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Q: Why doesnt anyone like me-like love
Aww its not that noones like you its just maybe that you dont relize that someone likes you. How old are you? YOu might be just young and it might seem like everyone around you had a bf but thats not always true. You just gotta look to the boys on the left of you instead of on the right.. thats how i look at. There is alot of guys out there trust me hun. Dont worry about guys are guys and there will be alot in your life. Just wait for awhile.. trust me-trix

Q: My computer for some odd reason just started to go very slow, and akes awhile for everything to load on it. We just took it to a 'computer doctor' in may, and its doing the same things over again. We have more popups and the internet doesnt come up right away now. So, Instead of paying another 70$ to get it fixed again, what exactly do I have to do to stop all of this? Even as I type this now, the popups keep coming and interupting me. I just cant stand this anymore, can someone just please tell me wht to do!? Thank you very much.
_janine_*
You might have a virus. You might want to reboot it or whatever-trix

Q: 14/f my friend got mad at me because of something i said. i didnt mean for it to hurt her at all, and actually i dont think its rude in any way at all. i told her i was sorry and she refuses to talk to me now. what should i do
Just let her know you wouldnt intentionally hurt her. You never do such a thing. Just say she is taken it from a diff. point of view then she is. Tell her your point of view and this is how you saw it and you didnt see it as a rude comment. Just send her a email or give her a phone call-Hope everything works out-trix

Q: my cousin and i are really not on good terms right now but it is really horrible because hes best friends with my old friend thats now being a jerk to me and getting everyone to hate me and he is also going out with my friend who is also becoming best friends with my old friend its horrible because now my friend is introdusing all of the guys that i like to my old friend and now she is going out with all of them and getting them to turn against me which is horrible because i really like my cousins best friend and he just went out with my old friend and my old friend even got my cousin to hate me i know that this is confusing but i have no clue what i should do what should i do??
Everybody hates you... dang that sucks. Just try to be the better person in this situation I know thats hard to do but it shows that you are strong and if they relize that it doesnt effect you when they turn on you then they will sooner or later give up-trix

Q: I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me


Rachel
she sounds 2 faced to me.. thats all i really can think of i would just talk to her and see why she does... maybe see if she treats anybody like you-trix

Q: HI,
Ive got a book jammed down the back of the radiator and I need to get it out. I can't get it out the bottom or side of the radiator, only the top. I can't fit my arm through the top to get it. How on earth do I get it????
Zoinatrobe
i don't really know how to answer that one except.. a long stick

Q: ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP
I would just tell your mom. If you dont want her hurt then you should tell her.-trix

Q: What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me
Well she is puttin alot on you I would maybe tell your mom.. Then let her handle the situation which will be her probably calling the police... just dont let her know that you did.. and go from there. or you could call the cops and tell them everything and about the threat and have the cops tell the kid that a guy called an reported it

Q: WHAT DO you MAKE MONEY OFF UR WEB PAGES?
no.. ?! lol

Q: Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present
Hey!! wow!! im so glad i am here to answer this!! haha well me and my bf have been together 8 months he came over on dec. 21st to see me and i havent heard from him sense sat. uhh i dont feel like he loves me as much as i do. I just want the same loving in return and thats what you want to rite? When we hang out its heaven when im away.. its sucky. I doubt he is using you. He does like you but maybe he is like my bf and isnt a phone person but will talk on the phone and will talk but isnt as awesome as in person. My bf got me a christmas gift.. but idk why yours wouldnt thats a lil wierd. I would just talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. I spilt to my bf the other month i was like NATHAN I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON I FEEL LIKE YOUR SLIPPING AWAY I LOVE YOU AND I DONT WANT US TO BREAK Up!!! and i was crying.. uhh but he comforted me.. we've been closer but sometimes i still get that feeling! if you need more help or more stories that i think you could relate to im here. lol im still wide awake so feel free to ask away-trix (plz rate)

Q: I have this friend and her birthday is in a couple of days. We are trying to figure out sumthin ReaL CrAzY and alot of fun to do, but we cant think of anything-- ANY sugestions?!!?
i would grab a bunch of friends and go to her house and surprise her! I did that for my friend like 2 years ago.. she loved it. Or you could all go to the mall and have a shopping spree!! (trix) plz rate

Q: there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?
Sometimes people dont relize they are flirting. I get told im a flirt.. but i never notice it. It just might be his way of being nice-trix (plz rate)

Q: what is a swinger??? or swing
Its pretty much having someone that you are with have another speacial one in there life

Q: i still cant stop wat i look at on my computer, i have tried everything, but, i feel farther and farther away from god every time. Please help
Like I said before.. get a parental thingy on your computer. Just block them. Block them-trix

Q: I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?
I cant really help you get a guy but i can tell you that guys are real mean to at such as a age when we are teens. I mean look at the adults.. alot of ugly people are married. I doubt your ugly but if you truelly think so im sure you'll be married and will be fine. A guy will love you for you and thats all-trix

Q: I got a call today from a modeling agency- and they want to interview me on sunday. If I get the job- they are going to be paying me 75-100$ per hour! I need some tips on things to do to prepare, and any advice that has to do with modeling. I really need this job, so some advice would be amazing. Thank you so much!
Well when i did that they didnt let me wear make up so rest up excercise and clean your face.. and if they make you pay for the pictures they are fake!-trix

Q: I'm a 16/m thats moving from California to Rhode Island. its the biggest change of my life and i'm not sure what to do about it. How will i ever fit in?? How do i get accepted by my peers? Whats that style/fashion there? Can anyone give me advice on how to make a smooth transition into Rhode Island?? Thanks!
Don't sweat it. I moved from NJ to Kansas from kansas to denver from denver to missouri and ect. But dont worry My dad told me this "just look at moving as meeting new friends and havingt them all over the U.S" thats pretty cool. Knowing people from all over i thought about that and i have more friends then half my friends because they are just from here. I have friends from NY, NJ, FL, KC, MO, MN, WY, ND, and Co. Even moving 15 min. out of your old city into a new city and going to a new school can be hard even though your close to yours friends.. but i still know what you are going thru. So dont sweat the friend part because if you are a social kind of kid you shouldnt have a hard time. Just be nice and be like hey i just moved here.. my name is **** whats yours? Rhode Island.. is pretty much just like any other style actually I just talked to someone from there on my column and yeah they showed me there pic on the advice column and it looks pretty much like any other state. Just be nice and friendly!! good luck sweetie!! -trix ((rate me plz)

Q: im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman?
I dont think you would be considered a hoe.. i mean its only 2 years older then you not a huge difference. And i dont think you are related.. because its like your sisters husbands brothers son.. or your sisters husbands sisters son so thats a long line.. so i dont think that would be considered going out. I would really worry about it. You dont really have to have people recognize him like that either. You dont have to be like o yeah im going out my sisters husbands nephew.. you dont gotta do that.-trix plz rate

Q: wat is eye candy?

i rate very high.
This could fit into your category you put this is in lol.. but yeah anyways it means like adorable cute or sexxy hot or whatever... its a good name.. so if someone said you were eye candy to them.. thats good

Q: I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.

twin delama
Well the older you get the more people are going to swear around you. If they swear it doesnt mean he will to. You just have to talk to him about this sort of stuff. You sound young so just to let you know that there will be drugs, swearing, sluts, and ect., first loves coming up and you guys need to stick by eachother.-trix

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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