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So I'm looking for a song with a girl vocalist, and about confidence, similar to the Ashlee Simpson song "Love Me for Me" where it says "here I am, perfect as I'm ever gonna be" I know thats not exactly confident, but I liked the phrase, so something similar to that? :) (link)
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*Wrong by Kimberly Locke
*Stronger by Britney Spears
*Rockstar by Prima J
*I Belong to Me by Jessica Simpson
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most of my friends all have boyfriends and i'm the only single one and so when they hang out with their boyfriends i usually end up just staying at home because i don't have a boyfriend. a lot of guys think that i'm pretty and i've had a few like me but they just are never interested in being in a relationship with me. i've been trying to get with this guy for a couple months now but the problem is that the way it started is that we had sex and when we kept talking i started to like him as more than a physical relationship but now he just wants sex and doesn't want a relationship. i've been having a really hard time lately wondering why no one seems to want me. how can i work on getting a relationship? (link)
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That's not true, I'm sure plenty of guys do like you and want to be with you -- they just aren't stepping up. Believe me, in my experience, many guys do that for even years. I want to say that you don't need a guy to make you happy, sometimes you're happier without them (I am right now). But I can also understand how you're feeling because I've been there. So I looked up something for you that I think you'll find helpful. =)
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/getabf.htm
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16/F For Halloween I thought of being "A myspace addict", but how could I portray this in an obvious way? I'd be wearing this to school and have to dress accordingly which pretty much defeats the purpose, but you get the idea...
any other costumes I could consider being because I'm not thrilled with the one I thought of...?
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The only way I can think of portraying a myspace addict is to go and buy one of the t-shirts that say, "You looked better on Myspace" or I've actually seen t-shirts that say "Myspace Addict" on them. You'd probably have to spend a lot of time looking for them, though.
Here are some other costume ideas, they're on this page.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
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when is daylight savings time??? (link)
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It's next Sunday, November 4th.
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http://tinyurl.com/2jq3tq
The caption for this pic on facebook says "innapropraite."
Why? (link)
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I have no clue, it's definitely not inappropriate. I recommend contacting Facebook and asking them to fix this problem.
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Does anybody know can I connect my computer to the internet using my sony psp as the wireless adaptor? (link)
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Unfortunately, you're going to need an actual wireless adapter -- nothing else will work.
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Ok I hope this isn't weird, but do you think it's ok to get nail clippers and clip your eyebrows
i just want to clip one, cause there's one under my right eyebrow, and it's annoying, and it looks weird.
but would it grow back?
do you think i should get them waxed?
i mean, i thought it'd be ok cause people PLUCK them, but i can't do that, i know its going to hurt, but if i hafe to, i guess i will.
but if i hafe to do that, can someone give me a site, to explain how to do it.
or is it just simple, grab the hair and pull it?
thanks a bunch. (link)
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If it's going to hurt by plucking, don't you think it would be worse with nail clippers? Believe me, it would defintely be worse. And it will do a poor job. Especially, if it's only one hair, just take your tweezer, latch on to the hair and pull. Do not yank, just pull (many people yank the hair really hard, and that's why it hurts).
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i'm 15/f...there's this guy in my 2nd period and he's ALWAYS flirting with mee..like he won't stop...but then agian he flirts with every girl...but he flirts with me the most..he grabs my sides...or tickle me..and talks to me alott...he has'nt asked me if i'm single of not yet...i can't tell if he likes me or if i'm a girl he likes to flirts with.. (link)
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This is one of those situations where it could really go either way. He either really likes you and is just a natural flirt, but flirts the most with you because he does like you. Or he could just be a natural flirt and just tends to flirt more with you, than other girls. I honestly cannot tell you which one it is, but it is one of the two.
Not to make this about me, but this may help you or could be the case. I was in the exact same position as you, I liked the guy and he said he liked me, yet he flirted with EVERY single girl. It never worked out, not to say he didn't like me because he did, but he wanted all those other girls too. So that could be the case with the guy who you think may like you.
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ok im turning 16 in may. and i want to start planning. or at least get some ideas for a party. like what me and my friends can do. im inviting like 13 people. no drinking, no drugs. and at my house. maybe a bomfire. is that stupid considering its in may?? (link)
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I don't think it's stupid, my 16th birthday is in July and me and my best friend are already planning it, and her's too (her birthday is in September). What we're doing is looking at this site and getting ideas from it, and getting stuff cheaper for substitues. Unless you're rich, you'd have to.
www.mysupersweet16.com
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well, about three months ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had been dating for about five months(we have been on and off for about two years though). Well, four days after we broke up he started dateing this other girl who is just well strange, and well now, i like him again, and yeah he goes out with this other girl still but it seems like he flirts with me alot.
FOR EXAMPLE:
-he texts me alot.
-he always tries to hang out with me.
-whenever i bring up another guy he is always curious if i have done anything with him.
-when he found out that i had a bf(a few mohts ago but we broke up) he acted kinda pissed, and then he decided that he didnt care...
do you think he actually like me or do you think that hes just being nice? (link)
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My best friend is going through the exact same thing! I'm going to say the same thing to you as I would to her, this guy definitely still likes you. I think he's with this other girl just to make you jealous. I would talk to him about it and see what he has to say, he may want to get back together with you and not no how to say it.
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hi i need to know who wrote this poem, i need the name of the person. i tryed many reasuerch but it only says "staff" from this magzine thing. heres the poem link.
thanks
http://www.animalliberationfront.com/Saints/Authors/Poetry/Choose.htm (link)
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I agree with the previous columnist, "The Staff of AnimalLiberationFront.com" would be the best I can think of as well.
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k soo im 15/f, sophomore, and i have these 2 best friends. yesterday after school we went to one's house..but..my best friend,"A", decided to leave at around 5:00. because she was BORED. and "tired". ok, so we were watching america's next top model..it was raining outside..we couldnt think of anything else to do. but she wanted to go home. k so youre probably like,whats wrong with that? she ALWAYS does it! the week before we were at my house and she left at 9:00 or something , while my other friend stayed till 10. and she even made her sister go home just because she wanted to go home. her 11 year old sister would stay out later than her! it's pathetic and we're 15 almost 16! i know our town is pretty boring, most of the time we only go out to eat and hang at each others houses-we couldve went to the movies, but she finds those boring too. the mall, but we couldn't get a ride..i suggested bowling, she didn't want to. it's like nothing satisfies her. and seriously i'd rather do nothing with my best friends than do nothing by myself. i dunno what her problem iss. and also we went to my other friends house yesterday, but she wanted to go to mine cuz somehow "it's the most fun" i don't know how, i really don't see how it's so much fun. but we had hung out at my house the last probably like 4 fridays, and my mom was like getting annoyed cuz she had the responsibility and if we didnt go out to eat, she had to cook or order pizza. so i don't know what to do anymore, i actually told her when she left yesterday that like, why does she always leave so early. of course she denied and just said she wanted to go home because she was tired and had "stuff" to do.
i'm just sick of this! like it makes me mad cause we have so much fun together, i don't understand her though. she ALWAYS leaves early just because she gets bored. what should i say to her? what can we DO that's not "boring"?! is this ridiculous or what ugh. thanks so much, sorry it was so long! (link)
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I'm the same age and I don't know about her, but I always leave my friends' houses early. I don't like staying out late at night, that's just how I am (you would hate me, haha). Maybe, that's the way your friend is too. Or maybe, something is going on at home and she's not telling you about it. There could be something wrong, I wouldn't be mad at her I'd just talk to her about it.
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This is a VERY sticky scene here (link)
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Assuming you're the same person I've been talking to here, I agree. Did you look at the website? I think it has some helpful info there.
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What will they do to her now I'm scared (link)
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I honestly don't know, they'll probably put her somewhere until they think she isn't suicidal. Do you happen to have a school counselor or a counselor in general? If so, talk to that person about it. You don't have to name names, you can just talk to that person and they can tell you what to do. Because I'm not an expert, but I really am trying to help. Oh, I found something for you.
http://www.twu.edu/o-sl/counseling/SelfHelp032.html
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Thanks but there's still a problem she will still kill her self tho I don't want her dead (link)
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You don't have to tell her that you're calling a hotline. You can just ask them what you should do. Or do you mean she's planning on killing herself? Cause if so, you should report it to the police or call a suicide hotline, or something. You have to do something.
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I don't know what you said about her dad he died what do I do (link)
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I asked you what would he do if she told him, but I'm very sorry about that. My dad passed away too. My best advice to you is to call a hotline, if you're not sure what the number for a hotline like this is, I can look it up for you. Just please, let me know. Because they'll know exactly what to do, and you don't have to give them any names whatsoever, just to talk.
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She will really kill her NO JOKE I wouldn't be joking about thing kind of stuff her mom is VERY voilent (link)
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Ok, bad idea of telling her mom. What do you think her dad would do or say?
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She will kill her self if I do I don't want her dead and if she doesn't kill her self than her mom will (link)
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You really think her mother would kill her? Or is that just something you're saying?
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does anyone know of an UP to date website that talks about where the recent cal fires are.
thanks. (link)
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Here you go.
http://www.calfires.com/
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I wanted to know if you masterbate and start bleeding if its nothing to worry about and if your bleeding and you start masterbating if its safe or not (link)
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From my understanding, it's not safe either way. You shouldn't be bleeding for no reason, or because of what you're doing. Doesn't sound normal. If this is happenening to you, I recommend getting checked out.
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