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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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When I started Junior High, I noticed this guy and he seemed pretty cool. At first I kind of thought he was weird because of the way he looked (long hair,converse high-tops..etc) but then I got to know him and sort of developed a crush on him. By the end of 7th grade I became OBSESSED and one night with a box cutter, I just carved his name into my arm. He never noticed. It seemed like he had a crush on me too for a while, he would call me things like "cutie" and "sweetie" . The beginning of the year he seemed like he liked me still, and I hadn't told him about my scar. I needed to get it off my chest, so I told my friend who has him 6th period to tell him and she did. After school he looked scared and luckily he didn't see me. The next few days he would look at me and the stare at the ground. He supposedly said he "hated me" because I carved his name into my arm. It doesn't make sense, how could he change his feelings that quickly? Now he thinks I'm this weirdo. What should I do? I still have major feelings for him, even though I don't show it. Because I feel like I can't. Please help me.
The only reason he think's your a weirdo is because of this statement: "and one night with a box cutter, I just carved his name into my arm". Have you ever even spoken to him? Or did you just have your little flirtacious moments with eachother calling eachother "cutie" and "sweetie" and pet names and such? My question to you is, why the hell would you cut yourself. Let alone cut someone's name into your arm. It does make sence. He should have changed his feelings about you so quickly. You shouldn't have done that to yourself. He probably liked you and wanted to date you up until the point when he realized you were self mutilating. He probably doesn't want to be dealing with anyone that is going to be hurting themself. If you still like him and you want to date him, talk to him. Tell him that it was stupid of you to cut his name into your arm, because it was. And tell him that you'd like to have a relationship with him eventually. Of course he looked scared when your friend told him that you took out a box cutter and carved it into your arm. I don't blame him. And don't think that I don't know what you're going through because I do. I used to cut myself and I must admit that it was one of the stupidest things I had ever done to myself. You need help. Cutting is a very bad thing for someone to do.
Wut exactly does crunk mean?
According to urbandictionary.com the definition of "crunk" is the following: 1. crunk
its a mixture of the word crazy and drunk
i wanna go to a party and get crunk. Hope this answered your question.
i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help
Certian Dri. Spelt that exact way. It costs about 7-10 dollars depending where you go to get it and it works great. Follow the directions on the box and you should be fine in about a week. It's not doctor prescribed and it works great! It's like the strongest stuff out there.
i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
You should definately talk to him about it. It is no ones business what the two of you did but yours and his. Tell him that it's making you uncomfortable that he is telling people about that and you'd like it if he'd not say anything and just keep it between the two of you. He was talking about it because he was proud that he made out with someone. He probably really likes you and thinks your the hottest thing on the planet and wants to flaunt it around that he made out with you. The majority of guys are like that, so hearing this doesn't shock me in any way. Just pull him aside and say "_________ it's making me feel weird about you telling everyone that we made out. Can we just keep it to ourselves and not have the entire world know about it?" He should be understanding about it. Well, he better be understanding about it. Don't worry about it too much, it's really not THAT big of a deal, but I could see why it would bother you. Hope this helped.
Im not so sure what topic this would be placed under but...
i recived a phone call 2 nights ago on my cell phone and this guy keeps calling hes tried to have phone sex over the phone with me but i refused and i dont no who he is but he says he nos everything about me he has told me my address and street city state number of siblings and so on.. and he called me again yesterday telling me if im shy again that he is going to f*** the hell out of me till i am dead and i dont no what to do he told me i better not tell anyone because he said he would make my death more pain full... could this be a prank? or serious... im confused and dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME ASAP
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Here's one thing you should have done the first time you got the phone call. Call the cops. They can trace the phone call and then obviously have the man arrested for sexual harrassment. You could also call your phone company and have them block that number. Even if it is a prank, it's not a funny one. No one should ever prank someone like that. It causes major psycological problems for many people. Call the cops and he will be arrested. You just need to call the cops as soon as possible. No waiting around. Call NOW. Hope this helped. Also, If you go into your phone and go into the menu there should be an option for "call options" it will show incoming and outgoing calls. Find the number and the cops will trace it and have him arrested. You shouldn't have to deal with that.
I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks
Honestly, any amout of money you send to them will be put to good use. They can use the money for clothing for children, food. Trust me they will think of something to use the money for. It's very nice of you to think about those people and trying to help them out. I think you should definately send the money. Our family has sent over 100 dollars so far and every month we are sending over 20 from now on. Hope this helped.
Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away?
I sleep with make up on all the time. My eyes are never sore in the morning. I doubt it's from your make up. But anyway, wash your face with cold water and keep ice on your eyes. You'll be fine. Nothing to worry about at all. Hope this helped.
i have the habit of bitting my nails. =( i dont want to bit them...but i cant stop! i would do anything to stop bitting them!!! i dont want to bit them anymore and everytime i try to stop i just can't stop myself from bitting them! PLEASE...if you have any ideas on how to stop, please tell me!!!
They sell this stuff at wal*mart in the nail section that you put on your fingers and it tastes NASTY, you put it on your fingers and every time you go to put your fingers in your mouth, EW!!! It tastes reallllllly gross. You can try that or even putting nail polish remover on your fingers works. It tastes really bad, so you in a way train yourself not to put your fingers in your mouth. Hope this helped. **EDIT: There is this thing called "Control-It" and "Thum" It's actually a nail polish that tastes really gross. Another idea, you could also go get a nice french manicure and get tips and you won't want to ruine it.
wut are the qualitys that girls like most about guys?
A nice personality, good sense of humor, not an asshole, not wanting to get a piece of ass all the time, someone who they can talk to about anything, someone who will listen to them, someone who will tell them nice things (ie: they're beautiful/pretty/gorgeous/smart/perfect/etc.)a guy that won't cheat on them, a guy that won't flirt with other girls, a guy that gives the girl space when she asks for it, treats them well, kisses (or hug) them every chance you get, call them just to say goodnight, buys her things occasionally like flowers (girls LOVE flowers). Hope this helped.
I have a dog right now who is 7 years old - in human years. My brother and I really want another dog - a puppy- probably the same kind as the 1 I have now. But I just can't convince my parents!! Any ideas???!!
This is how I convinced my mom to get us another dog: I kept saying "But mom! Precious (my first dog)is SOOO lonely when we're not home! She has no one to play with and she's all by herself!" So one day we went to the mall and we went in the pet store and saw the CUTEST dog EVER. My brother said that we HAD to hold him. So we held him and my mom walked out of the little room where you get to play with the dogs and then the lady came back and said she needed to give the dog a bath. We walked over to the counter and my mom was filling out papers. So, that's how we got our second dog, Milo. You just have to make your mom feel kind of guilty about your other dog being home alone and not having any other dogs to play with. Hope this helped.
Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)
If she went and slept with the guy she knew you liked, then she obviously wasn't your friend to begin with. No true friend would do that. And I would have done the same thing if I was in your position she is at total fault for what she did to you and I don't blame you for what you said to they guy. If she wants to be a slut and sleep with a guy that YOU, her best friend, had a crush on, she can go and do that but it's her own stupidity because she should have at least been smart enough to know that you'd get pissed off about it. She's a fucking idiot. I don't blame you for what you did. It's her fault. Not yours. Yes, two wrongs don't make it right but in this case who cares? She betrayed you and you're pissed off about it. I don't blame you at all for what you did.
ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks
Ah I get those too! I have 2 of them right now actually. I asked my doctor about it and she said that it means you need more calcium.
What is the point in people fingering? I mean is it just for sexy feelings or what?
It's a way to get a girl sexually aroused and have an orgasm without needing to have sex. For most girls, they like it because it feels good for them and others are competely disgusted by that action and would never consider doing it.
I dont mean to have a blonde moment here, what what the heck is a stick shift???
--Clueless
Depending on which way people put it. The perverted way would be a guy's "member" while it's up. The non perverted way is this: An automotive transmission with a shift lever operated by hand. Hope this helped. And, don't mind anonYmous... he's a dick.
Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks
I still think you should give him a chance. You don't really know what he's like when he's alone with you doing nothing. My boyfriend is the SAME way. All he talks about is video games, soccer, skateboarding, paint balling, and all that crap guys normally talk about. But when we're alone together, he's so sweet. We cuddle and kiss and things like that and you wouldn't really think that he's like that just by talking to him. I think you should go out with him but don't expect for it to be like that right off the bat. Maybe after a couple of weeks of dating, he'll get more comfortable with you and will want to cuddle more and spend time with you to do the cute, sentimental things like cuddling. He expresses his intrests with you, so why not express your interests with him? You never know but you two could end up having a great relationship, you just have to give it a try. Hope this helped.
do u like the name Ashley?
i think i like Gabrielle better.
what do u think?
Hmmm, I'm not big on the name Ashley. I think it's pretty but it's getting too popular. Gabrielle is much nicer.
do u like the name Gabrielle?
Yes I do. I think it's very pretty. I have a cousin named Gabriella which is almost the same. I actually named my cousin, Gabriella Marie.
i am thinking about purchasing a floor effects process for my guitar ( digitech, boss, ect.) and need input on which one for punk/ screamo music. i rate good advice
Digitech. I asked my cousin who is in this really hard core band and he said that his guitarist liked it the most because it worked the best for him. If he had the option to get a different one he wouldn't. I swear, he acts like it's his baby.
which day/days of your cycle are you LEAST likely to get pregnant? which day/days of your cycle are you MOST likely to get pregnant, and how do you tell? be specific, dont just say "your period." and dont tell me not to have sex or use protection cause that's not what i asked. thanks!
There really aren't exact days but scientifically tested on average the days you are least likely to get pregnant 18 days after you've finished your period. Any other time after that you're chances are closer. The time you are MOST likely to get pregnant is 3 days before your expected period. Hope this helped.
okay, one of my kinda close guy friends [who likes me more than a friend] bought me a necklace for xmas... the thing is, he "forgot" to take off the price tag which was stuck on underneath the box.. it was $129.. the price tag was also inside the box kinda hidden under the necklace plate. obviously he wanted me to see how much it costed? lol what do u guyz think?
Well he obviously left the price tag on the bottom of the box there on purpose because no one wouldn't realize it wasn't there. The price tag on the inside of the box underneath the necklace thing wasn't because my boyfriend did the same thing. He had no clue there was a price tag under there and he left it on. He probably just left it there because he wants you to realize he would spend alot of money on you because he likes you. My boyfriend bought me a 200 dollar necklace and left the price tag on it. I showed him the price tag and he was like "Where was that?!??!" I pointed to underneath the necklace thing and he said "Why the hell do they have 2 freakin price tags on it?!?!" So obviously my boyfriend didn't realize it was there but your friend left it there on purpose. No one is dumb enough to "forget" that they left the price tag at the bottom of the box. Everyone actually looks on the box to see where the price tags are and takes it off.