other than that so you are lucky but ya like i cant ever see me with any one else ever so i know how you feel like your heart is broken and it will never heal unless you get him back !! but dotn worrie he broke up with her and as i see it he doesnt want to loose being able to talk to you !! so he wont get back with her !! i promise !! and you will never be alone again !! hes there for you !! and if you want tell him how you feel about all this !! well hope i helped some !! good luck !!! and i would really like if you would email me so we could talk !! my email is cold_burn_22@yahoo.com !!! my name is alexxa !! hope you email me !! thanks !!
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i went thru what you went thru, and dont worry, its not that bad, most of the time when couples break up they dont talk to eachother, and hes actually wanting to be friends with you, seems like you both went out for a while together. after a while when you guys hang out, you'll start not to like him as much as you did, trust me, you get over the point that you cant have him anymore but you can have him as your best friend. xox
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He obviously still really cares about you so go for it!!
You two need to talk, and now that the other girlfriend is out of the picture, there's nothing standing between you :) Figure out what you both really want, and even if it isn't each other, at least you won't both be left wondering what could have been.
If he's got any sense he'll go back to you :)
Like I said though, you two really need to get together and talk things over (maybe you could suggest a place that was important to both of you when you were going out? E.G. the site of your first date/kiss etc) now that you can! Don't let the chance pass you by!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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