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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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My best friend just called and told me that Michael Jackson is actually dead! I totally cannot believe this! Michael Jackson was fairly young, right? This has to be some kind of joke, prank, or VERY late April Fool's gag, right?

Is Michael Jackson really dead? When did he die then? Was Michael Jackson murdered? I need the scoop, please!

Yes, Michael Jackson really is dead. He was found in his rented home in LA not breathing. He was taken to the UCLA Medical Center and was pronounced dead at 2:26pm Pacific Standard time.

As far as the media knows, he was not murdered. They have disclaimed it as a cardiac arrest, BUT the autopsy is being done tomorrow so that could change. However, the family has asked for privacy on the matter, so it may or may not be released to the public.

im 13 and i want a job and it seems like babysittin is the best job i got so thats wat i wana do babysit or mayb some other stuff maybe typeing or something...

So what's your question?

You pretty much answered it on your own saying that you wanted to babysit.

how do i connect my ipod to my car so it can play

If your car is old school and still has a tape deck, you can go to CVS & buy a cassette tape with the cord attached. Just plug the cord into the place where your headphone goes & play your music.

If you have a CD player in your car & have the AUX option, just buy the cord for it. It plugs into the car and your iPod and that works too.

Just ask someone at Best Buy or whatever if you have a question.

what is oral s e x mmean

if you get fingered, are you still considered a virgin?

Yeah. The only way to lose your virginity is if a guy sticks his penis in your vagina.

I've been bored lately. What are really fun games to play on the internet?

I usually go on www.addictinggames.com

They have a ton of different games in different categories that are pretty fun. :)

15/f

about six months ago i razored my hair at home and i really really regret it because it made my hair really thin. is there any way i could make my hair thicker or at least speed up the growth process of my hair?
thanks(:

I used Mane & Tail to make my hair grow. It makes it longer & thicker.

You can't really speed up the natural growth process, but Mane & Tail really helps. :)

So, I'm thinking about some ideas for creating my own website. I need opinions though based on other websites and was hoping that some people here could help me out so I don't have to sign up for the ones I don't use and become active on ones I no longer use.

Question of the day is:

What do you and don't you like about MySpace?
What can be improved on MySpace? How can MySpace improve that specific flaw (or, alternatively, can it NOT be improved for certain reasons) in your opinion?

Official MySpace users only please!

Thank you so much, Advicenators! :D

I really like that you can make your profile private easier on MySpace. You just change your age or click a button & nobody can see it. I also like that you can customize it to how you want it, yet on Facebook, almost every profile looks the same. I also like that when you upload a photo on MySpace, you choose what album you want it in. Facebook doesn't let you do that unless you make an album for it to go in.

As for MySpace, I have to agree with Laura about the applications. It's mostly ones about quizzes & stuff, and it's hard to find some with meanings. I think the applications on Facebook are better. I guess for them to improve on that specific flaw, they'd have to delete it.

okay..so..there are some tattoo's that i want to get.

i'm getting them places where nobody can see them of course.

the first one i want..is my astrological sign( aries) and then my birthdate under it.

the second one i want is a barcode with my parents birthdates under it..like i'm an item of my parents.

and then i definitly want something religious.

but i dont really know what. i kinda want something that nobody else would get. like a bible verse or something.

any suggestions?? and is there a tattoo that i mentioned that i shouldnt get??

I like the ideas for your tattoos. I think the barcode thing is pretty cool, same for your astrological sign & the bible verse.

I think you should go through the Bible and read a little. If you see a particular verse that really touches you, then I would try to get that one.

If you get them, the best places to hide them are your hip (probably best for your astrological sign/birthdate). As for your barcode, maybe on the back of your neck? Your hair can hide it when you wear it down. Just be careful who you might be around when you have your hair up. If you don't want to get it on your neck, I would get it on your other side of your hip.

As for the Bible verse, you can get it on your back or one of your shoulders.

I honestly think you should wait a while before you get anything though because you sound extremely unsure of this and tattoos are not a spur of the moment thing. If you get them when you're unsure of them, you will surely regret it. Wait a little while (maybe a year or two) and see if you still want it then.

My boyfriend started touching my breast and also my vagina and licking and biting my hands. We didn't have sex (no penetration)!!

P.S. We were clothed(he was wearing thin denim and I was wearing a skirt)

When he was touching and licking me, I think I had sexual arousal and I could feel wet underwear. When I went to the bathroom I saw discharge. Could it be that I was excited and had sexual arousal or was it semen?

He didn't lay on top of me or something, but I'm worrying a bit. My period is due in 10 days.

Could sperm enter my vagina through clothes?

Any suggestions please??

The wetness you felt was your own arousal to what he was doing to you.

Since he did not stick his penis inside your vagina, and your clothes were on, you can't get pregnant. You're fine.

Can anyone tell me the brand names of good nail polish?
Stuff that wont chip within a day
Stuff that's bright
My nails are ALWAYS painted, I hate the plain look

I currently use
'Hard As Nails Xtreme Wear; Sally Hansen'
and
'NK Nail Enamel with hardners'
Please don't list 'Claire's cosmetics' - it sucks.
Thankyou (:

Oh, and please only list cheap things.

I usually go to Sally's Beauty Supply and get my nail polish. I'm not sure of some of the brands, but brands like NYC, & Wet N Wild are really good. :) Sally's nail polish is really good, and usually pretty cheap (only around $2-3). :) You can also try stores like Wal*Mart & Target, but obviously prices will vary.

So, I'm a 15 year old girl, i've recently started daiting a new boy. We get along great and he always complements me, he comes over alot(5/6 days weve been together) But almost everytime he comes over, things get a little, intence. i started my period a few days ago, so thats kinda saved me. i'm usually not sexually active much at all. but i really like this guy alot.

1. does that kinda sound like hes just sexually into me?

2. if not, what would indecate that he was?

If all he's looking for is some sexual involvement when he comes over, he's more than likely just looking for sex & nothing else.

He'll more than likely be pressuring you into it, and not listening to you when you say no. You'll know when all he wants is sex.

Please help me! I'm a 13-year-old girl in eighth grade and I have moved 2 times. I've been attending my new school for 9 months and I have only one friend. It's not that I'm not nice or that I don't want friends - I just can't seem to make them. When I meet a nice person and I talk to them, I can't think of anything to say and we just don't become friends. Everyone at school ignores and neglects me and I sit in a corner and don't talk to anyone. Do I have ADD? Help! I'm kind of...hopelessly miserable!

Being shy and having ADD are 2 completely different things.

You're shy and that's what it's preventing you from continuing a conversation with people.

ADD is Attention Defecit Disorder. It affects your attention span and you're constantly switching your concentration.

If a female masterbates can it hold off her period? If it can't is possible she's pregant? even though she's never had sex and has never seen semen let alone come incontact with it. plus she's only thirteen. is it possible?

No. You cannot become pregnant without having sex and having someone cum. And masturbating cannot hold off your period from coming.

whats cum may i know?

im almost 15 and been with my gf for 5 months
and recently she said she wants to do more not sex but other stuff and she wants to see me naked im a little worried my penis is not real big
not sure how she will react does it matter that much if its smaller do girls care?

If she really loves you, she won't care. If she cares, she's not the one & you need to drop her. Not everyone can be built like a porn star. I wouldn't worry too much. Besides, you're 15 and still growing. I'm sure you'll be okay.

Just remember if you have sex to wear a condom & make sure she's on birth control. :)

how do you speed up your metabolism?

Eat healthy, exercise, pick up a sport.

what is the easiest way to make money fast legally or illegally and not get caught

There isn't. Get a job. It takes time, but it's legal.

Wanting to do something illegal for money is stupid. Whatever it is, it can't be that serious that you're willing to risk your freedom for it.

is it dangerous for me to put crushed up benedryll or sleeping pills in someones drink if i just want them to be knocked out cold for the nightt? if so is there some other way i can do this without them knowing? i know this sounds bad but i need to sneak out and do this super romantic thing for this guy and i'm tryin not to get caught and my dad is a light sleeper. he's in good health and everything

Yes, that's bad. It's illegal to do. I do not suggest doing that unless you want to be severely punished. This is your father we're speaking of. You shouldn't do it to anyone, but especially not your own father.

Hey guys! 18/F

I have a group of friends that normally hangs out together, but lately everyone has been separated. Rachel and Sarah have a problem with Danielle and Jessica, and it is apparent. Now, I am close with both "groups", but I am definitely closer to Jessica and Danielle. Today, while I was hanging out with Rachel and Sarah, they said a few things about Jessica and Danielle. Later that night, Jessica called me and I told her a few things that they said. I did not exaggerate anything at all, but Sarah called me upset that I told them and that she expected that I wasn't going to say anything. There's nothing I can do because obviously I can't take anything back (like I wish I could). How do I make this right? I already sent a message to Rachel because I haven't talked to her easily (she's asleep). I said my apologies (I am sincere about them) but I know they will hold a grudge over me and I know I lost their trust. Is there anything I can do to fix it?

I don't think you did anything wrong. Just because they're fighting doesn't mean it gives Sarah and Rachel the right to talk shit about Jessica and Danielle behind their backs.

You were just passing something along that they deserve to know. If Sarah and Rachel weren't so skeezy and fake, they wouldn't have this problem. Fixing something doesn't happen when you can't tell someone what's up to their face. You didn't make anything worse, they did. I wouldn't worry. If they get mad at you for it, that's their problem not yours. You can't help that they're not direct.

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