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Asshole or not?
Last night, my middle school had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. I told him on AIM two months ago. He doesn't like me back in that way. That's fine. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I really like Catherine. Do you think I should ask her to slow dance?" Of course, I didn't want to show I was pissed so I said "Sure! Go for it." But now I'm trying to decide whether he's an asshole. I'm thinking maybe he thinks I don't like him anymore or he forgot, considering the fact that I told him online, at the beginning of the school year, and that I never show it (I'm never comfortable showing affection. It makes me feel like a sap.). Is this realistic? Because aside from that, he seems to be a good person. And when I say "good person" I mean genuinely nice, not like player. He respects everyone, is really sweet, friendly and funny. But what he said wasn't very nice. What do you think?
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I don't think he's an asshole. He probably just forgot that you liked him, since you told him that 2 months ago on the computer. I think your best bet would be to start talking to him again. Get a really good relationship going and maybe something will spark up from there. ♥
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I don't think he was deliberately trying to hurt you. He probably thought you didn't like him anymore and that you were just good friends and he wanted your advice. From what you've said about him, it doesn't seem like he said it because he wanted to upset you. Don't be mad at him, I know it's upsetting that he doesn't feel that way about you but you just have to value his friendship and find someone else.
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