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no body wants me
most of my friends all have boyfriends and i'm the only single one and so when they hang out with their boyfriends i usually end up just staying at home because i don't have a boyfriend. a lot of guys think that i'm pretty and i've had a few like me but they just are never interested in being in a relationship with me. i've been trying to get with this guy for a couple months now but the problem is that the way it started is that we had sex and when we kept talking i started to like him as more than a physical relationship but now he just wants sex and doesn't want a relationship. i've been having a really hard time lately wondering why no one seems to want me. how can i work on getting a relationship?
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That's not true, I'm sure plenty of guys do like you and want to be with you -- they just aren't stepping up. Believe me, in my experience, many guys do that for even years. I want to say that you don't need a guy to make you happy, sometimes you're happier without them (I am right now). But I can also understand how you're feeling because I've been there. So I looked up something for you that I think you'll find helpful. =)
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okay first off lose the "nobody wants me" act! pretty soon if thats what you believe its what you become! second just talk to him about--some guys think they dont deserve girls so they get shy and chicken out and wait for you to make the first move. so just dont give it up so early--wait until your in a committed relationship--it saves you in the long run...so yeah just talk to them and see whats going on in his lil noggin!! hope i helped!
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Lose the "nobody wants me" routine else nobody will want you, and only people who want to use you will remain.
Unless you only want a physical relationship, tell him to buzz-off, and move on, he is not interested in you.
Go out and meet new people, and forget about getting a boyfriend.
Then when you know someone you like (maybe you already do), and he doesn't make a move (week or two), go ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet. Alot of great guy's think alot of great girls are too good for them (because of looks, fashion sence, etc.), and in many cases its not true. They are interested but they won't make a move.
However! Doing this with someone you have just met may come across as being a little slutty.
Best of luck!
BTW. Do you stay in South Africa and are you at least 17 by any chance?
mail me! ;)
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