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Um...Foursome anyone?


Question Posted Monday November 14 2005, 8:45 pm

Alright. Now I don't know how I got into this whole mess, but if you've answered my questions before, you know that I rate fives for any answers. Because I'm cool like that..

Anyways. Alright, I'm dating this guy, and we've been dating for 3 months now. I've also been dating this other guy for 1 month. The 1 month guy knew about the 3 month guy. I was going to try to break up with the 3 month guy, but I couldn't because I really care for him. The 1 month guy and I have wanted to go out for a year and a half, but couldn't until now because of age difference.

Now there is this other guy that likes me. He's all affectionate towards me, but the trouble is, I like it and want to return it. He knows that I have a boyfriend also...

AND if that isn't enough....there is this ABSOLUTLEY wonderful girl named "Katie" who we decided we want to go out. Now she knows about 1 month guy, 3 month guy, and the new guy...

What in the hell should I do..

and don't say "pick one".


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lyDia_LoU answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 11:08 pm:
I think it's between 1 month guy and the affectionate guy.. but you threw me off at the katie part... Go a month or so seeing those 2 boys before making your choice Try asking the affectionate one on a date or to hang out, so you can pick! Pick on! lol jk, but soon enough you'll have to, it'll be hard but it's only fair on those boy's minds.

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gamerz1991 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 5:16 pm:
you probaly should think about it on your own...take a break and break up for a short while...you must know whats the best for you

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sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 12:02 am:
They should all know about each other. You need to calm down and figure out who you want to be with. If you can't decide pick the person that you have the most fun with (I don't mean that in a sexual way). If you really really can't make a decision, take a break from the dating scene for awhile because cheating is never a good choice. I hope I was able to help a little, if not more. Good luck!

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iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Monday November 14 2005, 9:58 pm:
break up with both guys and just tell everyone that you are confused right now and you'll go on dates..but your aren't ready to be anyone's girlfriend. that will give you time to figure things out. =).

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RockStoleMySoul answered Monday November 14 2005, 9:11 pm:
Hmm.... I think you should go with the one who makes you feel the most special.

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Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Monday November 14 2005, 8:55 pm:
It sounds like you should not be commited to anyone. You should just date casually until you figure out who you really like. That way you don't feel guilty and noone really gets hurt as long as they understand where you stand.

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