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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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okay. i really need my braces off. like i got them in 6th grade. and im now a freshman! i dont wear my elastics, and if i wear them they'll come off. and to those that have already had elastics and braces, approx. how long will it take for my teeth to not have an over bite anymore? i really need my braces off!!!!
It really depends on how your teeth looked before and how they look now. Your dentist is only going to take your braces off when he/she is happy with how your teeth look, now and how much they have changed. I used to have braces and they were on for 2+ years. Some people need more work done to their teeth then others, that's why the braces stay on for a longer period of time.
I know they're annoying - been there, done that. But I guess you just have to put up with them. Keep wearing your elastics. The more you wear them, the straighter your teeth will get and the sooner you'll be able to get your braces off. Just give it some time, don't worry, they'll come off soon. Remember, in the end you'll have a beautiful smile! ♥
Every time I put on my liquid foundation it ends up looking caked and dryed out. Then it ends up wearing off an hour later. Anyways to fix this ?
You could try getting a new foundation. Maybe the one you have now isn't working with you too well - that could be way it looks caked on and dried out.
I learnt a little trick from "What Not To Wear" about make-up. When you're applying your liquid foundation, you should always apply a little bit of hand cream before. It'll help with the dried out spots. ♥
I was just wondering what the different between kissing and making out is. Where is the line drawn? What is considered making out and what isn't? Is it something that is determined by you mouth or you hands or. . . ? That's always confused me so somebody please help! Thanks.
Kissing is just a simple sweet kiss, where your hands might be places on his/her face or waist/shoulders. Kissing doesn't involve tongue.
Making out is more heavy and intense. With a lot of tongue and movement of the hands, sliding up and down you, (more towards your privates). ♥
16/m. A guy in front of me in one of my classes drew an X on the back of his hands and said something about 'straight edge'. I was too much of an idiot to ask him, so can anyone help me out on what exactly that might mean? Is it bad or no?
No, it isn't bad. It's just how some people choose to live their life and there's nothing wrong with that.
Straight edge is no drugs, no alcohol and no sex until you're married. ♥
My gramma passed away a week ago. As a grandkid, i recieve 2000 dollars. I hafta put most of it in the bank, cus my parents are making me. The rest of it, which is probly about 300 dollars, in mine to have. Any ideas on how to spend it? Im a girl, but it doesnt make a difference cus i dont like makeup and brand name clothes and stuff. Any ideas are helpful
I'm sorry about your grandmother, but it looks like you're doing a lot better, god bless. :)
It's up to you how you want to spend the money. Depending on what you like best, that's what you're probably going to spend your money on. You could buy some cute things for yourself. If you're into any sports, you could spend some money on that. You could buy some movies that you enjoy, C.D.'s that you love, even video/computer games - if you're into those things. You could buy some new clothes and shoes, anything you like. Whatever you catches your eye, get it.
You could also save a little bit of money and get some of your friends and family really nice gifts from Christmas, since that holiday is coming up, very soon. ♥
ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary
It's not scary. If you're comfortable with the person you're kissing, you'll be fine. I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
Hey, you give great advice. I'm hoping you can help me out, and answer me before tomorrow. I need a list of rock songs, that are about love, but they have to be like Emo, Punk or Hard Core. thanks soooo much!
Thanks! Well, I have a huge list of songs, they're all different types. Just go through all the songs and I'm sure you'll find what you need.
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
I hope you find what you're looking for. ♥
I'm probably gonna be getting braces soon and I was wondering some things about them. Do they hurt a lot? I know most of my friends said that they normally only hurt when you first get them & then when they tighten your wires. Do they really make kissing another person with braces harder or anything? Um, and just tell me whatever advice you have when having braces or whatever you know about them from your own personal experience, haha. Thanks!
I have had braces and they don't really hurt A LOT. They just hurt when you first get them on and when they tighten your wires. It also hurts when you get these weird rubber bands on, they all connect together and they're write. Those really hurt because they bring your teeth closer together.
Once you get your braces on, don't eat a lot of cold or hard food. It'll be a couple of days before you can get used to eating again. But I'm sure you'll be eating just like you used to once you're used to the braces.
Don't worry about kissing. Braces don't have anything to do with the way you kiss. You don't have to worry about that problem.
I'm sure you will be fine when you get your braces on. Just think, it a couple of years time, you'll have a beautiful smile. ♥
Last night, my middle school had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. I told him on AIM two months ago. He doesn't like me back in that way. That's fine. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I really like Catherine. Do you think I should ask her to slow dance?" Of course, I didn't want to show I was pissed so I said "Sure! Go for it." But now I'm trying to decide whether he's an asshole. I'm thinking maybe he thinks I don't like him anymore or he forgot, considering the fact that I told him online, at the beginning of the school year, and that I never show it (I'm never comfortable showing affection. It makes me feel like a sap.). Is this realistic? Because aside from that, he seems to be a good person. And when I say "good person" I mean genuinely nice, not like player. He respects everyone, is really sweet, friendly and funny. But what he said wasn't very nice. What do you think?
I don't think he's an asshole. He probably just forgot that you liked him, since you told him that 2 months ago on the computer. I think your best bet would be to start talking to him again. Get a really good relationship going and maybe something will spark up from there. ♥
Is Lindsay Lohan going with Talan, from Laguna Beach?
I haven't heared anything about Lindsay and Talan being together, but you never know. I'm sure if something does happen with those two, you'll hear about it. ♥
what if your boyfriend asks you to have a threesome with him and your best friend what would you do and what advice would you give to others in this situation?
If you don't want to do it, just simply tell him no. He should understand where you are coming from and he'll stop bugging you about it, if he truly cares about you.
It seems like all guys have this big thing with threesomes. What a bunch of weirdos! ♥
If you add someone to be your friend on myspace and they deny you, how do you find that out? Because i added someone who i'm pretty sure denied me but their still in the pending requests folder. However, i heard that you would not get notified if someone denied you. Does anyone know? thanks in advance.
There's no way to tell if someone doesn't accept your friend request or not. But since you still have this person in your pending requests folder, they just haven't accepted you yet. If they denied you, they wouldn't be in your pending requests folder. Maybe you should message them and see what is up? ♥
do girls boobs hips or anthing in that matter grow when they have sex.
No, they can't. ♥
My friend think she has herpers she said she has lil red bumps down there some times but there not big or anything...went to the doc. but he didnt say anything what you think?
If your friend did have herpers, I'm sure the doctor would have told her. Since he didn't say anything, I'm sure your friend is fine.
The bumps could be anything really. If she shaves, it would probably be razor burn. And if it is razor burn, tell her to use a new razor and lots of soap next time. It could also be a rash or pimples. (Hand cream will help with the redness.) ♥
i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
i just found out that one of my friendds like my boyfriend..im afraid he's going to dump me and like her..what do i do? how do i keep him!!! i love him soooo much.
Don't be worried about this if you know in your heart that he loves you. Because if he loves you, he's not going to leave you for anyone else, especially your friend.
And if your friend is truly your friend, she's not going to try anything to get your boyfriend to like her. Friends just don't do that. And if something DOES happen (not saying it will) that he dumps you and tries to get with her, she better say no. If she says yes, she isn't a true friend in the first place. ♥
so i have this boyfriend..but we dont talk a lot. i love him SOOO muchh but i always get these really weird butterflies whenever i'm around him. he doesnt act like he likes me but everyone says he likes me A TON. i wanna like hug him, kiss him and hold hands with him but i dont think we're close enough..since we dont talk a lot..how can i get close to him and non shy??? and this might seem weird but..how could i get close enough to like hug and kiss him???
I think you should make the first move on him. There's no rule out there that girls shouldn't make the first move, so I say go for it.
Just kind of brush up against him, or slide your hand on his. He'll get the hint, believe me. Maybe he's just a little shy and thinks you don't want hugs or kisses. Show him that you do want them, and you'll start getting them more often. ♥
How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think?
It depends on the person that you ask, though. Some people rather have looks over personality. Then you get others who rather have personality over looks.
I think that if you like or love someone for who they really are, looks shouldn't matter at all. It's the personality the counts. For me, I rather be with someone who isn't that good looking and knows how to treat me, then be with a hot guy that is an asshole. ♥
what does 143 mean?
1, I
4, Love
3, You
It means I love you, in a cute little code! ♥
last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!
Well, you guys were making out, so you probably ended up turning him on a bit. He might have had a boner because of that, or he could have just been crossing his hands. But I'd say, it was more then likely a boner. ♥